"If you don't kneel down to your biological parents, you won't kneel down to your in-laws." What do you think of the bride Marie?

As the ancients said, there are four happy events in life: the long drought brings sweet rain; Meet an old friend in another country; Wedding night; To be no.1. Especially marriage can be described as the greatest happy event in a person's life. However, with the development of society, the cultural traditions that we have inherited for thousands of years are getting weaker and weaker, and even getting married is getting easier and easier.

It's really speechless to see such a story. It was originally a happy event but turned into a joke. Let's share it here and see who is wrong.

Zihan and Sun Gang met and fell in love in college. After graduation, they started to talk about marriage smoothly. But about how to get married, Zhao Li was very unhappy and even had a headache. Today, at the age of 24, she is a young person in a new era. With knowledge and culture, she especially hates red tape.

Originally, she planned to hold a simple ceremony after registering with Sun Gang, and the two of them went on a trip. Sun Gang didn't have much opinion, but Sun Gang's family said nothing. "Marriage is a generation event, how can you be careless? It must be beautiful, "Sun Gang's parents agreed.

There was nothing I could do, so Zihan reluctantly agreed. So the Sun family began to get busy. I didn't expect the first trouble to come so soon. The Sun family said that they had been asked to see "good" and that next year would be "blind" and there would be no good days. The wedding can only be held this year, and the date is still set on November 28 of the lunar calendar.

Originally, Zihan and his wife were going to get married on May 1st next year, and they just went out for a honeymoon. Now, Zhao Gang's family arranged the wedding in winter. Isn't this a sin? But the whole family insisted on it, and her mother advised her to forget it and do as the Romans do. On the wedding day, Zihan reluctantly agreed. When she didn't expect it, there were a lot of troubles behind.

especially when you get married, it's just like shooting TV. When asked to kneel and kowtow, Zihan finally couldn't help it. She said that she didn't agree with anything, so she just stood flat and didn't want to kowtow. At this time, Zhao Gang's relatives actually came to hold her head and let her submit.

zihan got angry at once. she said angrily, "I have never even knelt down my biological parents, let alone my in-laws. I can avoid this link if I can, and I won't get married if this marriage is inevitable." The original scene of jubilation was suddenly silent. Later, although this link was avoided, his relationship with his in-laws has always been bad.

Conclusion: I don't think Zihan did the right thing. Although the times have improved, the old saying goes, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" and "Marry a chicken and follow a dog". But she runs counter to the custom of her husband's family. He has made such a scene before he entered the door. Can he have a good relationship with his in-laws in the future? Everything is prosperous at home. If the whole family can't live in harmony, how can life live in peace? Originally, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was difficult to get along with. Isn't this even worse?

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