The story of helpless acceptance of reality

Please tell me a story about yourself

Something happened today that made me so angry that I was choked to death. I had to tell it!

There is a vocational school across from my house. It looks pretty bad. The students there are very arrogant. Even a few of them have no temperament at all.

They seem to be gangsters, but they are still... We had to do publicity and hold a "Singer Contest", and the broadcast was amazing all afternoon (luckily it didn't collapse). When the contest was about to start in the evening

, my mother and I really had earaches, and after eating I had nothing to do, so I wanted to go to that school and join in the fun. I thought happily that there are free programs to watch. If you don’t watch them, it will be in vain. No matter how broken it is, you can’t control it.

So I carried a pot of boiling water and headed there, chatting and laughing with my mother along the way, imagining what would happen for a while, when I met an aunt from the same hospital

and my enthusiastic mother took her along. We arrived. At the school gate, the outrageous incident started:

A young man in security uniform came out to block our way and asked: "Where is it?" Our mother told him carelessly:

"Neighbors, come and watch the show."

"No!"

I'm confused! I ran over excitedly and bumped into this Cheng Yaojin, bad luck Ah! The three of us were just hanging there, watching the automatic retractable door open and close, allowing countless compatriots who were not from this school like us to come in and out, especially when we saw one The woman walked in with her head held high, and from time to time she gave a mean look to the woman holding a child behind her (probably an accomplice), but the blind security guard actually said so and bowed his head.

I invited them in, and then the door was closed again. I was so angry that I wanted to explode.

I thought about it, why am I so cultured and elegant? A student from a good school! It’s so shameless to be turned away like this

I have to muster up the courage to try my best! But because I just lost face, I have already shown that I am I'm a foreign student, so it's a bit difficult! Straighten your neck

Look inside and see a giant stage and a playground filled with students, which is a bit tempting! Finally, I came across a good opportunity, and there was a person who looked like a teacher. Go out

When I came out, the door opened with a bang. I wanted to sneak in while the door was not closed tightly, but I was fat and wide, so I was caught on the spot. I immediately

He closed his eyes and muttered (absolutely for the first time in his life):

"Ah~~~let me go in and pull #~amp; ^$$*** "

"No!" He grabbed my shoulder and wouldn't let go. God knows how much pain I have, God knows how embarrassed I am, only I know how embarrassed I am

Ah! The ground is cracked! Come out!

"I just want to go in and watch it. What's the use of shutting the door and making a show! I can only come in and watch it and think it's good!" I'm sure

He went all out and made up an excuse that it would not happen even if the world collapsed. He felt that he was very persuasive.

"Would you like to cooperate with the school's work?" He gave a high-sounding reason.

Tch! You are too fake! When a few people pretending to be elegant come in, you look like a bent sculpture, but when our kind neighbors come in, you turn into a devil

You're so fake! You actually put such a reason why you can't stand on yourself, and you still stand so firmly, I feel ashamed of myself!

Looking at his disgusting behavior I felt shameless, and a huge sense of grievance surged in my heart. I really wanted to punch that garbage head, but for some reason, maybe there were people around looking at me. I didn't dare to resist anymore, so I walked out with my head lowered, not even bothering to raise my head.

I got home. I was so sad on the way, I couldn't help but think back to the embarrassing scene just now, eh ,

What a shame! I was so cowardly just now

Why did you yell at him so arrogantly:

"Do you think you are doing your job like this? You can't see a good person if your eyes are dry." , you don’t care about other people’s feelings at all, you bastards.

. This girl is not willing to come to the school’s lousy program, even if you invite me, I won’t come! Hum~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~!"

If I had said this just now, I would have felt better, but now, everything is just an illusion, the illusion that I am brave and incomparable, the illusion that I am invincible

, I fantasize that I am not so embarrassed! Ah! It’s just a fantasy #amp;

Forget it! Things have passed, face has been lost, catkins have fallen on the streets, and my mood has sunk. Everything will be fine

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After reading Charlotte’s Web, please talk about what kind of web Charlotte weaves and share your opinion. Urgent, thank you

Charlotte, I don’t know how to send you an email or letter or something else? In short, I feel very sad today. It’s so sad that I can’t open the software to study. It’s so sad that I can’t go to bed to take a nap. It’s so sad that I can no longer pay attention to those BL stories. It’s so sad that I can’t hold on to my future. It’s so sad that I can’t... Striving forward.

