Aggressive and carefree

In my opinion, being proactive and being happy with the situation should be the best attitude towards life. This attitude towards life is indispensable in life. If one of them is missing, it will cause mental pain.

It seems that "aggressive" and "happy-go-lucky" are two contradictory levels. In fact, they can completely complement each other and transform each other in their lives.

"Enterprising" is the basis for a person to stand on his own feet, settle down, give back to the society and promote social progress, and "taking things as they are" is an open-minded attitude when facing the result that the ideal cannot be realized and cannot be controlled.

Everyone should have a positive and enterprising spirit. People should have faith, yearning, pursuit, efforts and self-improvement. After trying to make money to meet their own survival needs, people should also show sympathy for the poor, care about the living conditions of vulnerable groups, safeguard social morality and fairness, and safeguard world peace and justice.

The so-called "everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world" and "worrying about the world first, and enjoying the world later" are not just the unique sense of mission of those with lofty ideals, but the sense of historical responsibility that every ordinary person should have. Only when the general public has the feelings of home and country, that is, "everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world" and "worrying about the world first, and enjoying the world later", can the society make a qualitative leap, the country be truly powerful, and the nation stand proudly among the nations of the world and last forever.

There used to be a saying that history was not created by a few heroes, but by the people. I think this is a "universal" view of history proved by the history of human development. The so-called heroes are just those who shout to lead the army forward at the critical moment or turning point of historical development, or those who ignite a raging fire and rush to the front when the fire is on the verge, or those who stand up and bravely sacrifice when others, nations and countries are in danger. Heroes can promote the process of history, but history has never been created by heroes.

History is created by ordinary people who are buried in dusty fireworks, shoulder family and social responsibilities, work hard, overcome difficulties and obstacles, and live an ordinary life.

Every enterprising person, while pursuing a happy personal life, is also creating social happiness and pushing the wheel of history to a brand-new social form.

Although many people may not be rich, or they may be too ordinary to be named in the crowd, once the society and the country need it, many people will stand out and take on the special responsibilities given by special moments, and complete the transformation from civilians to heroes in a very short time.

I think there are two kinds of heroes. One is a famous hero who saves lives or assumes greater social and national responsibilities; One is obscurity, overcoming all kinds of obstacles such as inferiority, cowardice, money temptation, depression and decadence, pessimism and world-weariness, and always loving life, working hard and being optimistic and enterprising-they are civilian heroes in ordinary life.

To be a hero who has lofty sentiments and can devote himself to righteousness requires lofty beliefs and the courage to refuse boldness. Being a civilian hero in ordinary life requires positive and optimistic life beliefs and perseverance.

Many famous heroes stand out from the unknown civilians. Although these heroes were just ordinary people before they became heroes, some people even suffered from secular eyes and snobbery. However, their heroic temperament has always been there, and they have never given up their ambition to achieve something in trivial and ordinary days, but they have not met the key opportunity to show their heroic qualities.

In real life, many people are greedy for profits and seize every opportunity to make waves, which brings more difficulties to social harmony and stability and people's healthy life. But more importantly, ordinary people with ideals and heroic qualities have formed the mainstay of society. It is precisely because generations of enterprising people are always struggling with heavy burdens, and even crawling in darkness, life and the world at a certain moment, there is endless hope.

Although we are ordinary people, we have never given up our positive and enterprising life belief. Although we have no dazzling aura on our heads and have not achieved brilliant achievements that attract worldwide attention, we have no reason to doubt that we despise ourselves. Born as a man, you are not qualified to belittle yourself and abandon your precious life. Love yourself, love your family, love others, love society, love your country, work hard, live hard, and be a hero in life, so you won't leave big regrets in this life.

No matter how hard we feel about life, no matter how disheartened we have been, no matter how many times we want to get rid of the hubbub and escape into an empty door, we should take the initiative, challenge our work and life again and again, overcome one difficulty after another, and prove with practical actions that we can carry forward with heavy burdens, go forward bravely and stand tall. We can be a strong man with a small earth but a strong will at the bottom, or an ordinary person standing at the peak of life and looking down at the world as low as dust.

If a person wants to live freely and clearly, he must be able to go up and down, advance and retreat; Can be proactive, hard-working, and broad-minded; At the highlight of my life, I can accept honors and applause with grace and pleasure, and at the same time, I can keep sober and calm like ice and snow, and be humble with an open mind; I can stand the loneliness when I go to Qiu Lai in spring and the trees are rustling. In lonely days, "the brave don't mention courage", don't complain about others, don't be depressed and don't despair, do what you can, and still maintain a passion for pursuing new things, quality of life and fun.

