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My wife, I want to tell you that as a new mother, you don’t have to be so perfect. No one is born to be a mother.

I once watched a micro-movie "Imperfect Mom". There are some classic sentences in it. I also feel deeply about them. Now I share them with you: "You always want to understand him, you are always afraid of him." Development is delayed, you are always worried that he will not sleep well, you always argue about scientific parenting, you always want to give him the best, you don’t have to be perfect, no one is born to be a mother.”

This. A few words reminded me of a few moments when my lover was a new mother. I also wanted to tell her: "No one is born to be a mother. You don't have to be perfect."

1. For the sake of the belly The child in the house had a stomachache after taking iron supplements

My wife got pregnant when she was 27 years old. I remember clearly when I was pregnant. As soon as we found out we were pregnant, we immediately went to the hospital for a check-up, and it turned out that we were in trouble. A joke. Because it was too early, the embryo had not yet formed, and the B-ultrasound did not detect the embryo. The doctor said we were too anxious and asked us to wait a month before coming back. However, during a blood test, it was discovered that my wife's hemoglobin was low, indicating she was anemic. The doctor prescribed iron supplements and blood-replenishing oral liquids. Anyone who has taken iron supplements knows that iron supplements irritate the stomach, and my wife’s stomach is not good in the first place. I get stomachache when I take iron supplements. Not only does my gastrointestinal tract feel uncomfortable, but my teeth also turn black. I asked the doctor and he said this was a reaction to taking iron supplements. But you can’t stop eating because the child in your belly needs it.

My wife still insisted on eating it, enduring the stomach pain and discomfort and taking iron and folic acid supplements every day. I also tried to replenish his blood through food supplements, but after checking several times, food supplements did not make up for it at all. In the end, I had to endure the stomach pain and take iron supplements. It wasn't until the last time she gave birth that my wife's blood replenished her blood. Only I know the suffering he suffered in the process. Now that the child is over 3 years old, she is still anemic. She went to the doctor because of iron deficiency. Because of her stomach pain, she no longer takes iron supplements and only supplements her blood through food supplements.

2. The pain during childbirth was so severe that I had no choice but to give birth painlessly

After ten months of pregnancy, I was finally giving birth. I remember clearly that when I was working out of town, my mother called me to say that my wife was going to give birth, one month ahead of the due date. I drove home as fast as I could. When I got home, I took my wife and the supplies I had prepared and went to the hospital. But when we got to the hospital, it wasn't as fast as we thought because it was our first baby. At that time, my wife suffered from pain for two days and two nights. During this period, I stayed with her. Not only did she not eat well, she also did not sleep well. Because we men can't understand the pain of giving birth. I only know that when she couldn't bear the pain, she would scratch me, and it would hurt me too.

After finally being checked by the doctor, she was able to enter the delivery room. Once you get there, it's a day. She went in at 8 a.m. and didn't come out until 6:30 p.m. The pain was so unbearable that she called me and asked for a painless delivery injection. I agreed without thinking too much. Although some people say that painless delivery has some disadvantages, such as back pain in the future. But seeing how much pain she was in, I couldn't care less. I still believed what the doctor said. Since this technology is available, it is safe. Finally, with the help of painless delivery, my wife gave birth to her son. She also said that it was useless for her, and no one else needed injections. She gave birth to a baby as soon as she went in. She went in for such a long time and still got painless injections. I said to my wife: "You don't have to blame yourself. Just hope that mother and child are safe."

3. Novice breastfeeding period, I don't know how to breastfeed

As a new mother, I want my child to drink breast milk. , I didn’t know how to breastfeed my baby at first. I still remember the scene when you were so anxious that you were covered in sweat. On the one hand, the baby was crying in a hurry, and on the other hand, you were so anxious that you couldn't feed him. It's useless for you to blame yourself, I feel worried when I see you. Finally, with the help of your child's grandmother, you gradually found a way and finally let your child drink breast milk. After the child is full, his red face is very cute, and you also smile. This is what I want to say to you, no one is born to be a mother, you did it the first time you breastfed.

4. You are sad when your baby is hospitalized for the first time

When your child was over one year old, he had a fever due to pneumonia. I was working out of town at the time, and you called me before dawn. The child had a fever of 39 degrees. I heard your helplessness, and I told you to take a taxi to the hospital first, and I would rush back right away. After a 4-hour drive, I arrived at the hospital. Your eyes were red, and you felt that you had not taken good care of your child. I said there is no child who doesn’t get sick. He just needs to come to the hospital and get good treatment from the doctor. I was hospitalized like this for 6 days. The child had needles stuck in his head and was coughing frequently. It was very uncomfortable for you and me. Fortunately, after 6 days of treatment, the child recovered and you have a smile on your face again. At that time, you told me that it was your fault for not taking good care of the child and making the child sick. I still want to say to you: There is no child who is not sick, and you don’t have to be so perfect.

5. The first time we were separated for a long time, you cried

When the child was 2 years old, there was a time when the family had to harvest wheat. If our parents came home, no one would give it to us. Take care of children. The parents wanted to take their son back to their hometown and come with him after harvesting the wheat. After further discussion, we had no choice but to send our son back to his hometown. While the children were sleeping, the two of us sneaked back to where we lived. That night, I saw that you were always unhappy, and I knew you were doing it for your son. You have never been separated from your son. Are you worried about whether he sleeps well at home? Are you worried about whether he will look for his mother when he wakes up? You are also worried about what to do if he gets sick in his hometown. You didn't tell me that after going to bed at night, I found you crying alone outside in the middle of the night. I walked over and asked you what was wrong? You say you want a child, but you blame yourself for being useless, leaving your son in your hometown just to earn money and work. I cried too. I understand your pain. Why don’t I miss the child? I wanted to tell you at that time, you can cry if you want. You don't have to act so perfect in front of your parents.

6. You are reluctant to go to kindergarten for the first time

Your child is 3 years old and it is time to go to kindergarten, but you are reluctant to let it go. You don’t want your son to go to kindergarten so early. You are afraid that your child will not be able to eat well, play well, or be bullied at school. But the child's friends are all in school, and he wants to go to school too. Once my son cried and said to me: "Dad, I want to go to kindergarten." I was so moved by my son that I took a video for you to see. Your eyes are red. I know you were also moved by your son, so we decided to let the child go to kindergarten.

On the first day of kindergarten, we both went to see him off in person. The little guy followed the teacher into the classroom without looking back. You were still a little sad at the time. Since it was the first day of kindergarten, we had not been added to the school's monitoring system yet. You kept asking the teacher when you could view the monitoring system, and you urged me to ask the teacher to add us to the monitoring system. I know you are worried about your child, and you want to see him under surveillance. At that time, I wanted to tell you that your child always has to go to school. You don’t have to take care of him so perfectly. This is the path that your child must take.

The child is now more than 3 years old. He has also grown taller and looks like a big child. He also adapts well in kindergarten, so you don't have to worry about him anymore. I just want to say to my wife: "You always worry about your children, worry about your children, and you always complain about not giving your children the best. I just want to say that no one is born to be a mother. You are not perfect, but you are a Good mother”!