Don’t know if it’s true or not? Today I turned on my computer and saw the news of your and Luoluo's separation in a netizen's space. At the same time, I also saw the words "Farewell: (Xiahe)" and I couldn't help but feel heartache or regret. More helpless. I don't need to know the reason, because there is no right or wrong in such things. I once said to myself that if Charlotte can do it, so can I. But when I saw such news, I was at a loss what to do? I just want you to see the useless feeling of regret that I wrote. I don’t know when I met you on the Internet? I wonder how many people you have given encouragement and courage? I don’t know how many times I have continued to persevere because of you? There is a lot that I don’t know, a lot... Nowadays, I think many people may be confused again in their lives, and I am one of them. Everything you have done before may be wasted. I wonder how much regret has been left since then? I don't know how to find my direction again? Should we give up and return to traditional Chinese thought or should we continue to persevere, but we don’t know where the courage to persevere will come from? Suddenly my heart became very confused.

I don’t know when I met you? But from that time I knew that I was not the only one who liked boys in this world. I’ve seen your pictures online before, but I don’t know what your name is? It wasn't until I watched one episode of the program that I suddenly realized it, and I felt so happy that I couldn't tell how happy I was. From that time on, I was very determined about my future life, and from that time on, I found spiritual comfort. What an enviable pair of BLs, and a legendary story started from that time. During their performance, I kept cheering for them and gave them my best wishes. From that moment on, I positioned myself for the future of my life and worked hard from that point on! However, the wonderful four years just let him go with the wind. There are so many pictures left behind, but they are no longer so beautiful, but more regretful and sad. When I saw those enviable photos again, I didn’t know what to say? I watched quietly in silence, recalling those long-gone good times, but felt a little helpless in my heart. I don’t know how to continue my experience? Maybe no one will have the courage to stand up like you? Because not everyone has a good family environment and such "enlightened" parents to support them.

However, everything is no longer what people imagined. After a beautiful beginning, it ends like this, leaving people speechless.

Maybe you had quarrels in life during those four wonderful years, but what you showed to people was the enviable scenes that gave countless people joy and courage. Now it’s like a bolt from the blue for the couple who once The enviable BL may be from now on... Now everything is no longer as it was before, how many people are disappointed, how many people are sighing and from which direction should I start again? We always say that love knows no boundaries, so what is the outcome of love without gender? I saw Xia He’s Farewell dated 2010 but I only saw it in 2011. I wonder what happened in the past year? Who can carry BL's love story to the end? I don't want to give up just yet...

Maybe our love is impossible, and our destiny is destined to lead a lonely life. My heart is so messed up that I can't accept the reality. Because an enviable and unusual love story failed to withstand the test of the world and was defeated by the current reality, no matter what the reason? Maybe Luoluo has matured a bit, but this level of maturity has reached the bottom line of your tolerance. Maybe there are other reasons. In short, everything is irreversible. What I want to say is that an enviable relationship ended that day. At that moment, all envy disappeared, and people were accompanied by incomparable regret.

March 23, 2011

Lone Ye (character)

A city has a story! What are your reasons for staying in a city?

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You can often hear this sentence in TV plots: "A city has a story." People who stay in any city must have a reason not to leave or stay. So what's your story? Let me talk about mine first.

I believe everyone has a helpless realistic choice, but we take a step back and turn it into a story. I can only advise latecomers to work harder and improve, and don’t settle for second best. I hope everything you encounter is a story. Welcome to tell your "story".

What story does "Charlotte's Troubles" tell?

Dreams are an integral part of our lives. Sometimes, the world in dreams often allows us to understand life and understand life. Although the dream world is not in reality, it can sometimes cleanse the soul and allow us to return to our true nature, warmth and kindness. The movie "Charlotte" is such a spiritual story about dreams.

Everything that happened in the dream made Charlotte completely understand who was best to her and who really liked her. In the story, we see that Charlotte gradually understands the true meaning of life from the twists and turns of life experience, and slowly learns to love Ma Dongmei, the person around her who loves her most. He also began to develop from having difficulty accepting reality to being able to face reality bravely, cherish and cherish reality.

Which principle of the plan does the story of "Levi's, the King of Jeans" embody?

Attitude determines the response - the story of Levi's, the King of Jeans

There is an American The young man wanted to go west to pan for gold, so he went to ask an old man in his village for advice on the secret of success.

The old man told him not to be afraid of any difficulties, because "difficulties" mean "opportunities." Then he imparted a magic weapon of "thinking to win".

The young people set off.

