Some people, not relatives, are better than relatives.

Some people, not relatives, are better than relatives.

I just watched Ode to Joy, which is very rare. I haven't followed domestic dramas for a long time, but I watched a little ode to joy. The prosperous but difficult social background attracted me, so I have been chasing it. Today, when I saw 25 episodes, when Fan was miserable because of his brother's endless pit and his family's moral kidnapping, I was particularly moved by Xiaoqiu and Xiaoguan's concern for Fan. The action of boiling chicken soup and punching granules made Fan Meisheng completely collapse from the consistently strong surface. Indeed, Fan will always be a little princess worthy of love, no matter how strong and proud she is, even if she will always be a queen in the eyes of others. I have always believed that different people have different social status in society, and equality between men and women should be established under certain conditions. But in fact, Fan is just a little girl who needs to be loved, although she has layers of prosperous and complicated skins. The so-called hooking up with women is just pursuing a better lifestyle in your own way. In Ode to Joy, Fan Meisheng is my favorite character. She has a modern female side, and her family is poor. Compared with Qu Xiaoyu, I believe that most people may only see one or two Qu Xiaoyu in the crowd, but there are countless fans Mei Sheng. They yearn for and pursue the life they want, regardless of other people's opinions, and strive to squeeze in and become upper-class people. Maybe the way is wrong, but it is also a personal choice. But I believe that with Fan's shrewd and far-sighted personality, if it weren't for his own environment, he really couldn't be that person. How can he practice by seeking the desire of the rich? In this world, some people have different starting points, different opportunities and different people, so we should not criticize others' behavior at will. Maybe it's just a joke to you, but in my eyes, it's the only best choice she can make now. But ordinary people also have the benefits of ordinary people. There are a bunch of simple and caring sisters, not relatives but better than relatives. This can be seen as a window opened by God for Fan.

In fact, in real life, we also have many friends or colleagues who are not relatives but are better than relatives. As a small white-collar worker who drifted to Guangzhou from other places and didn't have the same blood as me in this big city, he squeezed the subway to work from nine to five every day, knowing that life is not easy. But fortunately, many friends and colleagues around me care about me and take care of me, so even if the salary is not high, it can support my determination to work hard in this city. Perhaps the hard living environment has trained each of us to be cautious, but don't forget to treat people around us with a sincere heart. Life is so hard. If we can't even do it ourselves, then we should ask ourselves: Is this still the life we want? So in any case, I would rather be the one who dares to cry and laugh than leave the hypocritical side to those who are relatively good to you. Although not relatives, but better than relatives. They can be your safe haven when you need them, so that you can let your guard down and cry loudly. So, cherish the bomb shelter around you. After crying, you have to go into battle lightly, right?