When you know where you are going, the whole world will make things difficult for you.

When we were young, we often talked about our dreams, and we dared to tell anyone what our dreams were. The more I grow up, the more ashamed I am to say the word dream. I dare not tell anyone what kind of goals I have or what kind of myself I want to be in the future.

I don't know if you have such a feeling. You are always afraid that when you open your mouth, you will get a sarcastic look from others, or you will be cynical.

We often hear a saying, "When you know where you are going, the whole world will make way for you". In fact, when you know where you are going, the whole world will give you trouble.

Becky in The Morning Anchor was unemployed at the age of 28. Cousins and girlfriends of the same age were husbands and godsons, but she became an "old man" overnight. Becky didn't want to get involved, so she got up. She wants to find a new job from scratch.

The idea was strongly opposed by her mother before it was put into practice. Becky's mother said in her original words, "When you were 8 years old, people said you were cute. When you 18 years old, you were very inspirational. When you are 28 years old, you can't lose face. " I hope to stop before you hit your head. "

This is actually quite hurtful. If my mother talks to me like that, I will definitely be psychopathic and take revenge on society. And Becky's most intuitive reaction is to be in a daze. I can't believe this is her mother's words. I can't hide my sadness on my face. She tried to persuade her mother to support her decision, but failed.

When we decide to do something, the people closest to us are often the first to stand up against it, and all kinds of words will flow out of their mouths.

28-year-old, fighting for his career, it's incredible. No wonder people around you object. But what I want to say is that as long as it is meaningful, it is meaningful to do it later.

Becky stuck to her own ideas and submitted many resumes. Only one company called for an interview. She didn't expect that she was selected into the morning news program, although this program was a hot potato: the ratings almost fell to the bottom, and the production company was cash-strapped.

After Becky took over this program, she sacrificed all her time, devoted herself to this job, and painstakingly hired an old anchor, a resolute and courageous woman, and all her efforts were rewarded.

I think if Becky hadn't stuck to her own ideas, if she had resigned herself to getting married and having children, she wouldn't have achieved what she is now. On the road of life, we will always meet people who make trouble for us in various ways. As long as we know where the future road leads, we don't have to care about anyone's opinion.

Ding Lei used to have a stable job, but despite the strong opposition of his family, he resigned from Ningbo Telecommunication Bureau and went to sea. Ding Lei, who had just arrived in Guangzhou, had no friends. When his future was bleak and difficult, he gritted his teeth to resist the suspicions of all parties and finally founded Netease.

"If you have a problem, Baidu" is a household name. However, when Li Yanhong returned to China to establish Baidu, he received "attention" from all walks of life. He didn't want to do a good job on Wall Street with a high salary, but he had to be a search engine. Everyone is waiting for a joke. However, Li Yanhong has never changed his plan, but has a firm belief and is persistent in moving forward.

If winter is not cold, why can we see spring? Don't let anyone steal your dreams. If you really want to do something, stick to it, regardless of what others say.

Even if we are not as lucky as Ding Lei to get the result we want, even if we are not as successful as Robin Li, even if the result we insist on is not satisfactory, even if we fail in the end, at least we have tried hard and lived up to ourselves, that is enough.

In Wrestling Dad, Mahavia was a national wrestling champion in India, but he was forced to give up wrestling because of life. He hopes to have a son who can fulfill his dream of gold medal instead of having four children in a row, all of whom are daughters.

In India, the status of girls is very low. From the day she was born, she was doomed to do housework when she was young and marry a strange husband when she grew up. Everyone thinks that Machiavelli's dream is hopeless. Can girls learn wrestling?

Unexpectedly, he really taught his daughter to wrestle. The wife couldn't understand it, and the neighbors in the village tried their best to laugh at it. The daughter even refused to learn wrestling, but Mahavia never excused herself. He insisted that her daughter must do as he asked.

He led his daughter out step by step, from a small village to the scene of the national competition, and finally the eldest daughter entered the world-class Commonwealth wrestling competition and won the championship.

Along the way, Mahavia has always been a lonely person. His behavior greatly challenged religious customs and public opinion. No one can understand his persistence. Even his wife thinks he is too selfish to impose his dreams on his daughter.

Xi Murong said in "Monologue", "In retrospect, I suddenly found that all my efforts in this life were just to satisfy the people around me. In order to win the praise and smile of others, I put myself into all the shackles of all patterns with trepidation. On the way, I suddenly found that I only had a vague face and a road that I couldn't turn back. "

Most people in the world are ordinary people who care too much about other people's opinions and expect others' affirmation. When life is over, it is boring to look back on this mediocre life. It is difficult for ordinary people to have the courage like Mahavia. Even if the whole world opposes it, we still insist on fulfilling our dreams.

Follow your heart and do what you want. I know it's hard. It's hard for us not to be influenced by others, it's hard for us not to care about other people's opinions, and it's hard for us to go forward without fear.

Go your own way and let others talk. What are you afraid of? Spread your legs and stride forward. No one you love can stop you from moving forward.