One day, he suddenly found a big river blocking his way to the west. After waiting for several days, more and more pedestrians were blocked, but they were unable to cross the river. As a result, some people took detours upstream and downstream, while others returned home, and even more complained. The young man, who gradually calmed down, remembered a magic weapon of "thinking to win" that someone once taught him, which was a passage: "It's great, such a thing happened to me, and it gave me another way to grow. Everything happens for a reason and will help me." So he came to the river and kept repeating to himself "very excitedly": "It's great that the river is blocking my way. Give me another chance to grow. Everything that happens must have its cause and effect, and it will definitely help me.”

Sure enough, he really had a brilliant business idea - ferry. No one was stingy with a small amount of money to take his ferry across the river. Soon, his first wealth was obtained because the river was in the way.

After a while, the ferry business began to slow down. He decided to give up and continue his journey west to find gold. When he came to the west, there were people everywhere. He found a suitable empty place, bought tools, and started panning for gold. Not long after, several villains surrounded him and told him to get out of his way and not infringe on their territory. As soon as he reasoned a few words, the group lost their patience and started punching and kicking him. In desperation, he had no choice but to leave in despair. It was difficult to find another suitable place, but not long after, the same tragedy happened again, and he was kicked out again. When he first arrived in the West, he was bullied many times. Finally, after being beaten for the last time, looking at the backs of those people walking away, he once again thought of his "magic weapon": "It's great, such a thing happened to me, and it gave me another An opportunity for growth, everything that happens must have its cause and effect, and it will definitely help me.” He said it to himself repeatedly and earnestly, and finally, he came up with another brilliant idea - selling water.

There is no shortage of gold in the West, but it seems that it is unable to compete with others; there is a shortage of water in the West, but no one seems to have thought of this. Soon his business selling water was booming. Slowly, some people also participated in his new industry, and later, more and more people were in the same industry. Finally one day, a strong man selling water next to him issued an ultimatum to him: "Little man, don't come here to sell water anymore. Starting from tomorrow morning, the territory of selling water here belongs to me." He thought that the man was I was joking, but he still came the next day. Unexpectedly, the guy came up immediately, beat him up without any explanation, and finally demolished his water tanker too. Young people have to accept the reality helplessly again. However, when this guy walked away, he immediately began to adjust his mentality, forced himself to be excited again, and kept saying to himself: "Great, such a thing happened to me, give it to me again Opportunities for growth, everything happens for a reason, and it will help me." He began to adjust the focus of his attention. He found that the trousers of people who came to the West to prospect for gold were easily worn out. At the same time, he also found that there were abandoned tents everywhere in the West, so he came up with a brilliant idea - to collect those abandoned tents and wash them clean. In this way, he sewed the world's first pair of jeans!

Since then, he has been out of control, his industry has grown bigger and bigger, and he has become the most influential company in the world. This ambitious American young man is Levi's, the famous jeans king in the world today.

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What experiences do people have to see through the world of mortals

What is the world of mortals? Red dust is actually divided into red and dust. Red is joy, red is wealth, red is desire, red is also temptation. These joys, wealth, and temptations are what we call the real world. And dust, that is, dust. Treating all kinds of temptations and desires in the world as dust, fleeting, is to see through the world of mortals. Sometimes when a person is alive, he really needs to get rid of some excessive desires, so as to see through the world and live his life well. Especially for a person, once they have experienced these four things, they will often see through the world of mortals. Why?

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First of all, people who have experienced ups and downs often see through the world of mortals.

A person will inevitably experience his own dissatisfaction and even adversity in his life. This person, perhaps, when his career was flourishing, he suddenly encountered the Waterloo of his life. As a result, your own economy, your own connections, and your own resources will all fall into a plummeting predicament. When a person who used to be surrounded by people has fallen into a desolate state of being ignored and walking alone, he will suddenly realize that "human relationships are as thin as paper and the world is like a new chess game". As a result, they will gradually see through the reality and helplessness of the mortal world, and people will become more calm, and even feel calm.

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Secondly, people who have experienced conflicts of interest tend to see through the world of mortals.

If a person wants to achieve something, he will inevitably participate in some jobs, or enter certain circles to start a business. In such a working environment, I will inevitably come into contact with all kinds of people. Some of these people will be friendly with us, but some people don't like us, and will even regard us as a thorn in their side, be wary of us, and block us when necessary. And we often fight back unwilling to be outdone. The final result of such a conflict of interest is often a lose-lose situation. When we are discouraged or scarred, we will inevitably feel helpless and disappointed with the disputes in the world of mortals. Gradually, we will no longer pursue interests and temptations so deliberately, and some people will simply If you give up your pursuit of interests, you will see through the chaos of the world of mortals.

