"Son, get the girl who doesn't want the bride price back." "Mom, she's married." What should I do?

Women must be sober, because sometimes your so-called love is just a joke in the eyes of others. All the humbleness you have paid for love is only your own humbleness in the eyes of some people.

Never say that you only care about whether that man loves you or not, and don't care about other people's opinions at all. Believe me, if a man really loves you, he will care about the grievances you have suffered.

He can turn a blind eye, which only means that he thinks you should be wronged.

Xiaocui is the kind of girl who only marries love. When she first brought her partner Shen Ming home, Shen Ming's parents didn't want to.

Not to look down on Shen Ming's background, but because Shen Ming bought a bag of apples when he first met his parents-in-law, which was the kind of apples processed by the roadside. Xiao Cui's mother looked at the bag of fruit, as if she saw the position of her daughter and family in Shen Ming's heart. Parents think that Shen Ming has no sincerity to marry Xiao Cui.

Xiao Cui thinks that her parents are too picky. Do you have to buy a lot of things when you meet for the first time? Parents attach too much importance to material things.

Because Shen Ming's family was poor, Xiao Cui didn't ask Shen Minggu for a penny when she got married. She wants to marry Shen Ming early, and she doesn't care about the bride price or anything.

Xiao Cui married Shen Ming's family in this way, for her sincere love.

In the eyes of some mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law loves her son very much, but she is shameless. And if her son loves his wife very much, she will think his son is a failure.

Xiao Cui is very kind to Shen Ming's parents because she loves Shen Ming deeply after marrying Shen Ming. However, Shen Ming's parents despised her very much. Shen Ming's parents have a very embarrassing idea: women want a bride price, but they can't afford it. Women don't want bride price, they think such women are too cheap.

Mother-in-law looks down on Xiaocui, so she often speaks ill of Xiaocui in front of her son: "What's wrong with her not wanting a bride price? Does she have many ex-boyfriends? Is she the kind of woman who can't get married? " Son, you have to be careful. You can't give him money at home You give it to mom, and mom keeps it for you. "

Shen Ming explained to her mother that she and Xiao Cui really loved each other, and Xiao Cui didn't want a bride price. But Shen Ming's mother didn't believe it at all: "How much of this woman is sincere now? If you don't give the money to your mother, she won't sleep well. "

Shen Ming doesn't want to give it, but her mother wants it every time she pays Shen. It's not the lack of this at home, but the lack of that at home, or someone from a relative's family borrowed money. Anyway, Shen Ming's money, she wants, she is willing to let go.

She looked down on Xiaocui's kindness to her son. Every time Xiao Cui prepares a sumptuous meal for her son, she feels that such a woman who doesn't want a bride price is really cheap.

She doesn't even like her son's kindness to Xiaocui. Every time her son is nicer to Xiaocui, she will scold, "Haven't you seen a woman? A man thinks so much about a woman. "

The deepest harm to women has never come from the abuse of her mother-in-law, but from the attitude of men towards her mother-in-law.

Xiao Cui didn't fight against her mother-in-law for Nishi K, but her forbearance was not the gratitude of her mother-in-law and Shen Ming. But let them all form a habit.

Xiao Cui's forbearance made her mother-in-law feel that Xiao Cui Can could be bullied at will. And Shen Ming seems to fully recognize Xiao Cui's forbearance.

Xiao Cui is pregnant. She takes care of Shen Ming while working. Before she got pregnant, she had been helping her mother-in-law with some housework. But after she became pregnant, she was in poor health and stopped helping her mother-in-law with housework.

Xiao Cui's behavior completely angered her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law thinks that Xiaocui neglected herself because she had children. She went straight to Xiao Cui and cursed: "Don't think you are pregnant with a child. Being our daughter-in-law is not that expensive. What do we do? If we are pregnant and want to be lazy, there is no way. "

No matter how her mother-in-law scolds her and looks for her, Xiao Cui just doesn't do those housework. The mother-in-law had no choice but to start crying to her son Shen Ming: "It's like being pregnant. What if she gives birth to a child? "

When Shen Ming came home, he said to Xiao Cui, "You can continue to help your mother with the housework tomorrow. If you are not tired, clean the table and floor. Not tired at all. "

Those women who don't want a bride price don't lack backbone. She only marries love. If she finds that there is no love, she does not lack the courage to turn around and leave. Because, nothing is worth her nostalgia.

At that moment, Xiao Cui never wanted to live with Shen Ming again. She didn't say anything and went to bed. Seeing her attitude, Shen Ming felt that her mother was right: "Don't think that being pregnant is expensive. Our family is poor and can't afford a daughter-in-law. If you follow me, you can work. "

Xiao Cui suddenly couldn't sleep. After so many years of injustice, she couldn't help it any more. She asked Shen Ming calmly, "What are you going to do if I don't help your mother in the future?"

Shen Ming didn't expect Xiao Cui to become so unreasonable now. He didn't want to give up, so he said sternly, "Then there is no place for you in our family."

Xiao Cui said, "Then I'll go."

Xiaocui called her parents, but Shen Ming didn't stop her. Shen Ming's parents thought they both had children, so they really divorced Xiao Cui.

None of them expected how determined a wronged woman was to divorce. Even if I can't get married all my life, even if I suffer more after divorce, I don't want to spend a day in such a husband's family.

Xiao Cui doesn't want this child. She has made up her mind to divorce Shen Ming. After the child died, Shen Ming finally knew that Xiaocui really wanted a divorce. He never wanted to divorce trav. He wants to ask Xiao Cui to forgive himself and give himself one last chance. But Shen Ming's mother stopped him: "Let her go and see who wants to marry her."

Xiao Cui remarried shortly after her divorce, and men's conditions were not worse than Shen Ming's. Since the divorce, Shen Ming has never found a girl who is willing to marry him without a bride price. Shen Ming's mother looked at her son with anxiety. She said to Shen Ming, "Go and get the daughter-in-law who doesn't want the bride price."

Shen Ming said bitterly, "Mom, she is married."

Men, don't want a bride price girl because you love you. Such a girl, once lost, is really hard to find again.

I also hope that all girls can maintain an attitude in marriage: I can love you, but I will never feel inferior and never be wronged.