Mother-in-law: "It's unfair that my son has a suite and my daughter has a suite." Should my sister-in-law be an outsider?

In real life, it is simply the envy of everyone to have such a life. There is no other reason. Some people have exhausted all their strength just by living. It is really a luxury to have a full meal, clothes that suit you and the freedom to choose how to live.

In this way, Wan Ling and her recently married husband stood at the highest point of their lives. They don't have to worry about food and clothing for the rest of their lives. As long as they don't get into bad habits, their life journey will be smooth. But people's hearts are not easy to satisfy, especially after getting something easily, they will want to have more.

Wan Ling's heart was warmed by her husband's love, but she was awakened by reality. In her opinion, sister-in-law is a married woman like herself and can't interfere in family affairs at will. That's what she did. She wanted her sister-in-law to do the same. Don't cross the line.

What she doesn't understand is that both parents and in-laws, as elders, are distressed by their daughters' kindness. No one wants to watch their children live a down-and-out life, so many people make plans early and contribute to their children's future life.

In fact, Wan Ling inquired about her mother-in-law before she got married. I heard that she doesn't prefer boys to girls, but a pair of children are always treated fairly, and she will buy her own food and drink. It can be said that in order not to let the children feel wronged, the mother-in-law tries to make a bowl of water flat.

At that time, Wan Ling was very happy. After all, when I was a child, my mother and grandmother said it was difficult to obey. They held their brother in their hands, and she became a lump in the mud.

Living together for many years, Wan Ling didn't realize that she was more or less influenced by the ideas of her mother and grandmother, although she was eager to prove that she had left her family of origin. But when she married her in-laws, she saw her mother-in-law buying food and clothes for her sister-in-law, and her jealousy and unwillingness explained the problem.

In order to get the respect of her in-laws as soon as possible, she didn't agree to some demands of her mother and brother, although she was scolded that she was a phoenix that was already high above her, and her heart was so proud that she ignored her brother. She didn't compromise, telling herself that life can be changed and just forget those troubles.

Wan Ling was busy adapting to her husband's life, but she was completely angered by her mother-in-law's "fair" treatment. The family was eating soundly that day, but her mother-in-law announced that the newly bought house was decorated. If Wan Ling and her son find it inconvenient to live in their hometown, they can move there at any time.

The house my mother-in-law said was the wedding room of Mr. and Mrs. Wan Ling at that time. Due to the temporary revision of the drawings, she could not move in when she got married. Wan Ling don't have to read her mother-in-law's mind all day, naturally very happy. However, her mother-in-law's next words made her feel sore throat.

"Mother went to see the suite and the decoration was quite satisfactory. Sure enough, the money was spent in place and the effect was different. No, the house I gave your sister was also decorated according to your standards. She was very satisfied with it! "

Mother-in-law said happily, and added some chopsticks to Wan Ling. Ke Lingwan felt a twinge in her heart. She didn't know that her mother-in-law would buy a suite for her sister-in-law. She couldn't hold back for a moment, so she said, "Mom, it's not fair. We agreed to buy us a house. We are going to get married, how can we buy a set for our sister-in-law? "

"One suite for the son and one suite for the daughter. Is it unfair? " My mother-in-law asked her in wonder.

"XiaoGuZi will get married in the future, she is an outsider, in my opinion, shouldn't buy this house for her. Mom, if you have money, why don't you think about your future grandson? "

Mother-in-law was so angry at Wan Ling's words that she dropped her chopsticks on the spot. Then she took a deep breath and said to Wan Ling, "First of all, your father and I have saved money for many years. How to spend this money, you and my son can't manage it for the time being. " Secondly, my son and daughter have always had a little bit, and there must be another point. There is no such thing as an outsider If you treat yourself as an outsider, I can't help it. Finally, I bought a house for my daughter, which is a guarantee for her. If you and my son have the ability, you can do the same in the future. Your father and I won't have any problems. "

Wan Ling's husband got up quickly, grabbed her and left. He also said, "Mom, that's not what she meant. Buying a house for my sister is not an agreed thing. We have work to do. Let's go out first. "

Many times, we all live in other people's hearts, perhaps because we have never experienced the same thing, and we want to learn from what others do. Ironically, in the end, we just made a decision made by others and never considered whether it was right or not.

Wan Ling didn't think she was wrong. She lived for more than 20 years, and all she saw was that other people's daughters subsidized their parents' families. She has never seen her mother-in-law buy hundreds of thousands of houses for her daughter. Isn't it a joke to spread it out? She didn't think it over. Everything my mother-in-law said was about her, and she really regarded her as a family.

On the contrary, her husband did not persuade her, but only said to her: "This is our family, and it will be the same whether you have a daughter or a son in the future."

Wan Ling was uneasy about the center of the earth, so she put it down. But she knows that if it is her own, it really can't be so generous. Although she is also a woman, she can't force herself and others.

The Wan Ling incident reminded the girls. First, you should know how to cherish a good mother-in-law. Don't lose all goodwill because of your shortsightedness.

There is no doubt that the mother-in-law that Wan Ling is facing now may be the mother-in-law that many girls are obsessed with. She can quit her son's life generously. The advice she gave was the truth that she really understood after experiencing the hardships of life.

Experience is the most rare, especially sensible experience.

Second, people should know how to be content. Some things can't be seen from your own point of view. You have been wronged, others may not have experienced it.

A greedy person will slowly embark on a road of no return, because her heart is full of desires, and repeated satisfaction will only make her wander between gain and loss. That's how pain often happens. Therefore, when you feel that you can't get something, think about how much you already have and feel at ease, so that you can find your own happiness in marriage.