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Humor is a lubricant and buffer to adjust the atmosphere of the scene. It is like a bridge to close the distance between the host and the audience, to bring strange hearts closer, to communicate feelings in the most agile way and to harmonize the atmosphere; Solve contradictions and embarrassment in an easy way. At the same time, humor also shows a kind of humor, a kind of talent and a kind of wisdom, which makes people in a relaxed, interesting and philosophical environment. Therefore, humor has become a quality that everyone pursues and advocates.

First of all, humor is "gold"

Zhao Zhongxiang once said a self-deprecating humorous joke when he was hosting a variety show. He said: "I said how I can't control what I eat-it seems that drinking cold water will gain meat!" " I went to see my familiar doctor Wang. He gave me a prescription and said,' You can only eat two pieces of bread every day.' Well, no medicine, just two pieces of bread. I was happy and left. After a long walk, I hurried back and asked,' I'm not too embarrassed. I thought people said I would follow the doctor's advice. Your prescription tells me to eat only two pieces of bread, which is good, but ... should I eat it before or after meals? "

Just don't take medicine. Just eating two pieces of bread is a piece of cake for Zhao Zhongxiang. But he asked the doctor, "Do you want to eat before or after meals?" This sentence generally refers to drugs. The doctor meant to reduce his food intake, but he mistook it for a snack other than three meals. It is impossible for him to lose weight. The audience naturally likes the program he hosts. Zhao Zhongxiang turned his shortcomings into a display of personality, and showed an optimistic attitude towards life through appropriate self-mockery, which left a deep impression on people. Humor is "gold", and the audience naturally likes to reward it.

Second, humor needs pondering.

Let's appreciate Bai's cold humor in the dialogue.

Student: I think you have a sense of crisis. You look cold. Why?

Bai: I like to live every day as if it were the end of the world (applause, laughter).

Student: When will you laugh?

Bai: It doesn't matter whether you can laugh or not. It is important to know humor.

Student: One day you will do more harm than good. What should you do?

Bai: A host who has neither shortcomings nor advantages doesn't even have a chance to comment. I think the shortcoming is very happy, and he may also be part of the advantage. (Applause)

Student: I study history. Can I be the host of the news program?

Bai: Today's news is tomorrow's history (applause).

Humorous eloquence makes Bai calmly answer students' sharp questions. He told people to "live every day as if it were the end of the world", and only by chewing it carefully can we taste it. Everyone has his own shortcomings, and being happy with his own shortcomings is a kind of confidence. Taking shortcomings as part of advantages with humor will not only make people feel inferior, but also inspire others. The sentence "Today's news is tomorrow's history" is very interesting. The implication is that "all roads lead to Rome". Work hard, young man. The words resolved the misunderstanding and made the students understand Bai's personality more deeply. And vice versa, the topic is reversed. An ordinary topic, if expressed from the audience's rebellious psychology, may have extraordinary effects. The highest state of humor is that it can only be understood but not expressed.

Third, humor does not draft.

Compared with those handsome male hosts with standard accents in CCTV, Bi Fujian's face is dark, funny, with a heavy accent and a loud voice, and he is somewhat "different" after graduation. When he was hosting the "Yi 'an Cup" competition, there was an episode. A contestant was eliminated and she held back her tears. At this time, Lao Bi told her not to cry. It's easy to suppress your eyes. I have been strong since I was a child, and I hold my eyes whenever I have tears, so I hold my eyes. When this was said, the audience boiled.

Just after saying this sentence, there was a sudden power outage at the scene. After the call, the first sentence that Lao Bi said made the audience laugh again. He said, "I choked the light bulb when I came to Yinchuan to talk." Before the words landed, the power went out again. When the light was repaired, Lao Bi threw another "humor bomb". "No more, the lights in the whole room have been suppressed."

Lao Bi always makes the audience "happy" in the program. Where does this humor come from? Lao Bi said that his humor has no secrets, and to tell the truth naturally has content. On the one hand, his words comforted the players, on the other hand, they enlivened the atmosphere. Old Bi is a stalker, boasting. On-the-spot humor is like skimming the water, it is not intentional, but it can touch people's hearts. You can pick them at will without prior arrangement. This is the humorous realm after taking control of the overall situation.

Fourth, humor comes from life.

1, Xiao Cuiping of our unit always likes to touch some artistic breath. I often go to the gallery or something, just looking, not buying. She said that her appreciation of the beauty of art was limited. That day, while enjoying an oil painting in the gallery, she sat down and praised, "What beautiful colors! What an extraordinary work of genius! " She whispered to the painter standing by, "I wish I could take these strange colors home." "You will get what you want." The painter replied, "You are sitting on my palette."

2. Xiaohua in our column is a young man who is a little dull in love. He gets nervous when he sees girls. Two days ago, he finally overcame his shyness and got up the courage to ask the girl he liked: "What kind of boy do you like?" The girl thought for a moment and said, "I like boys who get along." Xiaohua said nervously, "Do you have to have a round head? Can't it be a little square? "

Gao Bo, the host of the first life service humorous talk show "Tonight" in CCTV history, interprets life information for the people from a unique humorous perspective. His humor comes from life completely. His colleagues like oil paintings very much. "I wish I could take these strange colors home." Unexpectedly, the painter said, "You will get what you want." This surprised and delighted her, but the painter said, "You are sitting on my palette." She can really take the most beautiful color home, but only on her ass. When people are intoxicated, they seem to forget everything. Gao Bo talks about real events in life, and the audience will not be bored, but will be more interested. The second example, I don't analyze, everyone naturally got the message. Gao Bohui said humorously that "you can't find an object if your shoes are not bright", which makes people realize the artistic charm of language. Where is humor? This is life.

Xunzi once said, "The beauty of words is also the beauty of Emperor Mu Mu." It means that the charm of language lies in beauty and fairness. And beautiful and aboveboard language is bound to shine. The purpose of humor is to activate the output of information and adjust interpersonal relationships, rather than sarcasm and ridicule regardless of the occasion. Some people say that the highest level of language is humor. In any case, whether humor can be used in short questions and answers and the degree of humor use is an important criterion to measure language. Having a humorous mouth will make people feel that you are very funny, have high cultural accomplishment and rich cultural connotation, and reflect a person's beautiful mind. Who doesn't like such a charming person?

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