How to treat the problem of "far marriage"?

I can't accept long-distance relationships, because it's too difficult to be uncertain about happiness.

1, difficult to understand dialect and culture.

When you come to a new land, you begin to look around at those strange faces and environments, and your confident expectations will gradually fade away.

Maybe you have worked hard to understand those dialects and learned to squeeze out one or two broken cavities, but you can only smile helplessly when you don't understand them; Maybe my husband's family will tell you what to do at the dinner table, how to say hello, and don't forget some taboos. ...

These strange feelings come step by step. This "good wife" has too much to learn! But you have to bite the bullet, because you know, no woman wants to be a joking foreign daughter-in-law.

When you have an argument with your husband, you push the door and find there is nowhere to go.

Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and marriage often has contradictions. But the moon in other places is really not so round. You want to go out for comfort as before, but you find yourself nowhere to go.

When you take out your mobile phone, you put it down angrily, as if there were no phone calls. You really want to talk to your mother, but you are afraid to hear the choking on the other end of the phone because you are worried. Finally, you realize that it is difficult to find a place to talk without your familiar home. ...

1, the relationship between the two sides must be good, and the man had better care more about the woman.

The feelings of both sides are the most important, and a marriage without feelings is really a very painful thing. This is the focus of girls who are far away from home. If there are still preconditions, it is best for the man to care more about and love the woman.

2. The woman must be financially capable, and she must never follow the man with her bare hands.

A truly powerful woman can find suitable love anywhere. Whether she is married or not, there are many girls who have crossed the ocean for love. But the premise of all this is that you have to be financially capable, girl, or have the ability to earn money.

3. It is best for the woman to engage in relatively stable work, including local civil servants and career establishment, excluding first-tier cities.

In fact, most of the girls in life are ordinary people, with ordinary birth, ordinary appearance, ordinary ability and everything is ordinary. Suitable for the life of ordinary girls, stable and ordinary, just a little rich.