What should a daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law do when they quarrel?

This is normal. Children need more care from adults before they are three years old, so many things naturally upset them. Your mother is not her own mother, so it is normal for her mother-in-law to say a few words. Anyway, as a husband and son, we must bear it first. You can't just ask your mother not to have a small home. That's not worth it. After all, it is impossible to divorce casually. Divorce is too tiring. Of course, you have to appease your elders. After all, there is only one mother.

No matter what the mother-in-law says is right or wrong, the daughter-in-law will not be too happy. This is human nature. Normally, I don't recommend that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together. There are too many contradictions. If you can't live together, comfort your wife in the back and tell her to make way for some old people, and then buy her some jewelry. Don't publicly show who you support when they are arguing and pretend to be unhappy. They all feel sorry for you, so forget it. Take your time. After a long time, it's better to live separately.