What are the manifestations of children's inferiority complex that parents must pay attention to?

Usually, the first manifestation of children with inferiority is cowardice and timidity. When encountering setbacks, the first reaction is not to overcome difficulties and move on, but to give up and be knocked down by difficulties. Because of inferiority, they feel that they are not good enough and have no ability to solve these difficulties. Instead of spending energy, they will still fail. Might as well just give up.

In interpersonal communication, people who feel inferior lack courage and self-confidence. They don't take the initiative to talk to others, and even if they do, they are usually quiet. You should think for a long time before you say every word. I don't know if the other party will be happy in this conversation, and I am worried that others are not interested in their own topics. The result is fear of being rejected by others, lack of self-confidence and limited courage.

2, like procrastination

Some children always procrastinate in their studies and hesitate to do things in life. They always need their parents to keep urging them to finish. Parents usually think that this is a sign of laziness and irresponsibility, but in fact it may be a sign of inferiority. Children think they have no ability to do it well, so they will spend more time and experience to finish it, hoping to do their best and get praise from their parents to increase their confidence.

3, too sensible

People of the older generation often say that crying children have candy to eat. Indeed, in life, people will always be more sympathetic to the weak, and they will always be more tolerant in the face of crying children. Every parent likes obedient and sensible children. In the face of naughty children, they always say: mom and dad won't want you anymore.

Most children know that this is a joke played by their parents, but children with inferiority will take it seriously and think that their mistakes make their parents angry. If they want to get more attention and praise from their parents, they will follow their parents' instructions and complete every task assigned by their parents well, for fear of losing their parents carelessly.

4. Too weak

Children with low self-esteem are usually weak. In the face of bullying and abuse by others, they will only choose to endure silently, without retaliation or resistance. When the abuser sees this, he will continue to bully the child next time, forming a vicious circle. Children are afraid to ask their teachers and parents for help, and their personality will become more and more withdrawn over time, like a lamb to be slaughtered.

Such a child, parents also belong to extreme personality. Or like a child, I don't know how to resist. Children are usually exposed to it, and they will naturally not resist if they are bullied. Either the character is grumpy, and the child will always lose his temper and scold the child when he makes a mistake. Children are often criticized, easy to deny themselves and afraid to try new things easily.

5. Too arrogant

The antonym of inferiority is arrogance and conceit. People should be proud, but not arrogant. Arrogance refers to the indomitable spirit of doing things and daring to struggle; Arrogance is arrogance. Everyone has vanity. The less you have, the more you want. Proper vanity can stimulate people's fighting spirit and inspire people to move towards better goals.

If you don't grasp this scale, you will become arrogant and superficial. When the actual results do not reach the expected goals, children with inferiority can only choose to exaggerate and cover up things in order not to be ashamed in front of others. Arrogance is also a manifestation of inferiority. I constantly deny myself at work, but expect excellent results.

6, too sensitive

Children with low self-esteem are usually very fragile inside, and others' evaluation of themselves will be infinitely magnified. In addition, casual suspicion is also a feature of children with inferiority complex. Some serious children even think that other people's whispers are all bad words about themselves. Children always feel that they are not as good as others and worse than others.

When educating children, parents also need to constantly improve themselves through different channels. In this way, in the face of children's various problems, they can handle them with ease.