What do you think of renting a boyfriend and girlfriend home during the Spring Festival?

Pretend to be a girlfriend, deal with parents, attend parties, accompany friends, travel with friends, have a fake wedding (no license), don't sleep with you, don't kiss with you, don't accompany wine ... "What do you think of when you see this passage? Yes, some unmarried people are forced to get married by their parents during the Spring Festival, and it is an emergency to "rent" a girlfriend home from the Internet. Similar information about renting friends is quite active on dating sites and QQ groups. (February 3rd, China News Network)

It is a happy thing to have a family reunion during the Spring Festival. However, some young people are afraid of it now. Why? Afraid of going home, seven aunts and eight aunts asked, have you found someone? When are you getting married? The so-called "being alone in a foreign land is single, and being urged to get married every holiday" is a joke, but it tells a lot of difficulties of "leftover men and women". In order to cope with the urging of parents, relatives and friends, the "urged family" started the idea of renting a boyfriend or girlfriend to go home for the New Year online, and thought it was a sign of filial piety.

Undeniably, the "forced family" is also forced to do this. Facing the "indiscriminate bombing" of parents and relatives, and considering their good intentions, "renting a daughter and boyfriend" can not only solve the urgent needs but also make parents happy. Although the purpose of doing this is good, what kind of risks are there in terms of this behavior?

When renting a girlfriend to go home for the Spring Festival, some people need to sign an agreement, while others just verbally agree. Needless to say, a verbal agreement is bound to be unfounded and without any guarantee. Is it safe to sign an employment contract? Actually, it's not. The employment relationship means that the employee provides services to the employer, and the employer pays the corresponding remuneration to form a relationship of rights and obligations. However, the personal rights cannot be used as the subject of the lease, and the signing of such a lease agreement should be deemed invalid according to law. If there are illegal facts and behaviors during the performance of the contract, all parties, including intermediaries, will be punished by civil law, public security punishment law and criminal law. It can be seen that the renter industry should bring it into the legal framework as soon as possible and build a platform for its rules. If the renter industry is allowed to develop without restraint, the social problems derived from it will emerge one after another.

The "urged family" is filial to their parents in a desperate way, but it is a kind of deception to their parents in a rational way, which harms their parents' interests. As everyone knows, Bo's parents' happiness is temporary, but the harm is long-lasting.

Although the behavior of "renting girlfriends" is not advocated, the emotional problems of young people should attract the attention of society and families. In essence, the problem of "renting a girlfriend" appears in the face of marriage, and the "urged family" who yearns for independence and freedom collides with parents with deep-rooted traditional ideas. Parents want their children to get married as soon as possible, which is understandable, but there is no need to rush it. Marriage is not rushed out, but rushed tightly, making children afraid to come back, which is not worth the candle! As children, they should also consider their parents more, communicate with their elders more, establish a correct view of marriage and love, and handle the relationship between individuals and families well.

In a word, renting a girlfriend to go home for the New Year is risky, so you need to be careful in choosing the way of filial piety.