How do college students deal with their roommates?

1. Know how to communicate with roommates. People know each other from communication, so keep a normal communication with your roommate, so that you will not be ignored, and no roommate will be ignored by you, leading to alienation, resulting in indifference and contradiction;

2. Remember not to influence others, including life and thoughts. The dormitory is only a dozen square meters, and there are four to six people living there. It is absolutely impossible not to influence the other party, but try to minimize the influence. For example, some people in the dormitory must like to get up early, and some people like to sleep late. A person who gets up early is bound to make a sound, because it is normal, but if he starts talking and playing music when he gets up, it will affect the normal life of others, and the influence of normal washing will be accepted because it is uncontrollable. However, speaking and playing music are controllable and avoidable noises, which are hard to be accepted. Similarly, whether we are listening to songs, playing games or even listening to words in the dormitory, actively wearing headphones is a quality (excluding "self-centered" activists, of course);

3. Don't build collectivization in the dormitory. How many people are there in a dormitory? If there is a group phenomenon, then this dormitory is definitely not a harmonious dormitory. There are many contradictions, which may seem normal on the surface. Once there is a fuse, it will explode immediately.

4. Dormitory leaders should recognize their own functions and play their due roles. Some people serve as the head of the dormitory, thinking that it is just a name, while others serve as the head of the dormitory just to be the boss. Few dormitory directors give full play to their substantive utility, always thinking about how to be a good person and win over their own forces. Therefore, if you are the director of the dormitory, you should give priority to handling and coordinating the dormitory relationship, and don't be silent in the face of contradictions. Sometimes you talk big and are afraid of taking responsibility. Remember: the dormitory director is mainly responsible for contradictions;

5. When doing things, always grasp the "degree". Life in university dormitories affects each other. How to find a balance is the "degree" that everyone grasps when doing things. If everyone has a good grasp of the degree, there will be no big problems in the dormitory, and the relationship between roommates will naturally become "iron", because the control of the degree is based on mutual understanding;

6. Don't look down on bullying anyone, and don't care too much about others looking down on bullying you. Indeed, the most humbled thing in daily life is being looked down upon and bullied, which is unacceptable to anyone, so don't have such words and deeds in the dormitory, which is the premise of dealing with dormitory relations, because the basis of equal communication. Some people say that the university is a "training ground" before entering the society. In college, besides studying, dealing with interpersonal relationships is also our "compulsory course". Dealing with the dormitory relationship is probably our first step! Try to communicate, try to actively release goodwill, maybe everything will develop in a good direction.