Friendship is actually very simple-prose appreciation

Live in this world for friendship. At least I think so. Life is an undyed painting. Dyeing pens is a colorful friendship; At first, the soil was only black, dotted with green friendship.

When we are sad, friends can give us shoulders. Friends can make us happy when we cry alone. This is not Mona Lisa's mysterious smile, but friendship, a very simple and elusive friendship. Friendship has magical power and shakes us.

"There are several confidants in the world, and several friendships can last forever. May friendship always be in your heart and mine ... "Yes, the world is so big, but it's hard to find a friend to talk to. I really want to write down Bo's famous saying "However, China has our friendship and God has our neighbors". But every time I look up at the sky, how can I find so many stars ...

You can't find friends. I was accidentally "hit". When you pick up a pen for others, you may know each other and become friends. Really, friendship is that simple.

A bosom friend is enough in life, a thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. Friends are an important part of people's spiritual life. People without friendship are like living in a lonely wilderness. People who lack friends will feel lonely on earth. People need friendship, because sincere friendship can make people work hard, make people happy, make people happy and move forward. ...

The wealth of life is endless, but what is the real wealth? Is it money? Is it power? No, friendship. I don't know which philosopher said, "wealth is not a true friend, but a friend is a permanent wealth." Friends, when you know the value of friends, don't care too much about the trifles between friends. You should know that friendship is not temporary, but in peacetime; Not by age, but by heart. Friend, don't care too much. Let's join hands to see the beautiful sunrise. Let's fight together!

Only those who really make friends can get true friendship. Seeing friendship as a trader can neither produce true friendship nor stand the test of time. Harm set, harm get.

Friendship, drinking tea, tasting tea! Friends are like fragrant teas, which make people precipitate and make people strong; Friends are the eternal wealth of life and destiny, and sincerity cannot be profaned. The right amount of tea meets the right water for you, and the tea meets the right person for you. This fate of tea, water and people makes people feel that when drinking tea, they always feel that they can't take away a cloud, or when they are desperate, they still find themselves holding the tail of the cloud. Lotus in the water always tries its best to make the reflection in the water look more perfect, but it is regrettable that the feeling of loneliness makes it perfect again. The haggard appearance will always be revealed vaguely, as if it were a kind of magic. Loneliness, although everyone lives alone, friends are certainly not made of glass, but many people always regard friends as glass and are careful not to be damaged. So sometimes, you are obviously dissatisfied with your friends, but you dare not express it. Fear of conflict once dissatisfaction is expressed; Once there is a contradiction, it will hurt feelings; Once you hurt your feelings, you will lose this friend. You will lose a friend because of a little thing. A little pig named Wilbur and a spider named Charlotte became friends. The future fate of pigs is to become a big dish of Christmas. This sad result frightened Wilbur. It tried to escape, but it was only a pig after all.

Charlotte, seemingly insignificant, said, "Let me help you." So Charlotte wove the words "good pig" and "Chuck Man's good pig" with a net in the pigsty. Those who have been wanting to see you and are always willing to receive your call can tell their stories freely with you, but they never want to connect their lives with you. Worry about your sadness, rejoice in your satisfaction, often visit bookstores for a book you want, worry about your sudden cold, but never consider getting involved in your fate. Friendship can promote competition. When friends have competition, they should help each other and make progress together. This is the embodiment of true friendship. If two people turn against each other, use each other and frame each other because of competition, then they are definitely not friends and there is no real friendship. If he loses his friendship because of competition, he will lose more than he gains. Friendship between friends is a very delicate thing. I once heard a saying that friends are used for betrayal. I think the person who said this must have been greatly hit and hurt by his friends. I should say that I believe in friendship, at least at this moment, I believe in friendship very much. A friend is like a lamp in your life, which brings you warmth when you need it most …

Lonely for who?

There used to be a blockade, and sometimes I was busy playing down that feeling, a corrosive division. -Inscription.

The splendor of fireworks finally dissipated, and the real emotion did not last as long as expected. When I opened it, I saw tears in my eyes and shed tears.

