A joke about being unaffordable.

If you can't eat grapes, it is said that sour grapes can't achieve your goal. You can balance your lost mood on the grounds that you are not good or don't want them. The fable that foxes eat grapes is well known. In fact, this story also reflects a common psychological phenomenon in people's daily life. When people encounter difficulties and obstacles in study, work and life, they will consciously or unconsciously produce an adaptive tendency to get rid of tension and restore emotional balance. Just like the fox in the fable, belittle what you can't get to balance your mind. This is a self-protection mechanism of human beings, which is called "sour grape psychology" in psychology. This mechanism, which can play a psychological adjustment role, is not derogatory in fables. It is our psychological guardian to defend and comfort ourselves with acceptable reasons and avoid more serious psychological harm.

In life, everyone will encounter some setbacks and unpleasant things. Some situations can be improved through our efforts, and there are many things that we cannot change under the conditions at that time. At this time, are we hiding in a dark corner and constantly blaming ourselves for "spilled milk", or get up from where we fell, sort out our mood and move on? Worrying and regretting blindly is not conducive to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to recover the mistakes that have been made. Ah Q written by Lu Xun, every time he was beaten, he kept saying "My son beat Lao Zi anyway", so he forgot the pain of his flesh and blood. Why don't we use Ah Q's spiritual victory method to brush off the emotional haze and get out of the trough?

Thinking about the same thing with a positive attitude will lead to different conclusions and improve the gloomy mood. When encountering setbacks, you can think about "a blessing in disguise"; When you fail, you can comfort yourself with the idea that "experience is also a fortune". This is not a passive recluse, but an attitude towards life that can be freely put away. Keep your head down to lift it higher!

What is the psychology of not eating grapes? Not eating grapes is the psychology of literary decoration. Literary decoration refers to a person looking for reasons to defend himself in order to cover up the behavior that is easy to be teased by others; Or skillfully prove that the feelings and behaviors he can't stand are what he can stand.