How to educate your baby to solve injustice by himself?

1, patiently listen to the child's grievances.

When a child is wronged, one thing he wants to do most is to talk to the closest person. At this time, parents should not interrupt him, let alone express their opinions without hearing them. Instead, listen carefully to the child's story and let him pour out all his grievances.

Children will feel relaxed only if they speak out their unhappiness without reservation. In the process of listening, parents' expressions and eyes should show their understanding of their children, not their absent-mindedness, otherwise it will further affect their emotions.

2, find out the reason, don't misunderstand the child.

Sometimes, children will show grievances to cover up their mistakes. Therefore, it is very necessary for parents to find out the real reason why their children are wronged. Because children's grievances will definitely involve others, if parents don't understand the reasons, they are likely to misunderstand each other, which is not conducive to children's correction of shortcomings.

3. Hug and soothe your child

Parents should not abuse their children when they are wronged and lose their temper. They should first calm their hearts, gently stop the child's bad venting behavior, and then gently hug the child to appease his emotions.

When the children's emotions gradually calm down, parents and children will talk and help them express their feelings and needs.

4. Emotional support

When the child is wronged, parents should be less reasonable and give the child more opportunities to speak and express, so that the child feels that he is not alone. Parents will give him emotional support, which will make the child calm down quickly, treat one thing objectively, learn to reflect, mature in the process of resolving grievances, and gradually develop a calm attitude.