How to treat other people's jokes?

Yesterday, a little girl confided to me:

"I hate that boy at the back desk. He often pokes me in the back with a pen. I reminded him many times, but he wouldn't listen.

What's more, once in class, he actually lifted my sling with a pen. I turned and knocked over his desk in anger, and then the whole class looked at me.

The teacher asked me why, and I was too embarrassed to say, and then the teacher scolded me. I was really wronged and cried in class. "

What she said reminded me. When I was in junior high school, I often had a child poke me with something.

After repeatedly refusing to change, I suddenly threw the stool back, turned around and dumped his desk, and he fell down with the table and stool, embarrassed.

In Chinese class at that time, the Chinese teacher dragged us out for training.

I feel guilty, but it's also great, because he really won't mess with me next time.

For a boy, it is not difficult for me to dare to resist like this, but for a girl, sometimes it is really helpless.

Personal experience and attitude towards jokes depend on your attitude towards jokes. I tell the truth as a joke and others listen to it as a joke. You want others to understand your jokes, so you take them seriously, because you want others to face your jokes in the same way. I hope you can understand that it's not that you can't afford to joke, it's not that you have such a temper. Conclusion: Your jokes are serious, while others' jokes are just jokes. People always like to make jokes and do things that hurt others to get their own happiness.

When the victims are unhappy, they will say: Are you too cheap to play and so stingy?

It seems that "joking" has become a cloak for people to release malice. As long as they wear them, they are not responsible.

As everyone knows, the people who are hurt are so sad.