The old couple showed jokes about love.

Jia Jia sent a photo of her husband cutting his nails in a circle of friends, with the caption "After a long time, let me be stable for a lifetime."

Jia Jia is my classmate. She is an old public company, and she is doing well in financial related industries. She is a local tyrant.

Since the marriage, Jia Jiayi has been at home with peace of mind, and his circle of friends often basks in all kinds of tourist blockbusters, and also basks in the feast of sea races in major hotels. Although I have never seen her husband's true face in a circle of friends, I occasionally sprinkle some dog food like her husband making a midnight snack and her husband touching his head and pinching his face before going to bed.

I once envied Jia Jia's marriage. Her husband was young, promising and gentle. Isn't it the dream of all women to marry such a man?

It wasn't until Jia Jia sent a screenshot of the conversation between her husband and mistress to a circle of friends that we knew that Jia Jia's husband had been having mistress outside, or Jia Jiamo had made a promise, so she could "publicly" spit out mistress in the circle of friends.

Jia Jia said that she was a little frigid and couldn't meet her husband's needs. It is better to let him find a long-term partner than to let him go whoring, so she acquiesced in his keeping a mistress outside. I asked her, aren't you afraid of mistress instigating your husband to divorce?

She said, "No way. My husband loves me and my family. Besides, our son is so big and measured. "

Jia Jia's "open-mindedness" really doesn't fit my three views.

Later, I heard that Xiao San was clamoring for suicide, and Jia Jia's husband was afraid to hide. Finally, Jia Jia came forward to solve the problem and spent some money. My husband finally closed his heart for a period of time and dared not find a mistress again, but he found a new lover in half a year.

Nevertheless, Jia Jia's circle of friends still leads an enviable life. Anyway, the circle of friends can only display the news of the last three days and the last six months.

Foley International Communication Consulting Co., Ltd. conducted an in-depth investigation on the topic of "women, power and money" in the United States, Britain, France, Germany and China.

The results show that women in China are the most dissatisfied with their marriage.

Only 37% of China women agree with the following statement: "In my life, I was very lucky to meet my partner."

Only 20% people agree that "he is the ideal partner I have always dreamed of".

From the results of this survey, we can safely speculate that at least 67% of marriages are pretending to be in love.

Obviously, you usually get up early every day to make breakfast, wake up the child, dress him, feed him, and then send him to school and work by yourself. When I went out, my husband didn't get up yet. Occasionally, he has to get up early to do things and send you and the children out by the way. Friends circle: Happiness is on the road every day.

Going home from work, after dinner, one is doing homework with the child, and the other is watching videos in bed with headphones. What the circle of friends sent is: the years are quiet.

All day, except asking, "Are you coming back for dinner tonight?" I just occasionally send a red envelope from 520 yuan during the Chinese New Year holiday. Of course, this contingency needs to be announced in the circle of friends: you see, I also have dog food.

It's time for bed. You turn off the light and get ready for bed. He still leans back on the bed and looks at the mobile phone. Of course, the appeal of mobile phones is far greater than yours. You are his wife, yes, but the mobile phone is his mistress. How can he be interested in your body when he has a mistress? Asexual marriage is the norm. But at least sleeping in a bed means there is still love. You can upload a photo with two feet and twenty toes hanging at the end of the bed.

Even if you divorce secretly when you can't live, you should pretend to be very happy and loving now.

Remember the scandal in Bai Baihe last year? Let me review it for you. On April 2, 2065438/KLOC-0, Bai Baihe was photographed in a secret meeting in Thailand and was exposed to cheating. April, 2065438+July 13, Bai Baihe and Macho Man were photographed again in the streets of Thailand, and the picture was quite exciting and explicit.

It's nothing new for a star to cheat, and her husband responded in a few days. The two divorced on 20 15. What puzzles the people who eat melons is that in 20 16 years, the two also showed their love in many entertainment programs. At that time, the two had been divorced for almost two years. If they hadn't derailed and exploded, they didn't know how long they would continue to deceive the people.

Stars pretend to love each other because they need to maintain a good image in public. After all, it involves huge economic benefits.

Then why do ordinary people pretend to love each other?

Some people say that China people pretend to love each other's marriage, mostly for the sake of children, in order to create an illusion of loving their parents in front of children, for children to have a complete family, and for children to have a healthy psychology.

I want to say, don't use children as an excuse. Do you think children are so gullible? Doesn't he know how long it's been since he saw his father? Doesn't he know that you sleep in separate beds? Doesn't he know that dad actually doesn't love mom anymore? He knows everything, but he pretends not to know.

You pretend to be happy in your circle of friends just because of vanity. You want to be a winner in life in the eyes of others, including marriage.

But this is what marriage is all about. After so many years of marriage, it is really beyond one's power to love each other as always.

If you ask me, when are you happier to be married and single? This question is related to a hot post on the Internet some time ago, "If it weren't for a child, would you still be willing to marry your current husband in the afterlife?" The answer is the same: in the next life, I want to be a good-looking, intelligent woman who can earn money and never get married.

But we don't have the courage to divorce, after all, there are so many tangled connections. Marriage is a matter for two families, and divorce involves three families.

So what should we do? It's no big deal anyway, so just keep pretending. Life itself needs camouflage, and couples don't need to be naked all the time.

It's just that the circle of friends is unnecessary. They are all people from the besieged city. I don't know who is who. There is no windtight wall in this world. Once a lie is poked by others, it becomes a joke.