The child was teased because he was black. As a parent, how should we guide her?

Everyone will inevitably have all kinds of small defects in the process of birth and growth, which may be physical or personality, which is inevitable. Some children may have dark skin and are easily laughed at by other children. Children's psychological immaturity will be hit, which may lead to depression. Therefore, adults should conduct psychological counseling in time to prevent children from forming personality problems. The following are some personal suggestions to guide children, which parents in need can refer to.

Give positive examples to motivate her children. When they encounter this situation, all they think about is their dark skin. At this time, it is good to guide her with examples. You can tell her that many people with more physical defects in the world have made great achievements, and there is no need to worry about such a trivial matter as dark skin. They should face it with a natural and open-minded attitude and love life more. For example, tell her that grandma Bing Xin became the chairman of the China Federation of Literary and Art Circles. Although her legs and feet are inconvenient, her prose is also very successful. Hawking, the greatest scientist in modern times, has been disabled for decades, but he still ranks among the best in the global scientific research community. Give more positive examples of this kind, and let her know that a little physical defect is not a problem at all. As long as she loves life and works hard, she will still succeed and win respect and reputation.

Tell her that no one is perfect, you should face it naturally. At the same time, you can tell your children that there are no perfect people in the world, no matter who they are, they will have physical and psychological defects, but there are more people and fewer people. After understanding the truth that no one is perfect, children can face their own shortcomings with an open mind, and others will not care so much about gossiping about her.

Tell children that it doesn't matter if their skin is darker. As long as they study hard and give full play to their advantages, they can succeed and live a good life in society. Let her know that a person's true beauty comes from the beauty of the soul. A kind person has a good personality and can be recognized by others wherever he goes.