To be a man, you should pursue everything, but you can't force the result. At the age of hard work, we must cherish time, seize every opportunity and try our best to achieve good results in our career. However, just because we try our best to pursue it doesn't mean that everything has a good result. Some things, we can not only manipulate the process but also control the results; Some things, involving various factors, we can only do our best, but we may not get what we want.

In this life, people will encounter many things that have made great efforts and experienced a lot of efforts but failed to achieve the set goals. Many people are depressed because of this, thinking that they can't grasp the outcome of fate and that people can't overcome mysterious forces.

In fact, the real value and significance of human life lies in the process of continuous efforts, not in the results. Whether we work hard in the process depends entirely on ourselves, and the result is restricted by many external factors and unpredictable. It is good to have a good result. If it's not good, don't worry about it. As long as you try your best, pay, and have a clear conscience, why bother to be unhappy about the results you can't control?

Whether we can treat the uncontrollable ending with a calm and indifferent attitude is another severe test that life has given us. If we pass the test, we can sail the ship into the next voyage smoothly; If it doesn't pass, it may hit the rocks and capsize at the last minute after all kinds of hardships. Not only can it not change the ending, but it will also suffer a mental blow. It can be said that many people fail, not in the process of pursuit, nor in the failure of the result, but in the mentality of facing the failure result.

We can neither demand a good result for everything, nor demand that everything has its own. If you think that you should do everything perfectly, you should satisfy everyone. This idea is naive and almost stupid. No matter how good a person is, it is impossible to make everything perfect and satisfy everyone. Instead, it is a tree that catches the wind and shadows. "The wooden show will destroy the forest air." The better people are, the more vulnerable they are to attack and discredit. This is another experience that God requires excellent people to experience.

Being strict with yourself and doing things seriously and responsibly is the prerequisite for a person to make a difference and achieve something. Even so, no matter how generous and responsible people are, they can't take all the bad results on themselves.

We can only take responsibility for the consequences of failure in some things we are involved in. Have the courage to take the responsibility you should bear and never pass it on to others. Even if your head falls off, it's just a big scar at the mouth of the bowl. You can't shirk and dodge. However, we will not pretend to be generous to bear the responsibilities that others should bear.

For the bad results caused by cheating, cheating, cutting corners, carelessness, earnestness and hard work, the parties concerned shall bear the responsibilities themselves. We don't need to play the role of saints, pretend to be heroes when we clearly feel wronged or even painful, and live too wronged.

In the face of bad results, we should learn to let go, don't be harsh on ourselves, and don't take on responsibilities that we shouldn't bear.

It doesn't matter if the result is worse. It's a big deal to fall black and blue, a big deal to fall into a deep pit and get up with your teeth, and a big deal to start from the lowest and most humble things. On the difficult and tortuous road, we should make full preparations and learn to adapt to the changes in the situation. We must not clearly fall to the bottom of the world, or hold a noble attitude and pose a sour posture. You can't go up or down, so torturing yourself will only become a joke in the streets.

Some people say that the best life is exquisite and can be done. I am convinced.

When life is rich, we can pay more attention to living in spacious villas, driving expensive sports cars, wearing brand-name clothes that lead the fashion trend, sitting in the garden drinking the best coffee on rest days, holding the most expensive famous dogs and evaluating the most beautiful islands in the world. Anyone with sufficient economic conditions can live this life. However, there is really no need to show off this kind of life. It is just a state of life that people can bear after material success, and it is a fate arranged by God.

All material life is not the essence of life, but only the external form of life. The essence of life is that no matter where we are, whether we are rich or poor, whether we are at the peak of glory or in a hellish situation, we can always maintain an optimistic and enterprising spirit and put it into action.

An excellent person must be both exquisite and accommodating. They will neither be extravagant when they can pay attention, nor be greedy and stingy like Grandet, and pile up piles of gold coins in the secret room for fun, but let themselves and their wives and daughters live a very poor life for life; They will not be divorced from real life. When they can only "make do", they will pay attention to poverty, vanity, ostentation and extravagance, "have wine today, get drunk tomorrow", live by money and borrow money.

In short, being proactive, being content with the status quo, being careful and accommodating, and being born after entering the WTO are two attitudes that people should have when facing different situations. These two attitudes to life will alternately run through a wise man's life.

We handle our work and life with a positive attitude towards joining the WTO, and face the results of success and failure with a indifferent attitude towards being born. If so, we can overcome the storms in life and reach the other side smoothly.

202 1 March 17