The ex-boyfriend said that he went to the competition and said that he hoped he would win the championship. He said that the pressure is all from us! What does this mean? Did I put a lot of pressure

The ex-boyfriend said that he went to the competition and said that he hoped he would win the championship. He said that the pressure is all from us! What does this mean? Did I put a lot of pressure on him?

As for your words, your intention is good, but speaking like this will only cause stress.

For example, you can say that the focus this time is participation, the rankings are all empty, and you can just try your best not to leave any regrets.

Then at the end I wish him a championship (rather than wishing him a championship).

This kind of emotional intelligence has to be accumulated over the years. In fact, it is nothing special. I am just doing it as an afterthought.

Back to the topic, if you lose, you can change your perspective and say to him, "Is your opponent super strong?" "You are so powerful here that you lost, how strong is your opponent?"

Or the funny type of "Black whistle, it's definitely a black whistle!" "Why, are you letting the other person off?"

Just choose different angles of words to comfort your ex-boyfriend based on his personality.