Five years after graduation, what have you changed?

Become not afraid of making a fool of yourself, I think this is a good change. When I first graduated, I was always embarrassed to ask myself whether I was in the office or on the construction site, because my inner thought was: I want to show that I know a lot, but I can't let others think that I don't know anything. Pretend to understand if you don't understand, or you will feel embarrassed. Now I'm over it. It's normal not to understand, especially the office workers who go to the construction site to make drawings. Ask whatever you should, even the most retarded question, and no one will jokingly report to the superior: "Hey, that young man in your cost department knows nothing!" " "I used to think too much. In fact, people on the construction site are almost the best communication groups. As long as you ask, whether it is an old builder or a young formwork worker, they will tell you everything, and if you don't understand at the moment, he will tell you in detail, and even take the trouble to run down the muddy foundation pit and climb up the dangerous platform to tell you what is going on. I have never seen a look of contempt and contempt on their faces. These people are really a huge knowledge base. Of course, you should be polite ... a comrade might as well read half a book as smoke a cigarette.

Face and accept your own shortcomings, instead of trying to change yourself and pretend to be someone else in pursuit of a certain goal. Not as grandiose as before, living more and more real. Know the difference between aiming high and aiming high. I have a deeper understanding of people than before, and I no longer care too much or completely ignore others. Knowing that "career is not everything", a happy life is the result of balance in many aspects. Don't be superstitious about authority, try to think for yourself. Recognize that all contradictions are conflicts of interest or misunderstandings. Therefore, we should learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and be tolerant of others.

Let's take a look at the indisputable changes that are obvious to all! Personally, I have actually worked for several years. Maybe my personality has changed. I still clearly remember that I quarreled with my good friend in junior high school, high school and college. At that time, I was very hot at school, and anything that went wrong would definitely break out and I wouldn't say anything. At that time, I will be more self-centered. Fortunately, my emotional outburst and recklessness didn't make me lose my friends and people I care about. They are still considerate and tolerant to me, and they are still with me until now. I need to solemnly thank them for their company.

When I was in college, life was neither extravagant nor particularly good, but it was still very nourishing. It is normal to go shopping and eat big meals frequently. After coming out to work for a few years, I found my life more and more difficult. I made money, but it was not as good as my school life. In the past, my parents didn't worry about what to do if they ran out of money. Now I have little money left in my life except the monthly rent, water, electricity, transportation and meals.