Sister's essay

When I got married, my sister came to help me sort out the red envelopes. When people are happy, their spirits are bright. I asked frankly, "Sister, how much bride price did your brother-in-law give you when you got married?"

Elder sister rubbed my newly bought camel hair coat, full of envy, without saying a word. Finally, the elder sister vaguely said, "Go home and feed the children" and left in a hurry. Mom said, you are such a child! I still feel wronged. What is wrong with me? It is normal for my girls to discuss these things together. Who knows she still has taboo things!

Mom said that my sister is a strong person. She can tolerate others being better than her and never feel inferior to anyone. But sometimes I feel wronged, especially in marriage. Elder sister and brother-in-law were introduced by others, and I don't remember which object elder sister took seriously. In those years, my elder sister went on blind dates every so often that no matter who saw her in the village, she dared not say hello, open her mouth or touch her sore spot.

To be honest, my sister is not good-looking. In Chen Hanbai's words, she has a big cake face, but her mouth is small and her eyes are long and thin, which is incongruous to be embedded in the dough. It is said that one white covers three ugliness. But my sister is not white, and her skin is dark and shiny. The most prominent thing is that my sister has a pair of rhubarb teeth. After marriage, my brother-in-law often said, "Oh, I saw my date then. Your sister kept her mouth shut, so I think she was embarrassed. How can I imagine that she is covering her teeth? " I was cheated! I was cheated! "

Of course, this is all a joke. But in my sister's heart, there are still scars. None of us dare say so except my brother-in-law.

My brother-in-law was a professional soldier when dating my sister. Blind date is not from my brother-in-law's original intention, but his mother is eager to catch ducks on the shelves, just taking advantage of her son's return home to visit relatives, and is eager to arrange a "wife" for her, as if someone is really robbing her. Brother-in-law has white skin, big eyes, and is dressed in military uniform. To say this, no one has a secret crush on who is true. The matchmaker is also a hothead, so he said angrily, what's the matter? Leave your phone number for future contact. That's it. I really got in touch in the future. The whole process satisfied one person-the mother-in-law of the eldest sister. She was optimistic about the elder sister, saying that the girl had a big waist and a round waist, which was a good constitution for working. If it weren't for the support of her mother-in-law, the fate of her elder sister and brother-in-law would really be over.

It stands to reason that my brother-in-law is so handsome that he is one year younger than my sister. What happened to her? Said I didn't like my brother-in-law, but I felt a little coy. Actually, it is not. I've seen some people around the world, too. After graduating from junior high school, she entered a technical school. After graduating from technical school, she was directly assigned to work in a Japanese clothing factory. At that time, there was a short monitor who took a fancy to the elder sister. After a long time, the elder sister disagreed. My sister is very opinionated, because the young man is a city dweller, with a city hukou in his hand, and he can take a fancy to himself, but his parents certainly can't agree with him to marry a rural girl. The door is not right, even if you are barely together, you will not be happy.

Big sister worked diligently in the clothing factory for several years. From the apprentice to the master, to the team leader, squad leader and quality inspection section chief, she climbed up all the way, and only she knew the hardships and sufferings inside. When you are an apprentice, you must go earlier than the master in the morning, clean the machine and mop the floor. When eating, give the host a good meal to occupy a good seat, and serve tea and water after dinner. The worst time, the owner's smelly socks were thrown into her washbasin, and the elder sister washed them with tears. After drying, I respectfully returned it to the master, feeling uncomfortable and smiling. In this way, I have never been scolded by my master, and I can't stand it in front of my workmates countless times. It's easy to get through it on your own, and you can also take an apprentice. Elder sister never regards an apprentice as a master. She often says that it is not easy for us to be human, and others are human, at least we are all children from the countryside.

