Bride gift joke

When a relationship comes to the end, it is natural to get married, so it is an inevitable process to talk about marriage before marriage. Talking about marriage, bride price and dowry can be said to be unavoidable topics. Many women's parents will take the bride price given by the man as a measure of the importance that the other party attaches to their daughter and this marriage. I think there is some truth, just like a sentence: in love, those who are willing to spend money for you don't necessarily love you, and those who are unwilling to spend money for you don't necessarily love you. Figure | Network

In addition to these, I also admit that girls are somewhat "vain" in love. If it is not too much, within the normal range, I think there is no problem. After all, everyone around you has this ability. Why can't you have this attitude? But if the bride and parents want this bride price, the lion is not asking for an attitude. I just want money, and treat my goodwill as a transaction. It is really unnecessary to force the other party to compromise with love. Once the other party fails to do so, it will be full of accusations.

Wang Nan (a pseudonym) and his girlfriend Li Ting (a pseudonym) are high school classmates. Because they were not in the same class at that time, they were both shy and introverted. Therefore, the two sides only stay at the familiar level, and such friendship will naturally not be linked after graduating from high school. Later, after graduating from college, the two returned to their hometown. Because they were both single, they were forced by their parents to date each other. The two met on a blind date and have graduated for a year.

After a few years, everyone has changed a lot. After meeting, they found that they were classmates, which made them a little more cordial. Later, it was logical to get along, and slowly, it was also a long-term love. Feelings are not so hot, but Wang Nan is really anxious to get married. He thinks his girlfriend is thinking the same thing. When two people are in love, they seldom quarrel, and occasionally there will be a little contradiction. Wang Nan will take the initiative to admit his mistake. In a word, he is obedient to her.

In love, both sides have naturally been to each other's house. Wang Nan's parents are not satisfied with the prospective daughter-in-law and feel a little confused. But my son likes it and always says he won't be wrong about others, and his parents don't say much. After all, the young couple live by themselves. If the elders don't like it, just stay away. Li Ting's parents are very enthusiastic and have a good attitude towards her future son-in-law Wang Nan, but Wang Nan always feels a little strange. His girlfriend and mother looked at her with embarrassed eyes.

Emotional stability, love for a year and a half later, Wang Nan proposed, and his girlfriend simply nodded yes. However, marriage is not a matter for two people. Except nodding, both families have to agree. After all, we should talk about marriage. Wang Nan attaches great importance to this trip to his girlfriend's home. According to the preferences of his girlfriend's parents, he carefully prepared a gift and slapped himself hard. I went back to her mother's house with my girlfriend at ease.

Compared with previous times, Li Ting's mother was more enthusiastic about Wang Nan after receiving the gift, which made him a little uneasy. I played a few games of chess with my future father-in-law, and finally it was time to eat. My girlfriend's parents have been joking, but Wang Nan is afraid to mention marriage at the dinner table. Fortunately, at the end of dinner, Li Ting's mother cleared her throat and finally mentioned marriage. Wang Nan immediately pay attention to.

Li Ting's mother said, "Xiao Wang, you are a steady and down-to-earth person. We both like it very much and feel free to marry our daughter to you. " Wang Nan was really happy in the face of her future mother-in-law's praise, but Li Ting's mother changed the subject and began to focus on: "However, marriage is a big deal, and some things have to be agreed in advance. If you can do it, we will be completely relieved. " Wang Nan smiled and motioned her mother-in-law to continue, indicating that she was listening carefully.

Li Ting's mother was satisfied with Wang Nan's reaction and nodded and said, "Getting married is definitely a bride price. I don't know how much your family will give, but I have a request. Our family married girls of the same age in Li Ting, all of which were 300,000 bride price. If you are less than 300 thousand, we will be laughed at by our relatives. " . This words, Wang Nan is not calm. Li Ting's parents seem honest. How can they lie without blushing? As the two were getting married, Wang Nan inquired about the surrounding bride price, which was almost 30,000 to 654.38+ 10,000.

This matter, Li Ting must know, Wang Nan didn't answer for the first time, he turned his attention to his girlfriend. As a result, I met my girlfriend's puzzled eyes, meaning why don't you promise? What are you waiting for? Her mother also began to urge Wang Nan to give an answer quickly. He was silent for a while and said, My parents and I actually discussed it. The family will give 80 thousand yuan as a bride price. There is no need to return the gift. Whether the dowry is random or not will be regarded as your living expenses.

"How is 80,000 enough?" Li Ting's mother put a chopstick dish in Wang Nan's bowl and continued: "Auntie knows that you are a filial child and will certainly meet our requirements and let us grow a face among our relatives." In the face of future mother-in-law's praise again, Wang Nan was unhappy this time. He reluctantly smiled and said that he would go back and discuss it with his parents. He wants to change the subject as soon as possible. He quarreled for fear that he couldn't help it.

But Li Ting's mother made another request, saying that the bride price should be guaranteed in addition to cash. Wang Nan said to coldly, what security? Li Ting's mother smiled and said, "Aren't you two looking at the wedding room recently? Aunt hopes that this house can be added with my daughter's name. As a prostitute, I naturally have to plan for my daughter's future. " Before Wang Nan could answer, he felt that besides his future mother-in-law, his girlfriend and future father-in-law were staring at his eyes. Everyone is waiting for him to say yes, and then everyone is happy.

Wang Nan couldn't help it. Her family gave a bride price of 80 thousand, not a dowry. She bought the house in full, and even the decoration and home appliances didn't cost her a dime. He feels that he and his parents are already very good. How did he meet such a family? I really tried my best to do this in my own home. If I really agreed to Li Ting's parents' request, it would be no less than killing my parents.

Wang Nan smiled angrily and said, "Aunt, what you want is not the bride price, but my parents' lives." Then he turned and left. As soon as I left home, I received a short message from my girlfriend: "If I don't come back and apologize to my parents, this marriage will not be married." Wang Nan replied with a smile: "Then break up, don't knot". Then he blacked out this number. He knew that Li Ting would definitely regret it and would definitely come back for him, but he wouldn't look back. Because he knows that it is useless to compromise temporarily, and people with different views can't live together all their lives.

Li Ting in this article doesn't understand love, and she lost her good fortune. People who truly know how to love will think of each other, understand each other, and appreciate each other's efforts to themselves; Instead of hurting and persecuting each other with love. People who make unreasonable demands with love are hard to get happiness, even if they get it temporarily, it is hard to last long. Warm and long-lasting love has always been evenly matched, with mutual respect and understanding.