My wife has been suffering from inflated vanity and comparison lately. She is distressed and needs help. . .

I want to say a few words! Everyone has vanity, but I think there is a certain limit to the relationship between husband and wife. Since problems still arise, what we have to do is not to stand there and worry about it, but to solve it and how to solve it. Woolen cloth?

If your wife is still telling you about the trivial matters of husband and wife in their workplace, then all we can do at this time is to ask questions. This is the best way to make the marriage last!

For example: 1. Your wife said: His husband bought a house and only wrote his wife’s name when registering it!

You can ask: If financial conditions permit, In this case, why don’t I think about it?

2. Your wife said: I thought you were the best to me before, but now I realize you were wrong

You can answer: Maybe I can transform my care for my children now. Make love and give it to you!

3. Your wife said: Your colleague scolded her mother-in-law so much

You can answer: Regardless of whether she scolded her mother-in-law so much, I think she is a Incompetent teachers, you see. At least you didn't do that!

I think since your wife is a teacher, after you keep asking questions, I think her brain will start to work. If the problem remains the same, it is obviously unreasonable, because my wife gave birth. After having the child, she became a completely different person and no longer made unreasonable things. When I asked her why, she just said that women who have given birth to children should become more mature!

In my opinion, men have self-esteem. Your wife has language and methods to attack your self-esteem time and time again. That is not what a mature woman can do! So here I would like to refute that anonymous netizen. Every family has its own difficulties. Maybe when something happens to you, your behavior may be more extreme than that of the questioner. So this illustrates a truth. , that is, people only say how others are doing, but when things happen to themselves, it changes!

Final summary: When there is a conflict between husband and wife, both family members and outsiders can only persuade them to make peace but not to break up. Therefore, I hope that for the sake of taking care of your children, you will give your wife a few more opportunities, but you have to What you do is not just tolerate it, you have to fight back and reveal the hint in your fight back! This is a mature man! I also hope that your family will be happy and healthy, and that your little one will thrive!

Off-topic: I like children very much! If you get divorced, I don’t mind raising one more!