That year, you and I were innocent, caring for each other, holding hands to keep warm, and having fun. Is it a fool of the world, or is it shallow? The warmth is still there, and people have left. Maybe young, maybe proud, don't ask us why we parted ways. Maybe it's because I'm inexperienced, I don't know how to get along gracefully, and my feelings fall like sparks.

Stubborn temperament, in the face of lost emotions, focused on the cause, years of efforts are irrelevant.

Calm down, don't allow yourself to look back, and always remind yourself not to be trapped by feelings. Being a successful woman is better than living a mediocre life.

Perhaps, I don't know how to cherish and leave no wounds; Perhaps, only by surpassing ourselves can we make up for the emotional incompleteness.

The warmth of the palm is not clenched, but the fingers are locked for a lifetime; If you don't hide the pain in your heart, it won't hurt. Who owes who a debt of love, after all, is full of fog, there is no clue to solve, a farewell is this life. Countless times, I have turned back. I tried to sit down and talk about my sadness, but found that there was no way to find my name except the traces in my heart.

Afraid of leisure, afraid of the darkness of night, your shadow is eroding my inner world and flooding.

Looking through the past again and again, looking for the way to go. It turned out to be a happy ending.

Slowly tired, lock up your heart, seal up your love, don't fight against fate, don't do unnecessary tossing, just be content with the status quo!

How do people become mature?

Text | Koiwai

I like the idea of equivalent exchange in the anime "The Alchemist of Steel" very much.

I have always believed that everything in this universe is energy conservation, and everything has a price, but some are invisible and some are tangible. Some are recognized by the world, and some can only bear it alone.

For single people, there is a saying.

You want what you never got, which means you have to lose what you never lost in exchange.

For example, after peter parker suffered a spider bite mutation, it was a Spider-Man at best. The reason why I became Spider-Man, instead of using my superpowers to make profits for myself, is precisely because I spared criminals, but my uncle was killed, which led to introspection and maturity.

Grow up, some answers are always politically correct. For example, read more books, ponder more, get in touch with excellent people, then think and persist. This is always true, but the question is, why are so few people really able to do this? Of course, there are personality and environmental factors, but there are still many people who can't do it even if they realize it. Why? Because many people lack the motivation to do these things.

You tell a fat man that you want to lose weight. He knows that you want to lose weight, but knowing that you want to lose weight and doing it from the bottom of your heart is as far away as the Pacific Ocean.

On the contrary, a beautiful woman said to the fat man, I will accompany you when you lose weight successfully. This source of motivation will make him excited immediately.

So we, too, have heard so many truths, don't we know right or wrong?

But although I know that some things are right, I don't know if I need to do it, because many right things can't make people happy. What is even more frightening is that we are afraid that even if we do it, there may be no result.

"Now that I have reached the crossroads of my life, I know which way is right. Without exception, I know, but I never walk. Why? Because it's too fucking bitter. " -"The Taste of Women"

Insufficient gastric motility, you can find motilium, and the source of self-change is insufficient. How to find it?

I still like to share some stories, because there are too many things worth thinking about in real experiences, which is far better than drawing conclusions directly.

One.

A classmate in primary school, originally a dude, lives comfortably and richly, has a bad personality and likes to fight. My father died unexpectedly in the fifth grade summer vacation. It is said that he owed a huge gambling debt, and he couldn't get over it at the moment. Later, I sold my house and paid off my debts. From then on, I became silent and studied hard.

He changed suddenly, almost overnight, just like a different person. It is not difficult to imagine how his heart suffered and endured every night after that.

After many years, he has become an excellent and gentle person. He told me that after losing his father, he began to realize what he was like without him. Looking at his crying weak mother, he thought, there are still mothers who need to be guarded by themselves. They must grow up quickly, be strong and reliable, and reassure their mothers.

In this case, it is easy to go to extremes, because an incorrect idea may lead to an evil path. So stories are just stories, not rules. I tell this story to express an idea.

