Why don't children like to wear shoes? Is it because they are against their parents?

What should treasure moms do in the face of children who don't like to wear shoes and always walk barefoot? In fact, it is necessary to analyze children's habit of not wearing shoes. What are the reasons for children's behavior? We'll do it later? The right medicine? Only taking medicine can cure the disease.

0 1 Why don't children like to wear shoes? It's not against parents. These principles should be understood clearly.

Some parents think that children who don't wear shoes are against themselves because they were naughty when they were young. Parents told them to go east, but they insisted on going west.

In fact, children don't like to wear shoes. It can't be just this reason.

1) Children will feel bound.

When children were young, most of the clothes that Ma Bao prepared for children were conjoined, so children would not feel the existence of shoes.

Slowly, when children grow up, they don't know whether to wear shoes on their feet. At this time, parents wear shoes for their children, which will cause their children's resentment.

In addition, shoes have a sense of restraint on the footsteps, which is not convenient for children to play. Naturally, they will try to take it off quickly.

At this time, we will also find that the naughty side of children, of course, there are some babies, really because they are unwilling to listen to their parents, and even think that taking off their shoes will not have a certain impact on their health, so they have maintained this state for a long time.

2) The critical stage of children's sense of touch.

In the development stage when children are held by their parents, they are in the process of observing the world around them with their eyes for a long time. When they grow up, children learn to climb and touch things by themselves.

In the past, you could only observe things around you with your eyes and feel them with your hands at most, but after learning to walk, children can feel things on the ground with their feet, which is a brand-new process for children to understand the world.

This kind of contact between feet and the ground will bring a certain freshness to children, so children will indulge in this feeling. It is not that they don't listen to their parents.

3) The child is stubborn.

I wonder if there's anything you've been insisting on? Some children may not like wearing shoes since they were young, so no matter what happens, no matter how much their parents say, they will naturally not carry it out.

Especially when some children learn to walk in summer, parents may not wear shoes for them at this time.

In winter, if children still don't get into the habit of wearing shoes, they will show stubborn emotions and are unwilling to wear shoes.

Children don't like wearing shoes, so this is no small matter for Ma Bao. These effects are obvious.

Of course, for some babies, in summer, they think it doesn't matter if children don't wear shoes.

After all, the weather is hot, and wearing shoes is easy to make children's body temperature higher. When the heating is sufficient in winter, it really doesn't matter whether the children wear shoes or not if the floor at home is kept at a suitable temperature.

But is this idea really correct? Above we analyzed the reasons why children don't wear shoes. Parents should be aware of this habit. If it is not corrected as soon as possible, it will actually have a great impact on them. Not only psychologically, but also physically.

Children get into the habit of not wearing shoes.

If children don't like wearing shoes at first, they will form such a habit when they grow up, especially after they go to school. If they don't want to wear shoes, it will inevitably have some influence on their health.

Imagine, if the baby suddenly takes off his shoes in the process of going to kindergarten, how will others treat his children?

In case the child pricks his foot because he doesn't wear shoes when playing, the parents will certainly feel distressed.

These are all things that parents need to consider. The cultivation of this habit is also harmful to the growth of children, so parents should make corresponding corrections.

When a child catches a cold, it is easy to cause discomfort.

As we know above, some babies don't like to wear shoes and may step on the cold ground.

At this time, the feet may catch cold, so the cold can easily enter the body and bring various problems to the children. Because for children, keeping feet warm is a very important link.

Once the feet catch cold, it may affect the stomach, and the gastrointestinal problems will be significantly more serious, and symptoms such as fever and cold may occur, which has a great impact on fragile babies.

What should parents do if they want their baby to love wearing shoes?

Avoid letting babies form bad habits and keep their bodies in a relatively healthy state. As parents, we must think about how to make our baby fall in love with shoes, even at home.

According to some investigations and studies in daily life, we will find that the following ways may make children wear shoes on their own initiative.

Of course, children's habits cannot be formed overnight. It is said that 2 1 day can form a habit.

We should also know that children don't like to wear shoes. Wearing shoes takes a long time to form, so it should take some time to correct.

Before this, we must ensure the baby's health, so before correcting the child's habits, we can consider laying carpets on the ground, so that the child will not have health problems because of the cold ground.

▼ After everything is ready, the following methods may bring inspiration to everyone.

① Habitual imitation

What we can know is that in the process of children's growth, the most important thing is that children have the ability to imitate from birth, and all learning begins with imitation.

If you find that children don't like to wear shoes, you can let them learn from other children.

You see, Mingming gets up every morning. First of all, 1 must be wearing shoes. I was chatting with his mother that day, and he also said that Mingming had a very good habit. My mother also wants you to pay attention to your health.

Look at the children around you. Everyone wears shoes. If you don't wear shoes, they may not want to play with you.

Everyone will wear shoes when they arrive at kindergarten. If you don't form this habit now, you may not be able to change it in the future, and others will even laugh at you, you know?

As parents, we can let our children know that wearing shoes is a habit of most people by asking questions.

I believe that in the child's consciousness, he will gradually accept the education of his parents and be willing to wear shoes.

② System desensitization method

If we hate something, long-term contact will actually improve. In the matter of educating children to wear shoes, parents can also adopt certain systematic desensitization methods to make children accept the cognition of wearing shoes, and parents will also give some guidance in life, and I believe children will be willing.

Once or twice is random, but after three or four times, children will feel their parents' true thoughts. After children get up, parents can tell them to wear shoes.

As children get older, they will understand the importance of wearing shoes. Parents put shoes next to their children, and children will understand what their parents mean. This systematic desensitization method will make children slowly accept wearing shoes.

(3) Let children know the role of shoes.

The main reason why we are willing to wear shoes is that it can help us protect our feet from injury, but for children, they don't have such cognition and naturally don't want to wear shoes.

Therefore, when parents communicate with their children, they can tell them to be aware of the protective effect of wearing shoes on people's health. I believe that children will be more willing to wear shoes after they understand the benefits of wearing shoes.

(4) Take advantage of children's psychological hostility period.

Many parents will also find that their children will talk about other things at some stage, which makes parents feel very surprised. Obviously, the toys and books in the house are lifeless. Why can they communicate with these things normally?

In fact, this means that children have entered the category of psychological activities and think that everything has life. Parents can also consider letting them talk to shoes, so that children can better contact shoes and express their love for shoes.

It is very important for children to wear shoes, which should also be considered in life, so that children can develop good habits, and what we said above, I believe, can also bring some help to everyone.