What did you learn after falling in love?

I didn't know that love is a value exchange until I fell in love.

There is really no love for no reason in this world. If two parties can get together, there must be something that attracted each other at that time. In a relationship, both sides can provide different values to each other, which may be spiritual, such as some emotional value that makes each other happy or excited; It may also be material. For example, if you have a car and a house, material security will bring a sense of security and superiority to each other. No matter what value can be provided to each other, this is an almost equivalent exchange.

Second, you don't know until you are in love. Love really suits me.

Suitable for each other: maintaining the same frequency vibration and maintaining the relationship between the two sides is king. Love is a long run. In the process of long-distance running, it is inevitable that the speed will be fast and slow, and there is no guarantee that two people will be synchronized at all times. If a person always runs ahead for a long time, TA will be tired sooner or later. Over time, the common topics between you will become less and less, and the continued feelings will become tasteless. In order to avoid this situation, in the long-distance running of love, one person is needed to help another person, so that both sides can grow together and make progress together.

Third, you don't know until you are in love. Don't think that the other person knows love.

I am afraid of the inner drama in love. I am afraid of "I thought you knew you knew". Be sure to talk more, talk more, don't think that you have a good relationship, or you can get each other with one look at a time. In this way, you will easily fall into disappointment, because the other person is really not as immortal as you think. Once the other person fails to meet your psychological needs, you will have negative emotions, and then you may have a quarrel.

So I think, what can be said should be said well in advance as far as possible to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

In short, love is a matter for two people. Now that we are in love, the next step is to get along. In order to maintain a good intimate relationship and establish a happy and beautiful family, both sides need to manage with heart, support each other and grow together.