I didn't study hard in college and now I have no job. Of all my relatives, I have the highest education, but the worst. Now I dare not go back to play jokes on my relatives. What should I do?

You know that your parents have high expectations of you, and you can see your present situation clearly, which is worthy of recognition, because you are right about your present situation.

The situation can also be accurately located. Now that I understand, there is still a chance, which is better than nothing! But you are obviously not confident enough. You are losing confidence in yourself. So, first of all, you have to believe in yourself. You have a degree and some work experience, and your parents give you a steady stream of motivation (turning pressure into motivation), so you can certainly do better, slowly achieve your goals, slowly make your parents live better, and slowly make your relatives and friends look at you with new eyes.

I suggest you, first of all: have a clear position for yourself, what do you want to do and what can you do?

Then: charge your goals to make yourself more knowledgeable and capable;

Finally, you need a platform to fully demonstrate and improve your abilities. This requires you to be patient to find a good job (you like it, the company is good, and the boss is good). After waiting for a year or even half a year, you will definitely change.

I wish you success!