When a person realizes from every capillary that he can't rely on others, can't always pin his hopes on the outside world, and can only protect himself and his beloved by making himself strong, he begins to grow rapidly.

Two.

One of my teachers told me about his brother. My teacher is from rural Qinghai. My family was poor when I was a child. In junior high school, my brother didn't like reading and had a bad temper. He has always wanted to go out to work, and he is always in conflict with his family. One summer vacation, he ran away from home after quarreling with his family.

After searching at home for three or four days, I was desperate. At that time, he went home.

A person, empty-handed, travel-stained, pale. Hide in the room and sleep without saying a word.

After talking with the teacher, I realized that he was cheated to dig a coal mine, but he was left halfway and all his luggage was taken away.

And that place is a barren desert. He walked home alone, sleeping on the street, hungry, worried about the existence of wild animals, worried that he was exhausted in the wilderness at night.

When he woke up in the middle of the night and stared at the starry sky, his heart was instantly calm, and his previous grievances were immediately swept away. He began to think about his own value, the meaning of his family, what the future is, how to spend his life and so on. Although he couldn't say why, he began to learn to reflect and think for himself.

Later, earth-shaking changes took place in my younger brother, and he began to study hard, understand the outside world and ask my teacher a lot of thoughts about life. Really love reading and thinking.

Many years later, he became a high school physics teacher. This is beyond his wildest dreams.

If it weren't for the accident, that really quiet night, maybe he would really wander outside and become a working prodigal son.

Life is to play some casual jokes, turn you around and get in the way, and then give you a different perspective.

Some people discovered it by chance, while others ignored it all their lives. Then remember the past and hate the present. Blame everything on fate.

I'm not sure what Socrates said is true. There is a saying: an unexamined life is not worth living.

A person who doesn't know how to look at the province, drifting with the tide all his life, looks very busy and hard, and may never mature.

Three.

On second thought, I'd better put my own experience on it. When I look back on my former self, I deeply feel the vagaries of life. I can't help but say a few words, which is also self-reflection again.

Many years ago, I once liked a girl very much and was completely infatuated with her. But she is a smart and quiet girl. She thinks I am too naive and impetuous to accept me. I thought that if I read more obscure books, talk more about tall topics and learn more about historical philosophy, girls would think I was mature and talented. I don't know if I am familiar with it. It is the most naive to think of yourself like this.

Because the source of my reading is only to make girls think that I am mature and meaningful, I still resist reading, just swallowing dates and asking little. I can't remember anything after reading it, but I can only extract more wonderful words and phrases, go to Douban to see other people's summaries and book reviews and pretend to have learned them. But at least with this motivation, I began to contact many books. )

In a chat, in order to appear knowledgeable in front of girls. I pretend to know something about the technology of fruit shell net. I didn't expect there was a doctor of science at the scene, so I refuted it lightly. I can't wait to disappear from this world in a few minutes.

Later, I didn't want to read more. I thought my conditions were not bad. She liked it or not, so why did she have to do what she asked?

So I started flying outside, becoming more and more impetuous.

If I go on like this, I will only become a more and more annoying person, with flirtatious speech, quick tongue, full of ambition and empty head.

If nothing else happens.

In the middle of the night when some hormones are impetuous, I saw a girl I like on Weibo. She is so hungry that she wants to have dinner. So you can reply below and I'll drive you there.

Go out excitedly and gallop all the way. So an unforgettable car accident happened that night.

I don't want to describe the specific process of the car accident, but this accident has a great influence on me. The meaning of life and death, the value of life, attitude towards life, etc. It has changed my life in various senses.

A month later, I almost locked myself in my room. I don't want to touch anything except eat and go to the toilet, and I don't want to see anyone.

I began to sleep in a daze, and began to slowly recall my attitude and behavior in recent years, feeling very ashamed.

It's strange that I suddenly feel how to live like before. I began to dig out many books that I had bought and never read before, but I found myself able to calm down and read one by one, and some tears filled my eyes.

