Zhou Enlai wrote a love poem to Deng, Deng, 19 Reply: Aren't you a celibate?

"Looking forward to your precious photos and kisses."

"There is no love in the paper. I kiss you a thousand times."

-from a letter with Deng.

Two years ago, a "Paper Short Love" spread all over the country, and this song could be heard in the streets, as if it were a thousand words of missing.

The listener recalled his missed fate and fantasized about his pending marriage, while I slowly fell into the love story of Premier Zhou and Deng.

As we all know, Premier Zhou Enlai is an uncompromising and indomitable person. He was a revolutionary pioneer, a founding father and an efficient diplomat. ...

But who would have thought that Premier Zhou was still a sweet-talking and clingy person in private?

"Kiss you, kiss you deeply." This kind of affectionate expression is not uncommon in Premier Zhou's letters. Compared with the sweetness of his love with Deng, these sweet words are simply not worth mentioning!

Presumably, Premier Zhou has always been the dream lover of many women. He is not only a talented and influential figure in politics, but also a handsome man with perfect handsome skin.

From this perspective, Premier Zhou really stands out from the crowd everywhere, which is unique in history!

But it is also such a man who is not light and easy to climb. The other half who joined hands with him in the end is Deng, who looks plain!

Whenever people who don't know Deng see their photos, they will inevitably wonder why Premier Zhou should look up to Deng.

I think Deng can tie Premier Zhou's body and mind to himself, not because of the skin that may fade at any time, but because of the proximity of ability and capital!

Even when 19 was writing a love letter to Deng, she could calmly reply: Aren't you a celibate?

Deng, a plain-looking woman, had a rough life.

1904, Deng, from Nanning, Guangxi. My father is Lord Zhen Tai, with a distinguished family. But Deng's birth was not smooth at first.

Because she is a daughter, when she was born that night, Zhentai's adults learned that his wife had a smooth delivery, and their emotions fluctuated.

The bad habit of preferring sons to daughters was very common in China at that time, so the adults in Zhentai naturally hoped that their wives could have a son to carry on the family line.

So when the midwife and others went to give good news to Lord Zhentai, they saw Lord Zhentai's face gloomy and unhappy. He said: What's the use of having a daughter? It is better to give it away!

As a mother, she naturally can't stand by and watch her husband selfishly decide whether her daughter will stay or not.

At this time, a woman's strong and rebellious psychology is fully reflected. When the lady heard this, she protested resolutely: If you send her away, then cross over from me first!

The husband had no choice but to leave Deng at home.

After such a seesaw battle, Deng's position in the hearts of the couple suddenly rose. The father wanted to make up for his previous evil thoughts, while the mother devoted herself to her daughter.

Only when Deng was still young, Lord Zhentai died unexpectedly, and the economic conditions of the whole family were not as good as before. Fortunately, her mother, Yang Zhende, is not a woman who never touches spring water, but she knows culture and medical skills.

Most of the expenses at home depend on Yang Zhende's meager salary for practicing medicine or tutoring. Although he is poor, he can make a living.

Deng saw her mother's hard work in her eyes. In order to let her mother retire early and not be tired, she has been aiming at learning to get ahead.

She got excellent grades and studied in Beijing Civilian School and Tianjin Zhili No.1 Women's Normal School. /kloc-after graduating from middle school at the age of 0/6, he began to teach in primary schools and girls' schools to earn money.

Deng's intelligence far surpassed that of his peers when he was young. Like Deng, he was also a person who shone in the crowd since childhood.

These two different people first met at the age of fifteen. ...

19 19, the may fourth movement was in full swing, and young intellectuals from all over the world gathered together and shouted revolution.

It was in this year that Zhou Enlai returned from studying in Japan and became the leader of the student association in Tianjin. /kloc-0 was born in 898. He was admitted to Tianjin Nankai School at the age of 15, graduated at the age of 19, and returned to China at the age of 2 1.

Life history is full of brilliance.

As soon as he came back, these young people with boiling blood and high morale immediately set up an organization and volunteered to join the Enlightenment Association founded by Zhou Enlai.

Many young women joined because they worshipped Zhou Enlai.

2 1 year old shines brilliantly, and Deng, who is only 15 years old, is not to be outdone.