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Third, people who have experienced family changes often see through the world.

If a person wants to achieve certain achievements in his or her life, the warmth and peace of the family are very important. A warm and peaceful family can bring good luck to the prosperity of our family. On the contrary, if a family has a big family change, then the family's luck will continue to decline. Family members will also lose confidence in life in the successive blows, and adopt a negative way to avoid the rights and wrongs of the world. This is also a so-called "seeing through the world of mortals", but it's just that This approach is very negative and not very desirable.

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Fourth, people who have experienced love and hatred often see through the world of mortals.

A person will always experience love and hatred in his life. Especially my own love story makes people happy or melancholy. When we meet the person of the opposite sex we like, we always want to become a good couple with that person. However, not all love has beautiful results. Many times, maybe when we are immersed in sweet love, we suddenly encounter the helplessness of trying to win love with a knife or beating a mandarin duck with a stick. Therefore, beautiful love often evolves into a dispute of love and hatred. By the time we struggle through these disputes, we are often physically and mentally exhausted. At this time, we will adopt a mentality of seeing through the world and face our emotional failures negatively. However, these negative mentalities often gradually leave us as time goes by. At that time, it means that we have got out of the emotional predicament.

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Friends, you must have experienced a lot of right and wrong in life, right? After we have gone through the ups and downs of life, after we have experienced the vicissitudes of life, sometimes we often face the new life with a mentality of seeing through the world. In fact, this is also a very normal phenomenon. . As long as we understand not to give up on ourselves in times of adversity, even if our mentality is a little negative, we will eventually come out. When the time comes, what will greet us will naturally be a good mood. Friends, do you think this is true? Everyone is welcome to leave a message and discuss in the comment area.

The origin of "Extraordinary things must be dealt with by extraordinary people"

It comes from Fu Bangu's "Book of Han: The Sixth System of Emperor Wu's Chronicles", the allusion is:

Thirteen states were initially established as governors. Famous ministers wanted to be civilized and military, and the edict said: "If you have extraordinary achievements, you must treat extraordinary people. Therefore, horses may gallop to travel thousands of miles, and soldiers may be tired of being unworthy of the world and achieve meritorious fame. The horse driven by the husband will be relaxed. Scholars are just in charge. They make the governors, officials and people of the provinces have outstanding talents and can become generals and ministers."

The translation is as follows:

It is necessary to set up ten. The governor of the Three Prefectures, because there were no famous civil and military ministers in the court, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty issued an edict: "Any extraordinary and great undertaking must wait for extraordinary people. Therefore, some horses can reach thousands of miles at a gallop, and some can reach thousands of miles at a gallop." Talented people bear the burdens of the world but can achieve great results.

A horse that is difficult to control, a talent that is unruly, just depends on how to control it. I ordered the prefectures and counties to search for people among the officials and people who have outstanding talents, who can hold the position of civil and military officials and can stabilize the country.

This was the beginning of the system of recruiting talented people in the Western Han Dynasty.

(7) Extended reading of the story of helpless acceptance of reality:

Extraordinary things must be treated by extraordinary people. This sentence actually refers to the system of recruiting talents in the Western Han Dynasty. Maocai was called Xiucai in the Western Han Dynasty. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Liu Xiu, the emperor of Yingguang Dynasty, changed the name to Maocai. Together with Xiaolian, he was an important examination subject in the two Han Dynasties. The promotion of high-quality talents also began with Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. According to the Records of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, he ordered the officials and civilians of prefectures, counties and counties to have outstanding talents, who could serve as generals and ministers and to conquer the country. This was the beginning of the promotion of high-quality talents. Later, Emperor Xuan and Emperor Yuan issued edicts to inspect and promote outstanding talents. Most of the Maocai selected during this period were current officials, and they were specially selected.

I can’t live in a story, I will grow up too.

I can’t live in a story, I will grow up too. This is actually the most realistic answer in terms of emotions. To use a popular saying, love cannot be replaced by bread.

The story is still long. Don’t rush to go far away alone. What does it mean?

If you are not good enough, you are not qualified to laugh at the light of others.

Do you really feel regretful or unwilling to get it?

The saddest thing about multiple-choice questions is not choosing the wrong one, but choosing the right one.

You are still young, don’t worry, you will still smile in the future.

Things that are lost and found will not be as valuable as they were in the first place.

Thinking too much is just because you care too much and like too much.

What is so difficult to let go of? There is no shortage of substitutes in life.

I hope you can sing all the way to the distance with the sunshine and dreams.

If I have you at the end of the journey, I will be happy even if it is far away.

