Marriage will not marry love, but only life.

I hope you can understand that you will not marry love.

Up to now, there are still many "V's" in Weibo, making jokes about "May everyone marry love". I don't know what the purpose of these people is. Simply put, they may really think so.

I don't want such people's thoughts to hurt everyone, so I wrote this long Weibo. I don't know how many people will see it, and I don't know if I will be scolded, but I still want to write it down, give some thoughts to my friends and record my thoughts at the moment. That's all.

The definition of marriage standardization given by our public is: generally speaking, it refers to the combination between men and women, and one party settles in the other party's house and gets married, forming a social combination or legal constraint of interpersonal kinship. According to different concepts and cultures, it is usually considered as a form of intimacy or sex, and it is declared as a wedding. Usually, marriage is the foundation and basis for forming a family.

And the definition of love: refers to the feelings and friendship of love between two people.

Literally, they are two completely different concepts.

The definition just gives us a reference. Of course, reality cannot be explained by definition, and reality has no definition.

Marriage and love, we have never faced up to, let alone think and understand.

That's why some people still confuse them.

According to my current understanding,

I think,

Love depends on love, two of a kind,

Marriage depends on the door.

If it takes two people to meet love, it depends on the right time and place.

Then marriage requires two families to live in harmony at the right time and place.

Say it bluntly:

Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two generations.

These two words are parallel, independent and cannot intersect. If you feel that there is an intersection, it is also the moment when you are moved by yourself.

People who say "marry love" don't understand love, let alone marriage.

At my age, most of my friends are married and have children, or are dating.

Weibo, the top of many married friends, is a wedding photo with a sentence "I married love today"

It's ridiculous, because they make many people start to think that having love is a very simple thing.

More friends still regard themselves as standard examples: "Look at me, if you marry love, so will you!" " ! Go to love and get married! Then having children together is the crystallization of love! "

Big sisters! Please. It's good that you are moved by yourself. It's good that you fantasize about marrying love. Why do you influence others? I don't know anything. Why should I feed others disgusting chicken soup?

The so-called love in today's society is:

He was very kind to me,

He is willing to give me money,

He knows what I like,

We are very happy together.

Basically, all the above have been done, and girls are willing to stay with this person for a lifetime.

However, I hope girls,

Love needs more: companionship, care, romance, spirit, material, everything.

Less in marriage: a down-to-earth life, understanding and companionship is enough.

It's easier to be happy.

At this age, the task we need to complete is to get married and have children. Everything outside reminds everyone that we need to do these two things.

People who finish the task are as easy as handing in their papers in advance.

People who haven't finished their tasks are busy with all kinds of blind dates and forcing their boyfriends and girlfriends to get married. They are all as anxious as "there are fifteen minutes before the end of the exam".

Of course, there are people like me.

People who delete married children from the task list.

People who don't have to go to the examination room to cope with the exam turn a deaf ear to others' nagging "why not fall in love and talk about marriage", instead of feeling lonely, they feel free.

I am glad that my thoughts have made me such a person.

I have become such a person because I only want love.

Words like "marry love",

In my eyes, this is the most ridiculous joke in the world.

Now you will automatically ignore it when you see it.

I'm not encouraging people not to get married, let alone telling people that getting married is not good.

I just want to tell you this idea:

Please don't fall in love for the purpose of marriage.

Love for the purpose of marriage is cheating.

At the beginning, we all shouted the slogan "Love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism", thinking that we are noble and that we know love and marriage.

But now I want to overturn this sentence.

I hope when you are in love, you are in love. As long as the person in front of you can give you a feeling of love, then you should have a good relationship with him. Don't think about whether there will be a result, and don't think about whether you will get married and have children.

If you want to get married, choose a reliable and suitable man to live and work in peace and contentment. Don't think about whether this person loves me or not, don't ask for romance and passion, let alone so-called love.

I hope everyone falls in love because of love.

I hope everyone will get married, because it is suitable.

Love and marriage, if you want one, you have to give up the other. Only in this way can you really get the one you want.

If you want to get married, please find someone who can give you a stable life in the future.

If you want love, please find someone who can fall in love for you.

Because, you know,

Once you marry the man you think is love, your love will be worn away by life.

therefore

Find out what you want to choose most,

If you choose love, then fall in love with that person, which has nothing to do with family, life and responsibility.

Choosing a stable life and choosing a suitable and practical person to get married has nothing to do with love.

If a man proposes to you, say, "I love you, marry me!" " "Don't promise him, just fall in love with him.

If a man proposes to you, say, "Let's live together and marry me!" " Promise him to live with him.

In love, we should ask for love to the greatest extent.

Marriage should be tolerance and understanding again and again.

People looking for love fall in love,

Marry a good man.

Don't marry the person you love the most,

Don't fall in love with your marriage partner.

This is my advice to everyone.

Finally,

I wish you a happy new year,

You're all rich,

I

Can get the true love I want.