The books that have the greatest influence on me are Allen de Botton's Six Ancestors Altar Sutra, Madman, Love Notes, Romance, Crime and Punishment, and Lotus, the only book I have read many times. Although I don't like Anne Baby's other books, many sentences in Lotus really gave me a slap in the face at that time, which made me think deeply and wake up.

These books completely fascinated me with the world of words and thinking, and began to really develop the habit of reading, thinking and writing alone.

Later, I began to adjust myself, simplify my life and interpersonal relationships, define the direction and pursuit of life, and live a full and simple life.

Two years have passed, and all my friends around me, including my parents, have seen my change. I changed from a grumpy and willful smelly boy to a comfortable one now, doing what I like and am good at gently and calmly, constantly starting to learn new technologies, meeting many interesting people and listening to many special experiences and stories. Also let me see the world, more and more soft.

Of course, this accident is not what I expected, but I am still grateful for its occurrence. If it weren't for the car accident, I can't imagine what kind of person I would be now.

After the story is finished, I want to say that young people are always eager for rapid maturity and independence. However, many things are really haste makes waste. It is really difficult to mature without experiencing the nothingness and absurdity of this world, the change and impermanence of life, and the complexity and delicacy of feelings. This is just a disguised sophistication.

You should be emotionally mature, don't be hurt once or twice, and don't be deeply lovelorn. You can't be born mature, you are a born veteran.

What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do. The ancestors have made it very concise.

I once wrote a passage: no one is born sensible, just seeing too many disgusting people.

When we were young, we had too many beautiful imaginations about the world. Only by personally participating in many games and rules of society and reality can you realize the complexity and simplicity, fun and helplessness of this world.

The Bible says, "Go through the narrow gate. Because it leads to destruction, the gate is wide, the road is big, and many people go in; The road to eternal life, the door is very narrow, the road is very small, and few people find it.

In fact, no matter how many suggestions you have, the key is whether you can take the first step yourself.

I have met many people who are dissatisfied with the status quo and want to change, but the next sentence is always self-defense, such as who makes me poor and fat, I don't have a good father, I don't study enough, I don't exercise well, I don't have special skills, and the people I like won't like me. Even if I can't compare with other people's natural winners, or the most disgusting thing is that I want to change, but I have to say with my conscience, I think this ordinary life is quite good now. Good sister, have you ever had an extraordinary life?

If someone insists on self-defense, I can only carve two words for all the misfortunes in his later life: deserved it.

Desire itself is not a bad thing. It is human nature to want to make money, talk with beautiful and excellent people and live a wonderful and interesting life.

The bad thing is that you dare not face up to your own desires, don't want to believe in human plasticity, and suppress your desire to change again and again.

If you want to change, just face your feelings and say it out loud, "I want to change!" " "Nothing shameful!

Pascal asked: What is man in infinity?

How does a person define himself, change himself and find himself? This is the biggest topic in everyone's life.

I like Pascal's answer: man is just a reed, the most fragile in nature, but he is a thinking reed.

With you, there is an English proverb for each other-

"The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago. The second best time is now. "

The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. )

I especially believe that the most important thing in every life is to constantly update yourself.

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Yile, who added to the circle of friends?

Once lost, who deleted it from friends circle?

Confused, who does the circle of friends blame?

Who did the circle of friends praise?

Confused, can't leave.

There are many things I don't know in this world. Many times, I don't know what kind of person I am. I have a lot of things I want, and I don't have anything I have to get. It is precisely because of this that I have nothing to do, nothing to do. I will be particularly distressed. I have nothing, no skills, no outstanding advantages, no favorite places. The terrible thing is that I don't even have a firm dream, and I don't have the courage to be desperate, which should belong to youth.

I don't particularly want to go to a desperate city, I don't particularly want a luxury, I don't particularly want to meet someone, and I don't want a hangover. I can't even find the meaning of life, nor can I see the direction of life. But really every holiday, when I look at all the lights in this small village, one is the warmest, and I feel very sweet, very sweet. I think the happiest thing in the world is the white-haired hall, with the most comforting smile on its face and plain tea, but with the warmest aroma, tasting the taste of my favorite home in my heart. I am thinking again that no matter what youth looks like, it is unique and cannot be copied.

