What abilities do you need to teach your baby before going to kindergarten?

What can you do well before going to kindergarten to make your baby suffer and better integrate into kindergarten life?

Basic self-care ability

At home, parents can pet their children into little princesses, but after their children enter school, they need to be taught basic self-care ability in advance in order to better integrate into kindergarten life.

Basic life skills such as eating, drinking and going to the toilet will not only reduce the pressure on teachers, but also bring trouble. After all, teachers have to take care of dozens of children by themselves. If every child needs the teacher's help, then the teacher can't cover everything, so the child will suffer.

If children don't have these basic self-care abilities, they may be laughed at by their classmates and hold their heads up. Over time, children may become inferior and hate kindergartens.

Therefore, before the baby goes to kindergarten, parents had better teach their children some necessary self-care abilities, such as eating and dressing themselves and going to the toilet by themselves.

Basic expressive ability

In kindergarten, children inevitably have to deal with people, communicate with children and communicate with teachers. If they don't have basic expression skills, the little ones may be isolated and have no friends.

You know, in kindergarten, without parents, you won't guess the baby's psychology and please the baby, and no one will be as careful as parents and pay attention to the baby's needs at any time.

Therefore, if children don't have basic expressive ability, are hungry, tired and uncomfortable, don't know how to express themselves, and don't tell the teacher, they may have to bear it silently.

Therefore, before going to kindergarten, it is necessary to exercise children's ability to express their needs, let children go out to communicate with other children, and let their babies better integrate into the collective life.

Control your emotions.

At home, parents may spoil you and give you whatever you want. All the toys at home are your own. You can lose your temper with your parents without considering sharing. But when you enter the kindergarten, you need to know how to share, know how to queue and know how to be modest, so as to better adapt to the collective life.

Otherwise, just like Xiaoyun Yun, you grab whatever you like and hit people if you are unhappy. This is always self-centered. At home, your parents may obey, but at school, not many people will obey like their parents.

So in our daily life, we should not spoil our children too much. We still have to teach them basic manners and control their temper. Otherwise, not only other children don't like it, but also the teacher doesn't like it. In this way, if the child is too strong at school, it may be easy to be persuaded out. If they are too weak, they may be bullied.

Prepare your baby psychologically in advance to relieve anxiety.

When you enter kindergarten, your baby will enter a brand-new life. We need to explain to the baby in advance, tell the baby something about kindergarten, or take the baby to preschool to experience kindergarten life, or often take the baby to play with other children. A period of time in advance, simulate the kindergarten life, cultivate the baby's habit of eating, taking a lunch break, going to the toilet and playing with children according to the kindergarten schedule, and let the children feel the kindergarten life in their daily life.

In this way, when the baby really reaches the age of going to school, he can naturally adapt to the life in kindergarten without feeling anxious, worried and afraid.

Parent-child reading, establish good habits.

In order to better adapt the baby to kindergarten life, we can not only let the baby go to kindergarten to adapt to the experience, but also read books about kindergarten life and picture books about children's emotional management and character cultivation with the children.

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About the author: Zhang, female, has been working with children for many years 10, and there are two naughty boys at home. ※ Multi-platform account with the same name, original author in the field of high-quality parenting, focusing on sharing scientific parenting knowledge and growing up healthily and happily with the baby. If you have any confusion on the way to parenting, you can pay attention to me.

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