Why do men alienate you?

Generally speaking, in women's minds, everyone wants to find a man who is good to himself, dote on himself and tolerate his waywardness. But before marriage, a man may be nice to you because he wants to marry you, but after marriage, this may not be the case, because after marriage, he needs to earn money to support his family and his mind can't be on you. If you are still the same as before marriage, your relationship may be alienated.

One: Always complaining.

When you feel that a man is alienated from you, don't always think that he is love rat, but also look for problems from yourself. When he comes home from work after a hard day's work, it's not the delicious food you prepared, nor the gentle wife. He came in and heard you complaining all the time. Everyone else bought a house, a car, traveled and lived a good life. Isn't it obvious that he is incompetent? Now that he has been chosen, they should fight together instead of complaining all the time, because complaining is useless and will make him ignore you more and more.

Two: diligent inspection of posts.

The most important thing for two people to be together is trust. If there is no trust, there is no feeling at all. There was nothing wrong with him, but you are very strict with the post inspector every day. When you talk to a female colleague, you think there is something wrong with him. He said you were unreasonable, and you still thought it was his fault. If this happens often, you are sending him to another woman. After all, there is nothing. You are driving him crazy.

Three: losing face.

People face to face must be proud in front of outsiders. At home, no matter what, you can make him kneel, but leave him room in front of outsiders. Don't touch him in front of outsiders, it will become a joke of others, and he will not lift his head when he goes out in the future.

Therefore, when you have problems in your relationship, don't just think about other people's faults, but also find your own reasons.