This summer, after attending the college entrance examination, I got enough sleep and lay at home leisurely. Come to think of it, 20 15, the nineteenth year of my life, is no different, and it is so far away from my imagination for many years. No madness, no tears, no ups and downs, calm like a bowl of water, obviously mixed, but I can't say a word. The sky is gloomy these days, which seems to cater to my heart. Looking at the dark sky, I was thinking that in the past three years, I hated the wake-up bell at five o'clock in high school because I often lost sleep until after midnight. I hate the endless class hours in high school, because I always use this time to dream. I hate the crowded environment in high school, because I like quiet and don't want to accept noisy life.

Now that three years have passed, I have come step by step and found that I may have really been polished, and I will bear more and more, and I will bear a lot of disappointment. It's like a joke to remember your ambition and get in touch with the society to hone yourself. I haven't had time to watch a few TV plays a day, and I can't get rid of the shackles of the student party.

This summer, I thought I would be prosperous, but in fact I just ate and drank in the dark. I'm very busy, but I haven't thought about applying to college. I can't even say what I think about the future.

Anyway, I still hope that through my own efforts, my loyal wife will. After all, I don't want a fixed life. The future is in my own hands. I still have youth to fight for.

Life is a song. Life likes different things.

Life is a song. Love is different in life, but we are silent, but connected with each other. In spring, we went to Qiu Lai, but our true feelings still exist. We don't have them around, but we are in our hearts. We walked into our hearts without holding hands, but we were attached. We are touched, our hearts are close, our hearts are warm, and we are wandering. We have sincere feelings and care about our lives. The sun warms our bodies, our true feelings warm our hearts, and the spring breeze blows on our faces. Happiness is imprinted in our hearts and accompanies us. No matter the ends of the earth, with the warmth of family, understand the burden and helplessness in life, give spiritual support, know how to be strong after disguise, and give the truest love when you cry. The warmest thing in the world is that someone knows that someone hurts, that love is the truest, that someone hates someone and loves someone, and that a word of missing you will make you feel happy and painful. Life is like this, you can do it or cherish it.

Life is nothing more than ups and downs in gains and losses, entanglement in grievances, reversal in right and wrong, and reciprocating in sorrow and joy. No matter how wonderful and dull, we will be silent. No matter how narrow and wide the road is, we must move forward, learn to be open-minded, learn to be free and easy, and learn to be happy. For some people and things that can't be let go, we must learn to be calm and let go. Gradually, we will eventually grow old. We can't have everything in life. In fact, the beauty of life is not in the past, not in the future, and always in the present. We don't ask others arbitrarily, we don't blindly ask ourselves, we are kind, sincere, tolerant of others, and we are strict with ourselves. Gains and losses, success or failure, gathering and parting are all growth, pessimism, good mood, optimism and life.

Love is silent, it is good to know each other, but feelings are not revealed. They know enough. Quiet night, the heart of missing is very soft. A piece of spring flowers and moonlight is rippling in my heart, with melodious songs and long feelings, rendering acacia to convey love and let the sun light up your clear sky. I entrust my concern to the breeze, and let my blessing bring you peace and happiness. When you meet in a sea of people, not everyone can fall in love. I feel your breath in the air, I listen to your voice in the song, I look for your figure in the moonlight, I would like to turn into a beautiful butterfly and stay at your window, I would like to turn into a blue silk and wrap it around your eyebrows. Have you ever read my heart? I don't believe in love, but I believe in you. I believe your happiness is because you met me. I want to put you in the softest place in my heart so that you can feel my warmth and happiness.