The people your heart thinks of when you are most lonely are the people you care about most.

I would rather shed tears with my eyes closed than cry and pour out my bitterness to everyone.

I have learned a lot after stumbling and stumbling, and you are the only one who understands Russia.

After all, the story is still long, so don’t rush to a distant place alone.

Being indifferent does not necessarily mean that you have forgotten, but it certainly means that you are alienated.

It is often when you decide to forget that you find your memory is clearest.

It’s not scary if you can’t get it, but it’s a joke if you can’t keep it.

Rumors cannot change the facts, but the scary thing about them is that they can disturb people's minds.

I wish to be a person who lives a relaxed life in the next life rather than a person who lives a sober life.

We all know the truth, but sometimes the story is too provocative and emotions get in the way.

Current events are scary but I believe the future will always be warm.

When you are not in love, even the way you talk changes.

In fact, sometimes two-choice questions are more confusing than multiple-choice questions.

It is not only those who love to cry who have sad things, but also those who love to laugh.

I would rather die on the journey forward than become a waste in the eyes of others.

I began to learn to accept the plunder and gifts of reality calmly.

You didn’t *** I have traveled thousands of miles, which is not enough to continue the story.

Don’t let the unsuitable person take away the best part of you.

Only if you dare to do what others dare not do can you get what others cannot.

People always have extravagant hopes, which is reckless and just for a dream.

Don’t be anxious, the best will always appear when you least expect it.

It is often when you decide to forget that you find your memory is clearest.

If we met many people at another time, they would have different endings.

I can’t always live in my own world and I can’t always be moved by myself.

I hope you will be less hurt when you are stubborn, and I hope things will be the same and people will be when you wake up.

The three biggest killers of time: procrastination, indecision, and unclear goals.

The more you learn, the less you say to ask for help.

I promised to forget but then I remembered that my heart had not agreed to give up.

Only by bearing the ups and downs of the journey can we finally keep the rainbow in the sky.

He always sees the problem too clearly and then stays alone for a long time without speaking.

The one who is not together is the wrong person. The right person, you will not lose him.

I don’t want much, but I want to prove that I can get more than anyone else.

People who truly love you will push you to become better instead of trying to hurt your youth.

Life is a solvent, either ecstasy corrodes the bones, or it can be refined into steel.

God lets you live another day not because you need it, but because someone needs you.

What makes you unforgettable in the end is not necessarily someone, but yourself who was desperate at the beginning.

No one can bargain with life, so as long as you live, you must work hard.

Even in pain, don’t forget your desire to win.

What should come will come, what should go will go. Sometimes leaving does not mean the end, but another beginning.

True excellence is the ability to win over people's hearts. No matter how bad it is, it is the ability to see through people's hearts.

Thoughts are like drills. They must be concentrated on one point to gain power.

Sometimes we have to shut up, put down our pride, and admit that we were wrong. This is not admitting defeat, but growing.

Young time is like wandering, spending a lot of time wandering and using a few moments to grow.

Generally the reason why couples break up is that one doesn’t like to explain and the other thinks too much.

People will not suffer for a lifetime, but they will always suffer for a while; many people suffer for a lifetime in order to escape suffering for a while.

If you are on a thorny road, don’t cry out because you cut your finger.

The sense of crisis comes from dependence, and the sense of security comes from self-improvement.

Companion means that I am always there whether you need it or not.

No matter how passionate it once was, it will eventually calm down.

People live with a mentality. No matter how jealous, envious, hateful, disdainful, mocking, sarcastic and disdainful you are, I will not care. I am happiest when I go my own way.

If a person has to do something he doesn't like, the best way is to do it as quickly as possible and then end it.

I look forward to a me who never gives up. One day I will understand that both the present and the future are full of dark warmth. Give me tomorrow.

We must have the simplest life and the most distant dream, even if it is freezing tomorrow and the road is far away.

No matter how hard it is in the future, you will have to grit your teeth and go on. When you are idle, you can only regret your ignorance at the time.

Life will get better when it is bad to a certain extent, because it cannot get worse. You only know many things after working hard

Tell me about the stories you have experienced

Boyfriend I always have something to do with my boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend. He often lies to me and says he’s done with her, but I always find them together again, so I want to quit and make them happy, but they don’t. Whoever got back together wouldn't let me quit. What I couldn't stand the most was that my boyfriend told his ex-girlfriend everything about our relationship, so his ex-girlfriend often called me to tell me what she knew. She said that she would not be with him, but she would not leave him either. In the end, I had no choice but to forcefully quit the game between them.