Children are always nervous when their parents in dirty clothes pick them up? What should parents pay attention to when picking up their children?

We often say that inner beauty is the real beauty. When going out, dressing generously and appropriately is the basic courtesy to others, and it is also a way to respect others' performance and enhance your self-confidence.

Although everyone has been advocating inner beauty, the initial impression of a person often begins with appearance.

Many mothers spend less and less time on themselves after giving birth because of lack of energy. Although I think it is for the sake of children and families, children may not be considerate.

The mother hasn't dressed herself for a long time, and the child feels humiliated.

After giving birth, neighbor Xiaoli spends less and less time on herself. She takes care of her children and family hard every day and has no time to take care of herself.

Sometimes I want to buy a lipstick, but I think this price can buy a good can of milk powder for my children. Such a comparison will dispel the idea of buying lipstick.

Last week, Xiao Li sent his son to school. As a result, at the end of kindergarten, her son didn't want to go with his mother.

Xiaoli was afraid of danger and pulled her son to her side, but her son quickly ran a few steps forward and said to Xiaoli, let's go separately. I don't want my classmates to see you.

Xiaoli was puzzled by her son's words, and only after asking the reason carefully did she know that other children's mothers were wearing makeup, high heels and skirts, and only Xiaoli was wearing sportswear and sneakers, so she sent her son to school without trimming.

I don't even wear the most basic lipstick. Students always laugh at my son having a mother in the countryside, and I don't want to play with Xiaoli's son.

My son is laughed at by his classmates, and naturally he doesn't like the way his classmates look at his mother. Xiaoli realized that in fact, children are proud, and not dressing up will hurt their self-esteem.

From then on, Xiaoli paid attention to her dress, and her son never gave up.

A mother who doesn't like dressing up will make her children feel inferior.

Many women complain that they have no time after becoming mothers. I also want to show my best to my children, but a lot of housework makes me have no extra time to dress up.

Economic conditions are much better now. If other mothers often look glamorous, and their mothers look old and ugly, such visual differences can easily make children dislike their mothers.

The ugly mother will also make children feel that they have no face at school, which will lead to their inferiority complex.

People nowadays prefer beautiful things, especially children, who are immature and easily influenced by the outside world.

If the little friends around the child think that the mother is not good-looking, the child will also look at her with prejudice. If you are laughed at by others because of your mother's appearance, children will even hate your mother, which will lead to the alienation of parent-child relationship.

A mother who loves to dress up makes her children more confident.

Will the child look better or uglier than the mother? If you are praised by your child's friends, you will be regarded as a very proud thing by your child and feel that you have a good face in the circle of friends.

Mothers who love to dress up often pay more attention to some details of life and career, and if their children are affected, they will get extra points in the future.

If children are often praised by people around them, they will be more confident, more willing to make friends with others and have a better personality.

In this face-first society, many people rely on their impressions of this person through their own intuitive feelings. As a mother, we should set a good example for our children, so that not only the appearance looks beautiful, but also others will be pleasing to the eye.

Children are like flower buds, they need the care of their parents, and it thunders and rains. I am a bud-protecting mother, accompanying you on the road of parenting, giving children and myself more possibilities. If you have any problems, please write privately. I hope it can bring you inspiration and relief.