Dad accidentally found his daughter's book of grudges being laughed at. What would you do if you were the father?

If it were me, I would have a good talk with my daughter, seriously reflect on myself, and actively guide her to establish a correct outlook on life.

First, I will take the initiative to communicate with her and ask her why.

Why don't children tell their parents about their grievances, choose to bear them, and choose to write them on the "hate book"? Is it because children don't trust their parents and don't believe that their parents will change? Are children afraid of their parents and being punished by their parents after speaking? These problems must be clarified, otherwise children will have more things to hide from their parents in the future, such as being bullied and choosing not to tell their parents. So I will take the initiative to communicate with her and ask her why she did it. Then dispel the children's concerns and let the children take the initiative to ensure that they must tell their parents as soon as possible in the future.

Secondly, I will seriously reflect on myself and make positive corrections.

Adults always habitually ignore children's feelings and think that children don't understand anything. In fact, children are very smart. Although small, it can't be ignored. Adults should treat children equally, and children need to apologize for doing something wrong. For example, if a child writes "Dad went home and ignored me" and "Dad spoke to me in that tone", it shows that Dad didn't consider the child's feelings. If it were me, I would seriously reflect on myself and actively correct my behavior. At the same time, I solemnly apologize to my children for these behaviors and ask them to forgive me.

Third, I will carefully look at the children's "book of grudges" and actively guide them if there are unreasonable places.

The child's "hate book" is all about the unfair treatment she feels and the place where she feels wronged. But not all grievances are right. For example, "mom buys delicious food and doesn't leave one for me", so we should actively guide the child and tell her that not everyone will let her go, and not everything has to be left to her. She is neither a little princess nor a bully. Don't feel wronged because others don't go with her. I will guide her to be a sensible good child and help her to establish a correct three views.

Children's affairs are no small matter, and children's behavior reflects their psychological state, so parents must pay attention to it.