Although Deng's schooling experience is not rich, many of them are wonderful. As a teacher in the affiliated middle school, she is active in various student revolutionary organizations and plays the role of leader and summoner.

When Zhou Enlai came back, she had already served as the executive committee member and speech captain of Tianjin Women's Patriotic Gay Association. Objectively speaking, she has more experience in leading students.

Deng Ying Chao was one of the founders of the Enlightenment. He gave Zhou Enlai many suggestions and plans.

But when they first met, they only had a "comrade-in-arms" relationship that appreciated each other and stopped at the ceremony. They are so anxious about the status quo that they can't say what they think about love.

This experience also provided an opportunity and greenhouse for their later emotional fermentation, which made everything come naturally.

1920, the may 4th movement came to an end, and Zhou Enlai's journey had to start again.

In June of the same year 165438+ 10, Zhou Enlai and his companions went to France to work and study, and most of his enlightenment society was left to Deng. Even though a client and an agent are far away in Qian Shan, they should always communicate and report.

Deng and he began to write to each other, and letters and postcards from across the ocean accumulated one after another, and those feelings that should and should not exist also came into being.

At first, Zhou Enlai just admired this girl who was six years younger than herself, and looked at her stubborn life. While busy with her work, she also carefully managed the Enlightenment Society.

We can know that the enlightenment society has not been depressed, but has become stronger and stronger. After praise, those praises turned into admiration.

1922, Zhou Enlai just returned to China and settled down, and joined and organized youth teams in Europe nonstop.

Originally, he wanted to take this opportunity to develop with Deng, but he didn't want to. Communication between two people must be through postcards!

However, this time, Zhou Enlai, who is in a mental state, is no longer straight and straight, but only asks about work. He began to send some special postcards, and everywhere he went, he had special pictures of the scenery.

When a person has another person in his heart, he wants to share everything good and bad.

Although one person can see the scenery and walk faster, it is always more interesting for two people to walk together. Thinking about the good mountains and waters I have seen, the photos will be sent to Deng in half a month, and the pace is not light.

The words written on the back of the postcard also began to change, from reporting the itinerary to encouraging comrades' official language to joyful quotations.

Unconsciously narrowed the distance with Deng, squeezed her figure into her quiet life, and made her familiar with the existence that she could not ignore.

In this way, you have written postcards for a year, not to mention the postage. I believe that pen and ink are also used a lot. Piles of stationery witnessed two hearts being pulled into each other's hearts.

1923, after all, the one who was tempted first became impatient. In spring, when it was warm and cold, Zhou Enlai wrote a special postcard with excitement and sent it to a special person.

This postcard is no longer printed with various landscapes, but with rare characters. Three blondes are running, their long hair is dancing in the wind, leaving a piece of red flowers and green grass behind them.

In the past, postcards received from Zhou Enlai were all empty. This time, in order to appear solemn, an envelope was added, and the name of the sender was carefully written.

Perhaps because this postcard is unique, I took this letter to my colleagues in Deng and became curious. I must stay with you and see how the great genius Zhou Enlai wrote "thrilling" words!

Bad push to take off, deng tore open the envelope, open the back of the postcard, only to see that it read three lines of pretty fine print:

Run to the fountain of freedom!

Break the shackles of everything!

Run bravely!

This mindless three-line sentence really stumped Deng. What does this mean? Is it to find a free spring like these blondes?

Or encourage yourself to make persistent efforts on the revolutionary road and break through the shackles?

Deng was puzzled, but her colleague suddenly jumped up. It was obviously a love poem! When spring comes, Zhou Enlai writes poems to Deng with all his spring in his heart, and makes Deng run to himself!

Colleagues joked in succession, but Deng, 19, didn't know how to answer.

She was afraid that everyone would get the wrong idea and it would be beneath her dignity to answer rashly. Zhou Enlai's joke also flattered her, but if she didn't respond, it would give people a dull impression of indifference and confusion.

After careful consideration, Deng finally put the envelope back and mailed it.

The whole letter paved the way for the report to a great extent. Zhou Enlai read the letter carefully and was worried. Until finally, he finally saw the response he wanted.

I saw Deng write: haven't you always been single? Any new ideas now?

It turns out that as early as during his stay in Japan, Zhou Enlai was already a celibate. He looked at all ethnic hatred and family feuds, and also saw a lot of human feelings. He just wanted to serve his country and contribute to its cause, so he vowed never to get married.

