What's the mentality of the cynic next to you?

Satire: Ironic words that dampen the enthusiasm of others.

As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June. As an important way of communication between people, language plays a very important role in interpersonal communication. Good interpersonal relationships are often due to pleasant language communication, while many broken interpersonal feelings are due to language damage.

Language is related to emotional intelligence, but it is more than that. Sometimes, it is also related to people's personality and quality. People who say somewhat ironic, nothing more than two kinds of mentality:

1. Not friendly to others. I am jealous. I am unbalanced when I see other people's superior appearance and material conditions or achievements, and I like to be sarcastic.

2. Deliberate attack. Because of disharmony or other purposes, deliberately say something that makes others uncomfortable, so as to cause each other's unhappiness and make themselves happy.

People who are cynical are generally dissatisfied with their lives, narrow-minded and not broad-minded They can't see the goodness of others, but they can't find the reason from themselves. When others surpass themselves or make greater progress than themselves, they will use sarcastic words to suppress them and seek their own comfort. They are actually very poor, because they know the bright spots in others, but they are unable to catch up or surpass them. In the final analysis, they suppress people in a cruel way, which is the embodiment of their mediocrity and incompetence.

For such people, don't worry at all. Because they are purely malicious and make trouble, they are weak. When a person is strong enough, such voices will gradually decrease or become more hypocritical and flattering.

As civilized people in contemporary society, we should strive to make our language sincere, kind and full of positive energy. In this way, we can not only avoid disasters from the mouth, but also harmonize interpersonal relationships and promote the promotion of the civilization of the whole society.