I am a person who believes in fate. I always believe that it is also a kind of fate that you and I meet and know each other. Buddha said that you stared at each other 500 times in your last life and only got a brush in this life. Then my meeting with you in this life is also a hard-won practice of love. Love is always a thousand times. How many times can a person really love in his life? Don't ignore the seemingly ordinary possessions around him, not to mention. I have been told countless times that 500 years of staring at each other will bring me a sum of money in this life. Only in your warm arms can I enjoy the greatest happiness and happiness in the world.

Sometimes when you don't talk, you actually feel deeper and don't respond. In fact, you don't feel sad. In fact, the pain remains in your dreams, but you don't cry. In this world, not everything can be seen with the eyes. Sometimes what you see with your eyes is just an illusion created by others. Life has to go through too many games and too many traps that we can't see. You can keep your eyes open. When we close our eyes and take care of our hearts, we suddenly realize that knowing ourselves means knowing others, seeing our hearts and seeing the world clearly. You treat people as treasures, but people treat you as grass, you treat people as the only one, but people treat you as one. Emotionally, many people always pretend to be short-sighted, looking at the mountains, eating bowls and watching pots. How many banquets have ended, but they can't see deep feelings, and then there will be endless.

No one can afford to break a fiery heart. If there is no feeling of giving back, everyone has to give up. Even if you lose it, it's too late to recover it, make up for it, and regret it. Because they don't understand a truth, don't cherish it, don't deserve it, and always remember it. Don't squeeze into the world where they can't enter. If they humiliate themselves for others, then don't force feelings that they can't get. If they lose their dignity, they will slow down and leave. It's sand that a broken heart doesn't want to get hurt again and can't stay. Why don't you just raise it? If you can't let it go, try not to care. Everyone has a bottom line, is it trampled, is it true, is it played, is it love or friendship, and would rather leave proudly than humble, and would rather give up with a smile than cry.

Who you are, who you are, who you are, who you are, who you care about in your heart, who will forget who you are and who will forget who you are before you know who you are. In fact, no one is who you are, so why do you do it? It took a long time to find that your heart has gradually cooled down with lukewarm words and cared more. With a heart and a wound, we are strong. If you have someone, you will forget it. Emotionally, it is very important to get up and let go. It's easy to forget someone. Don't be mean. It's hard to give up a relationship. You can't say, you can't think, but you can't forget. Only suitable for collection, thinking about it, thinking about it, dreaming about it.

Love doesn't hurt. What hurts is a pledge of eternal love that can never be fulfilled. Losing is not terrible. Touching the scene is very hurtful. If you gamble on the happiness of your life, those who love you will never let you lose, and those who don't love you will make you cry. We are human beings, not gods, and we are bound to get hurt. We love ourselves more than love. Some people lose it, which will make you regret it for a lifetime, while others are full of love. Don't be too proud, too desperate and too thick-skinned, because you care enough, but don't be persistent and don't let go. You only blame yourself for your lack of ability, but don't be depressed. You don't deserve the best if you can't accept the worst. If you don't understand your good intentions, you are not qualified to get your good intentions.

Feelings have always been your wish, and sometimes being willing is not a good thing. Fate likes to joke like this. Those who need it can't get it, and those who get it don't need it. Emotional changes, there are many places to comfort. It's hard to find spiritual comfort. Remember the deepest, often hurt you the most thoroughly. Always holding an umbrella for you, you often ignore it automatically. Loneliness is when you want to talk, no one listens, and someone listens, but there is nothing to say. Indifference makes you lose your heart, but when someone walks away, you close your heart. In fact, the most precious thing in the world is what you have got and what you may lose at any time. Do not be blind. The intersection of parallel lines is not accidental. Don't play dumb. Anyone who plays the fool will be chilling. Don't let people who are really nice to you.

I was in a hurry that year, I didn't grasp it well, and I accidentally handed over my heart.

That year, I was in a hurry, didn't grasp it well, and accidentally handed over my heart; That year was in a hurry, and I loved it too late, but I didn't know that you had already disappeared. From the moment I met, I was doomed to escape this dream. From the moment I said goodbye, I knew this dream was too deep for me to extricate myself.