No matter how strong the heart is, will there be weaknesses?

No matter how strong a person is, he has weaknesses, and he is not invincible. People who are really strong inside often have the following "weaknesses". Their inner pain and weaknesses in life have always been there, but it is not enough for outsiders. Lock yourself up: hide your pain. One would rather pretend to be clumsy than too clever. He would rather be restrained than sharp. He would rather be easygoing than affectation and retreat. If you are not good at hiding yourself, then you will be regarded as a "god bird" by others. People who have been hit hard and have a strong heart often suffer a lot. The pain in their hearts, like scars on their bodies and calluses on their palms, has become extremely hard. The more bitter their hearts are, the less I say. I must show my best side with a very strong smile. ?

Although the spirit is commendable, the inner weakness is only "hot and cold". A strong person has no "iron wall" in his heart, but hides his weak side and faces the world with a strong appearance. Ordinary people will complain when they are in pain, but strong people will not complain, and there will be some pain, but they will feel relaxed when they say it. If you don't say anything, you will feel uncomfortable and you won't really understand. You also need to resign in tears: always convince yourself to understand others. If you want to be strong, you must learn to bear and endure the unbearable pain of others, and you will be different. In the workplace, we see that middle-aged people are often scolded, but they dare not talk back, let alone "walk with buckets". They just hung their heads and waited until the boss scolded them before quietly cleaning up the mess.

When people reach middle age, in order to make money, they can be said to be "desperate", but no matter how well you do, you can't make others perfect and wronged, and you have to "submit to humiliation". After all, you have parents and children, so you can't patronize yourself. This responsibility forces you to become strong. Dealing with people, powerful people are used to silence, and a person stays quietly without talking. You think a taciturn person is strong, but he can get along well with others, otherwise you will really have no friends. When you know others, you will become strong, but you will also have "unspeakable secrets" in your heart. All grievances can only be borne by yourself. Helpless: it is difficult to find friends on the same frequency. The better a person is, the fewer friends he will have, and the bigger his model will be.

The fewer people can find the same frequency, the better person is often lonely, because it is difficult for him to find the same type of people. When you talk, you find that others don't understand you, and you won't have a buzz, so you can only choose to shut up. When a person is strong, it is difficult to find a fellow traveler, because others are weaker than themselves. Strong people become their own backers, not because they don't want to find someone to rely on, but because they can't find someone to rely on. Tigers and lions are always hanging together, lonely. In a way, they are fragile, sympathetic and persistent. On the road of life, I often don't know how to be flexible. The more self-disciplined, the luckier and the more successful. However, excessive self-discipline and persistence can easily lead to a "one-track mind" dilemma. When encountering difficulties, the weak can avoid, bypass or even give up.

A strong person, on the contrary, the more he frustrates his brave attitude, the more he persists in carrying difficulties and burdens, which seems admirable. In fact, he is very tired himself. If he goes in the wrong direction and goes forward bravely, your life will be in greater trouble, and many things need to be adapted, not "bumped". A person with a strong heart will be very tired if he shoulders everything alone. I don't know how to do it. At the same time, I know how to "defend the weak", pretend that I am a weak person, and I will give in at critical times, not afraid of being laughed at by others. "Strong" is a double-edged sword. While protecting yourself, you are also hurting yourself. The sharper the sword, the stronger the attack, but the greater the responsibility to protect it. The strong are not invincible, perhaps pretending to be strong, or forcing themselves to grow fiercely. Nobody wants to be strong.