Going back to my parents' house for dinner at the weekend, my sister-in-law said at the dinner table that I was a divorced woman, which was really unlucky. What should I do?

My name is Lin Xia. I just turned thirty this year. Just divorced at the beginning of this year. Because of disagreement with my husband, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very deep, and my child and I ended a painful marriage. I used to be a happy marriage full of hope, but for us women, marriage is like our second reincarnation. Every woman walks into the marriage hall with hope, eager to support each other for a lifetime.

My ex-husband Wang Jianfei and I met at work, and their family came from the countryside. At that time, I also thought he was excellent. He works hard and is excellent in all aspects. He was also very kind to me when I was in love, so I married him regardless of my parents' opposition, hoping that this would enable us to live the marriage life we wanted, but I ignored the role of my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law is a person with many things. No matter what you do, she can get involved in me. She said that the clothes I bought were expensive, and she also said that the clothes I bought were expensive. In her eyes, as long as she buys more than 100, it is expensive. Actually, she was afraid that I would use her son's money.

When my ex-husband was in love, it was fine. Since my mother-in-law lived at home after marriage, the family has exploded and everything has to be decided by her mother-in-law. But I bought this house myself, and I can tolerate her telling me what to do. Young people have a young lifestyle. Naturally, when I can't stand it, I will quarrel with my mother-in-law, and my ex-husband is always towards her, so I am disappointed with my ex-husband again and again, and finally I filed for divorce.

After my divorce, my ex-husband and his mother moved out of my house, and the custody of my son belongs to me. Fortunately, after my own graduation, I opened a coffee shop with my friends through my own struggle. Life is not too bitter, and you don't have to bear the pressure of your mother-in-law and ex-husband. I will also help my mother-in-law and brother where I usually need money to help. After all, only my own mother-in-law is reliable, and I didn't know how to cherish the people around me until my divorce.

Last weekend, I always took my children back to my parents' home for dinner, and this time is no exception. I took my children back to my parents' home alone at the weekend, because this week is the Double Ninth Festival. When I entered the room, my sister-in-law breast-fed me in the living room. My sister-in-law didn't say hello when she saw me. I let the children watch TV by themselves, so I went into the kitchen to help my mother cook together. Every weekend, my mother knows that I will cook a table when I come back. Only when I came back here did I feel a small family.

After my mother cooked the meal, I asked my sister-in-law to have dinner with my brother. At that time, I gave her a hug, which meant that my sister-in-law could eat first. After all, she can't eat with her baby in her arms. At this time, my little niece cried badly. Then my sister-in-law just ate two bites and was very unhappy and muttered impatiently. Sister-in-law said, it seems that you are a divorced woman. I want to say that this divorced woman seldom goes back to her family.

At this time, my mother and my brother said in unison: Eat your meal, why talk so much? Maybe my sister-in-law saw that they all spoke for me. She was very angry and said, I was right. If your sister hadn't been seductive and disorderly, she would have divorced a long time ago. I did it for the good of our family. A divorced woman should not go back to her parents' house. I was very angry when I heard my sister-in-law say this. The first time she wanted to say it, the second time she said I couldn't help it anymore. I saw her having a good time there and immediately lifted the dining table.

I usually don't think about my sister-in-law. What good is it to miss her? But I didn't expect her to say that. I divorced because of the contradiction between my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law. My sister-in-law said such a thing, which completely damaged my personal reputation. When I divorced, my parents were not my home, so I didn't stay at my mother's house all the time. I just came back for dinner with my parents at the weekend. My sister-in-law is so narrow-minded. When I usually give her money, how can she?