Those things diary

The happiest thing in life is that someone is willing to wait for you, from youth to maturity, from the end of the world to just here. ——Inscription

At 4 o'clock in the morning, I was not sleepy, so I made a cup of black tea and faced the computer. There was no World Cup event at the moment, so I took some time to sort out the messy photos and looked at the photos. People, things, and thoughts are sometimes pulled far away and sometimes very close.

I haven’t coded in the space for more than half a year. Weibo only reposts some jokes, interesting news, and the like. As for WeChat, it is now the most commonly used chat tool. I don’t know if it’s because I’m used to micro-life, or it’s a sign of maturity. Now, when faced with the joys, sorrows and sorrows in life and work, I no longer just lament in my diary about trivial things and pretend to make long remarks. Even if I send WeChat sometimes, some handwriting will be cleaned up every once in a while.

When I returned to Jieyang to work for more than a year and almost two years, many people around me envied me for being a civil servant and having the aura of being a “selected student” from the Organization Department; some people also didn’t understand why I was working in Jieyang. If you are doing well in Shenzhen, why would you go to a strange city?

For more than a year, when faced with the envy of others, I often say that I actually regard civil service as an ordinary job. I am not used to it. Those aunts and uncles say "Wow, civil servants are not bad." Oh, how old are you? Have you ever had a girlfriend..." For more than a year, when faced with some people's incomprehension, I just smiled and said nothing, or simply said one or two sentences, "I am from Jieyang, why don't I Come back?”

Someone asked me, how courageous did it take for you to make this decision? Actually, can I say that I didn’t think too much, 0.1 second is enough. My thought at that time was very simple, "I want to go to her city." That's all. How can we consider that this process is so ups and downs and not easy? Love is like this. It can make people instantly full of self-confidence and full of positive energy.

About me, she changed the trajectory of my life. What impressed me most was that for a while in college, I would get up and read before dawn at around 6 o'clock every day, which made my dorm mates think I was inexplicable. In one year, I received a scholarship and obtained two qualification certificates, but was questioned for cheating. Two years ago, when I was graduating, my domineering thesis defense killed all these people instantly.

Regarding her, although she was young at that time, she was much more sensible than me. If I changed her in any way, I think I should have witnessed her mental journey of growing up bit by bit. Over the years, We grew up with mutual encouragement and support. I still keep the pile of text messages and multimedia messages in Wandoujia. Many of the dreams or fantasies I had when I was young are now gradually coming true.

Two years ago, she graduated from health school. I encouraged her to take the college entrance examination. I searched a lot of exam information on the Internet and taught her trigonometric functions, hyperbolas, and elliptic equations. Due to limited conditions, I could only write I wrote it down in detail on paper and then took a photo with my phone to show it to her, but it was a pity that it didn’t come in handy. However, she successfully passed the Qing Vocational College and scored well above the cutoff.

Regarding those places, the sea by Dameisha, Happy Valley, Kingkey 100, the East Gate, the place where the coins were dropped on Maya Road, and the temple in Huangqi Mountain that I can’t find. , Jinxianmen, Lantian Middle School, and the old street full of historical vicissitudes that I visited for the first time; two unrelated cities thus intersected.

Some people say that your love is like a fairy tale in a TV series, full of dreams. In fact, many of the things behind it have not been experienced personally, so how can one realize how difficult it was along the way. In my 2nd year of college, my friends were in pairs, which was very romantic, but she still insisted on that agreement; and when I first came to Jieyang, I was so uncomfortable facing the unfamiliar environment and language. Once I went shopping in Mandarin. Fruit, a pound of bananas costs 5 yuan (selling to others costs 3 yuan), I was so angry and lost at that moment.

In July this year, she graduated and returned to this city. In 2 years, I integrated into the life here, and communication is no longer a problem. The city of Jieyang is far less prosperous than Shenzhen, but, as I once said, a city with you is home.