Sister finally resigned from the clothing factory because of that master. At that time, it happened that my eldest brother had finished the college entrance examination and needed money to go to college. Big sister's teacher encouraged her to quit her job with her and go to sea to sell TV screens. The elder sister followed the master to class and felt that there was a market in the city. Besides, the master has sold much better. Follow the big army, there will always be meat to eat. My sister resolutely resigned and joined the trend of entrepreneurs. But who knows, business is not good, and net profit is shouting. Seeing that the master's business is booming, the elder sister has been unable to sell it. One day she secretly inquired about a colleague, who was surprised and asked her, "Don't you know that this thing is going to be popular?" Your master, you have worked in the garment factory for so many years, and there are hundreds of apprentices alone. You don't know anyone here. Come along! "

At that moment, my sister felt cheated. She devoted all her hard-earned money to this cause. Regret and injustice welled up in my heart and my sister cried her eyes out. When I was an apprentice, my sister never cried like this. Later, she went back to her hometown on the pretext that she could not work in a clothing factory because of her prominent lumbar disc. She gave every relative the same gift-a TV screen. Everyone is very grateful to her, and everywhere she goes, she praises her sister for not forgetting her folks when she goes out. Uncle just took this opportunity to borrow money from the villagers and barely paid the tuition for one year.

At that time, most girls stayed in the countryside, and when they were twenty-two or twenty-three, they didn't find anyone, so they became old girls. Elder sister's own condition is not good, and she can't take many photos. Gradually, she was also disheartened, and she was untidy when she went out and entered the door. I still remember the object of nonsense she saw in front of her brother-in-law. At that time, the elder sister went to see him, put on the clothes cooked at home, got on the bike and left. In fact, she really doesn't want the other person to fall in love with herself, because she has a crush on Xiao Song in the village canteen. Xiao Song is the son of the village party secretary, and entering the village shop is all about the face of the village party secretary. Elder sister took a fancy to him, not to please the branch secretary. Xiao Song is diligent, honest and enthusiastic. Every time the elder sister goes shopping, he smiles and says, "Are you coming?" When I left, I politely handed in a sentence: "Let's go? Come on! " It's like seeing guests off at home. Warm words blew away the spring flowers in my sister's heart. The first person who discovered the secret was my aunt, who went shopping with her sister. Menstruation found that her elder sister always had to dress up at home for a long time before going out. And when I get to the canteen, I blush without opening my mouth. My aunt has been there before. I can tell at a glance that the girl promised secretly! I wanted to fix it, but I didn't expect it to be self-defeating I accidentally learned that Xiao Song was engaged. I took advantage of my elder sister's presence, and my little aunt passed on the message with a smile. Elder sister's expression is like a frosted eggplant, and she wilted at once.

Later, a brother-in-law came on a blind date. My sister didn't agree at first, but my uncle was ill, and all the money at home was paid for my eldest brother's tuition, so I couldn't afford to take medicine all the year round. With the consent of the aunt, the eldest sister decided to marry herself decisively and received a bride price of 8,000 yuan. In those days, the bride price of elder sister was pitiful. When a girl gets married, it is at least a bride price of 20 thousand yuan. It's just that she can't say this money, which has become a lifelong grievance.

After getting married, my sister followed her brother-in-law to the army. A year later, my brother-in-law changed his job, and so did my sister. Gal, mother-in-law is not happy, have a crush on the elder, also don't leave face for elder sister, always said that she was wrong, at the beginning because elder sister physical fitness can work to marry home, who knows what didn't get her help. Elder sister is really wronged in her heart, and it is not her decision to join the army. It was also the decision made by the whole family at the meeting. If a person wants to be unreasonable, nothing you can do can satisfy her. My mother-in-law doesn't like elder sister for three days. She either blames her son for listening to his wife, or accuses the old man of favoring his daughter-in-law and making the family restless. When my brother-in-law got angry, he took his sister to Dalian, where they rented a house and worked.