He also wrote a popular seven-character quatrain to show his determination:

The song of the great river is transferred to the east, and the dense group helps the poor.

Ten years of broken walls, it is difficult to reward the sea and be a hero.

Almost familiar friends in the circle know that Zhou Enlai has such a youthful past. At that time, he was moved and recognized by Zhou Enlai's great ambition, and it was inevitable to worry about Zhou Enlai.

Right? Is this shooting yourself in the foot? Zhou Enlai didn't think that she would be planted here by a little girl one day, and she cut off her single dream halfway!

Zhou Enlai's chagrin is chagrin, but he must defend himself. In order to prevent Deng from nailing himself to this single brick, he wrote a reply without stopping.

First, he solved the work one by one. He left a lot of space to explain his "celibacy", taking the couples around him as an example.

Zhou Enlai said that as he grew older, he understood that love and revolution can be balanced, and deep friendship can also promote revolution. In the past, his long speeches were all young, so there is no need to mention them.

Finally, don't forget to add: I hope to get your affirmative answer!

Look at this impatient look, I am afraid of leaving a bad impression on Deng! Unexpectedly uncharacteristically make such an obvious courtship move!

Of course, Deng is also moved, not to mention the initiative, but to ask her strength and appearance, which woman has a tendency to refuse?

Although she is also looking forward to maintaining a good relationship with her forever, Deng "ended" her shelf when she made clear her attitude towards love, so as to keep her humble attitude in this love.

Some of her official documents read: We have the same thoughts and soul mates, we are willing to be together, and * * * will fight for the ideal of * * * for life!

So, Deng and formally confirmed the relationship. The signing of this emotional contract made Zhou Enlai in high spirits. Although he hasn't returned to China, he has put most of his thoughts on Deng Ying Chao.

1In the autumn of 924, Zhou Enlai completed the task of leading a team to organize a trip to Europe and returned to Guangdong Huangpu Military Academy. I thought it was a happy moment for the couple, but I didn't expect it to be a long-distance love across the world.

It's been three years, but it's a good thing that their hearts are connected, otherwise they wouldn't dare to think about how to get through the lovesickness days when they can't meet.

1925, Deng met the first watershed in her career. She is wanted everywhere for leading the student revolution in Tianjin. She had nowhere to hide, so she had to leave her usual stronghold and go to Guangzhou for Zhou Enlai.

Although Deng was helpless, Zhou Enlai was somewhat overjoyed at the thought that Deng could get along with himself. He asked Deng the exact arrival time and began to arrange all the preparations in a hurry.

What is he going to prepare?

Zhou Enlai has always been cautious, but when it comes to love, he is like a teenager who has been enlightened for the first time. He thought it would be better to surprise Deng and hold a wedding on the day she came!

Yes, no proposal, no proposal, impatient Zhou Enlai couldn't wait to tie Deng Ying Chao to her side at once and let her be herself for the rest of her life.

In August, Deng arrived at Guangzhou Wharf, looking for a familiar figure in the vast sea of people, but he didn't see it to meet him.

She was carrying a small bag and bumping all the way, and it was inevitable that she was a little angry because she didn't see the person she wanted to see. She went straight to the door, found Zhou Enlai's residence, and prepared for a "singling out".

But in fact, Zhou Enlai did have something that day, but he arranged for his subordinate Chen Geng to help him receive Deng in advance. It's a pity that Zhou Enlai gave Chen Geng an earlier photo, and there were many people on the dock, so Chen Geng couldn't recognize anyone!

When he went back to confess to Zhou Enlai, he saw that the client had arrived at the scene.

Deng came to the residence, really surprised. The guests were full and richly decorated. When Zhou Enlai saw her, he hurried forward, explained to her why he didn't meet her in person today, and told her a shocking news.

The scene in front of Deng is the arranged wedding scene! The newlyweds are the two of them!

Deng was surprised, this is clearly arranged!

Before she recovered, she asked Zhou Enlai carefully. Deng was the only one left at the wedding because he had to leave immediately because of something urgent.

Although all the guests are full, Deng is not easy to get angry, so he can only greet everyone with a smile and pretend to be surprised. But in fact, Deng's heart is still full of resentment.

