Why is it sometimes very sad but can't shed tears?

I think that's because we have really grown up. How can there be so many tears in adult life? How can you have so much time to be sad? How can there be so many sad things? No work tomorrow? Don't you have to eat tomorrow? Don't you have a heavy burden tomorrow? No matter what we are sad about, we will always find an exit that suits us. Although we need to vent our emotions, we don't have to shed tears.

I remember Saramago, a famous Portuguese writer, once said, "All of us are vulnerable at times, and the important thing is that we are still crying. Many times, crying is a way to be saved, and sometimes you will die if you don't cry. " I always feel that my tears are very low, and I can't help crying when I watch the sad plot in TV series or novels. Probably because my emotions are too rich, my mind is full of all kinds of things that trigger emotional ignition.

But personally, I think the tears that fall like this are completely different from those that fall when I am sad. People who have experienced sad things and cried in the middle of the night are either wronged or sad, and only then do they know the heartbreaking pain. It feels like if I die the next second, I won't be so heartbroken, or I won't have to face things I don't want to face. Fortunately, after most of the emotions are vented, the smog will always pass, the sky will always clear up, and tomorrow will still be beautiful. Crying is not cowardice. I cherish this opportunity to shed tears freely. I can really feel a moist liquid pouring out of my body. At the same time, my emotions came out accordingly, and my bound heart was finally saved.

For some people, it is difficult for them to cry, but the more sad they are, the more they can't cry. Maybe this kind of sadness is greater than death or just not sad. After all, everyone has their own way to vent their feelings. If you can't cry, go running or chat with friends. I just hope you don't kill your weak side with your last strength when you are weak. After that, don't cry for yourself, be particularly indifferent to yourself, and don't be the bystander who looks at yourself coldly.