Is there an almost universal routine for chasing girls?

Chasing girls is like looking for a job. You should first find a goal that you like and suit, and then try to make the other person accept it, even like yourself.

So we can divide chasing girls into four steps: finding a goal-analyzing the goal-cultivating-making a decisive attack.

How to do it specifically?

1. Target found.

You must find the meaningful goal you set. It is very common that if your goal is the campus beauty, then you can only be a joke.

Remember, diaosi is not impossible to fight back, but when diaosi fights back, he is no longer diaosi.

Essence or value matching.

Therefore, when looking for the pursuit of goals, we must measure whether the value of ourselves and each other matches. Then according to the matching results, choose the target that suits you.

However, it should be noted that it doesn't mean value matching, and it doesn't mean that you are higher than him, and you will certainly succeed.

This is only the beginning, and value matching is possible.

Then we will show the real technology.

2. Target analysis

Is to analyze the needs of girls, that is, to analyze what kind of boys girls like.

The one with glasses in the front row, try Gao Fushuai again! Shallow! Vulgar!

What nonsense? truth ...

Indeed, everyone likes Gao Fushuai!

Like Gao Fushuai is not superficial! Not vulgar! Girls all over the world like it!

Why do girls love money?

This preference also has a history. In primitive times, the era of men plowing and women weaving, until the reform and opening up, men could not reproduce without women, and women could not survive without men. Therefore, men's support for women is the basis of gender relations, and this selection mechanism has been maintained for tens of thousands of years.

It's just that many girls have been financially independent in the past 30 years, and you don't need to raise them. But "the feeling of wanting to be raised by you" is still deeply rooted in their genes.

Just like loving big breasts is something engraved in your genes.

Stephen Chow is not only king of comedy, but also the king of girls. In king of comedy, poor diaosi Yin Tianchou shouted at Liu Piaopiao: "I will raise you!"

Liu Piaopiao earns much more than he does, so he doesn't need to be raised at all.

However, it was this sentence "I support you" that moved Liu Piaopiao and fell in love with him.

Women today don't need your support financially, but you should give her a feeling of "supporting her".

Why do girls like handsome guys?

Although this really doesn't need to be explained, in order to prove that Bian Xiao has indeed read books, Bian Xiao still has to show off: some psychologists have said that staring at handsome guys for 10 minutes every day is equivalent to doing aerobic exercise for 30 minutes, and the average life expectancy can be extended by four or five years.

In addition to the preference for handsome guys, women also have a preference for talented people (men with high IQ) (human beings have entered civilized society for thousands of years, and there is a high IQ in gene selection preference).

We found that at the biological level (the basis of the biological level is DNA, and the internal drive is extremely strong), men actually have only one need for women, that is, reproduction (this is not a materialized woman, which has been the case for tens of thousands of years, and only after the reform and opening up). As for other sociological needs, they are all bred after a full meal.

On the biological level, women have two needs for men: 1, support, and 2, providing excellent genes.

As early as the Warring States period, some people discovered this phenomenon, so the idiom "East food and West lodging" came into being.

At different stages, women sometimes prefer to choose providers, and sometimes prefer gene providers. Many brothers have a misunderstanding that it is good to be a gene provider. In fact, it is difficult for gene providers to enter a stable long-term relationship.

For example, Zhang Zhiming in the series of Meiji Chunjiao is a suitable gene provider. It is often considered unreliable by Yu Chunjiao, and the previous love has also been cuckolded by a powerful provider.

After all, for women, it is inseparable from the provider. Without their gene provider, their offspring's genes are only a little worse (instinctive feeling is that although women can support themselves now, genes will drive them to choose this way) ...

3. Self-cultivation

What girls hate most is not fat or short, but wretched men.

There are three manifestations of meanness: meanness in appearance; The action is obscene; Thought is obscene.

You look obscene.

I won't talk about what my parents can't choose. But you should also pay attention to dressing, right? Shouldn't we violate the minimum taboo? For example: don't wash your hair when you go out, leave a messy hairstyle, smell your body, black shoes with white socks and so on.

Behave lewd

For example, I like the salty pig hand that takes advantage of girls; A villain with a face and back; Dirty men who like to tell dirty jokes in public and so on.

be lacking in ideas

Some boys complain that girls are "money worshippers" when they can't catch up with girls. Although some girls are greedy for money, most girls want to find a reliable boy. If there are problems, we should actively correct them. Why do you want to guess others maliciously?

Decisive attack

(1) Principle: Confidence has a framework.

People who are confident and have a framework know what they want and respect others at the same time. They understand that girls should be attracted, not chased. They would rather spend their time on things that can make them appreciate, on actually improving their inner cultivation and external wealth, and never spend their time desperately kneeling on girls.

(2) "marketing" rather than "selling" yourself.

To make others like you, you need:

1 Explain her high value and make the other person feel that she is "worth having".

Naturally show your proper concern for her and let her feel your affection for her.