She obviously expects a cautious proposal and a solemn wedding, instead of coming here alone like a passerby to end the only ceremony in her life! Besides, at the wedding scene, my husband only attended half of it, which is unprecedented!

Deng secretly sad, turned to see the bedroom filled with flowers, are their favorite varieties.

The brightness of that moment overwhelmed all the grievances in her heart. She is also a revolutionary pioneer. She got herself into Zhou Enlai's predicament. He must have spent a lot of energy and thought in preparing this wedding for himself.

It's not to her taste, but at least it's full of heart. Think of yourself as forgiving a boy who made a mistake, Deng thought.

On the wedding night, Deng didn't wait, but slept alone in a clean and tidy new house prepared in advance.

The next day, her mood was no longer affected, and she got up early to report to her work unit. In the evening, Zhou Enlai came home and teased his new wife that she was the most active at work.

This wedding, which makes people laugh and cry and envy from the bottom of my heart, is over, and the daily necessities belonging to Deng He are officially opened.

In their 5 1 year marriage, it is actually more difficult than ordinary couples to persist. Either you are on a business trip or I am on a mission. It is common to get together less and leave more.

They continued the good habit of falling in love and exchanged letters to ensure that they knew each other's current situation in time and didn't let either party feel worried.

Of course, most of these letters are about work, but some disgusting love words will inevitably jump out between the lines.

For example, in 1942, Deng wrote in his letter to:

"Baiyao tea? Do you still have some to keep? I'm going to see Brother Nairu tomorrow night and give him medicine. Love is long, paper is short, and I kiss you many times. "

At that time, they were all powerful leaders, and their work was meticulous and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Who would have thought these two were so touching in front of lovers?

1954, when Deng was over 500 years old, she began to call Zhou Enlai, my dear wife.

Time has passed, and the feelings of the two people have not diminished.

The only regret is that the couple have never had children. Deng was pregnant twice. The first time was shortly after her marriage. The child came at a bad time. At that time, Deng devoted himself to his work and had no time to take care of the arrival of this new life.

She is worried that her selfish desires will delay the great cause of the organization. Therefore, Deng hit the child in his own way without asking for advice.

Zhou Enlai finally learned the news, and he took a deep breath. He was angry with Deng because he ruthlessly ended a life, and he was also angry with Deng because he didn't take his body seriously!

The second pregnancy was in 1927, and 23-year-old Deng He ran around to escape the warlords' raids. Because of hiding in Tibet, it is inevitable to bump into each other. In the end, the child was dystocia, and Deng suffered great physical trauma and could not have children for life.

Because of these two sad things, the child has always been a regret and pain point in the hearts of the couple.

During the period of 1972, Premier Zhou was overwhelmed by work. No matter how clever he is, he is just an ordinary person, and diseases can easily afflict him.

This year, Premier Zhou was diagnosed with bladder cancer, which is incurable.

The illness came so suddenly that Zhou Enlai wasn't even ready. He is not afraid of the end of his life. He is a materialist. I'm afraid no one will hand over his work after he leaves.

So when he still has the remaining ability, Zhou Enlai is even more afraid of rest. He seized all the working time and completed the task within his power.

According to others' memories, during the period from 1972 to 1974, it was common for Premier Zhou to work overtime, even working 24 hours a day for five consecutive days!

1975, Zhou Enlai couldn't hold on and was admitted to the hospital. At that time, his lifelong task and ambition had been completed, but he felt guilty about his wife.

Let Deng clean up his mess and leave Deng to live alone. He is really distressed!

During his stay in hospital, Deng read newspapers and poems every day, showed him his letters when he was young, and teased them about their youthful past.

That is the memory of Enlai and Xiaochao, and it is their sweet past.

19761October 8, it was snowy outside the window. Premier Zhou died in a white hospital bed, and Deng sobbed beside him.

According to Zhou Enlai's wishes, his ashes were not buried, but scattered on the land of the motherland, and Qianshan, who accompanied the motherland, remained in the world forever.

Premier Zhou said to Deng before he died: I have been a firm materialist all my life. Only you, I hope to have an afterlife.

In the great cause of home and country, leadership is one's own belief, while in emotional marriage, Deng is one's own belief. This is the refined truth summed up by Zhou Enlai all his life, which belongs to him.