Dating a girlfriend, she is always very late. What if I don't like it?

It's simple. Tell her. Did you tell her? Or does she know that you don't like waiting long? If she doesn't know and you don't say it yourself, it's no wonder who she is. After all, she is not a worm in your stomach. How does she know what you think?

But if you tell her that she is still like this, you should talk to her seriously. After all, I don't think your girlfriend will think you're looking for trouble and that you're talking to her casually. When you get serious, she will know your level, and she will know that you really don't like her, so I believe she will change.

If you talk about it, and then she knows that you don't like waiting for people for a long time, then she is still like this. You can be angry about this once, which is equivalent to showing your position and attitude, proving that this matter is unshakable and that your bottom line is there. Then you have to show a tough attitude and make her feel that this is really bad.

But it is also possible that you will quarrel, so you can come up with a good idea. For example, you wait for a rule that allows you to be less than three minutes late. When one party arrives, send a message to confirm his arrival, and start counting after three minutes until the other party arrives. Look how late she is.

Then get a time period, and each time period has a penalty for each time period, such as 3 minutes to 8 minutes. If you are late, be sure to come and kiss you for half a minute. Then from 8 minutes to 13 minutes, if you are late during this time, be sure to come and bring you a small gift; Then 13 minutes to 20 minutes. If you are late, be sure to treat each other to dinner. If she's more than 30 minutes late, confiscate one thing she wants to buy, or her favorite lipstick for a month, or don't let her buy something she likes.

That's why getting a punishment can not only solve the embarrassment of being late, but also urge her. After all, you won't let what you like slip away easily. Besides, you can also say that there is a reward system, that is, if she is not late for several days in a row, then you reward her.

For example, if you are not late for five days in a row, give her a small gift. If you are not late for 10 days in a row, buy her a little mousse cake. If you're not late for 30 days in a row, take her to eat something delicious that you usually can't bear to eat. If you are not late for 50 days in a row, then you can help her buy what she likes.

Through such a reward and punishment system, I believe she will not choose to be late. After all, most people will choose such a good reward and such a severe punishment. And doing so will also promote your feelings, and will not hurt your feelings because of this problem.