When the elder sister was pregnant with Xinxin, the conditions were really difficult. Mother-in-law sat down and hated it. Big sister made a fuss when she saw the meal. Brother-in-law called and begged her to handle it. She just said some sarcastic words and didn't act. She was so angry that her brother-in-law kept shouting, there is no such mother in the world! I finally got through morning sickness, and my sister was busy with work. The city is full of land and gold, and everything has to be spent. How can you sit at home and eat nothing? When I was pregnant for more than eight months, my eldest sister was still fighting for quality inspection. After work, I fell on the bed when I came in. I don't think so. The other day, my mother-in-law called and said that she would come, which happened to be that day. My brother-in-law went to pick up the station, and when I came back, my elder sister was exhausted and fell asleep. Mother-in-law immediately picked the reason, saying that eldest sister was unfilial and ignored her existence. No matter how her sister and brother-in-law explained it, she didn't listen and went back to her hometown in the countryside the next day.

With such a wayward mother, my brother-in-law is really helpless. After Xinxin was born, my brother-in-law invited my mother-in-law, my aunt, to take care of the children. This will add one person's expenses, and the life that is not superior is even more stretched. Later, the aunt simply brought the children back to their hometown in the countryside to raise them. Another important reason is that elder sister has no milk, and aunt always eats milk powder everywhere, so rural areas are always cheaper than cities.

But it backfired. When the aunt brought Xinxin back, the child was only three months old, and suddenly there was a phenomenon of spitting milk. Aunt didn't care at first. Later, Xinxin vomited more and more. The milk she had just eaten was poured out intact in a short time, and there was no digestion at all. Xinxin became a temporary milk storage place and became thinner and thinner. Aunt panicked. She raised two children by herself and helped take care of her brothers and sisters' children. No child vomited so much. Aunt hurriedly sent Xinxin back to Dalian.

Big sister took the baby to the hospital for examination, as if she had been hit by a bolt from the blue-pyloric stenosis. My aunt has lived half her life, and this disease is really unheard of. The doctor comforted with a straight face: "Nothing, nothing serious. It will be solved with a minor operation! "

"surgery? ! "Aunt heard these three words and immediately fainted in the chair in the hospital corridor. Isn't operating on such a small child hurting her vitality? A thousand ... Aunt doesn't want to think here, but she is afraid!

My sister's eyes were red, so I made a detailed inquiry The doctor patiently explained that pyloric stenosis is actually a common disease. For example, the human intestine is like a winding hose, and there is a place called pylorus, which is not as wide as it should be, so it is blocked. Do a small operation, cut that small piece out and sew it on.

On the day of the operation, the doctor authorized the elder sister to go in to accompany her. Sister didn't get in. She is such a strong person, from Yan Yan being anesthetized to being sent back to the ward, the whole process, tears have not dried. Since then, no matter how hard life is, my sister has never thought about letting Xinxin stay away from herself.

Xinxin was discharged from the hospital soon. My sister took a long vacation and took Xinxin back to her parents' home to take good care of her. Every day, she takes a bus to the children's clinic dozens of miles away for anti-inflammatory injections. I wanted to take Xinxin back to her mother-in-law's house for a few days after she was completely well, so as to relieve her mother-in-law's yearning for her grandson, but her mother-in-law couldn't help it and found the clinic directly. In the clinic, in front of everyone, her mother-in-law scolded her sister: "What are you? ! You think you are capable, don't you? ! Not even going home! How dare you be such a mother after all the trouble you have caused the children? ! Huh? ! Why don't you talk? ! "

Mother-in-law became more and more angry and shook her elder sister with her hands up, regardless of whether she was holding the child or not. Aunt is angry and can't stand her mother's bullying. She held out her hand and tried to push it away from her daughter. Suddenly, my mother-in-law shouted that they were bullying her in partnership and pushed her to the ground. The elder sister was so angry that she shouted, "Can you stop it? ! "

At this time, I felt that there was no way to end it, and finally dialed the phone of my brother-in-law.

A farce barely subsided under the roar of his brother-in-law. The hatred between mother-in-law and elder sister is getting deeper and deeper. Xinxin recovered almost, and her sister took him back to Dalian. Before leaving, the elder sister held the baby for her mother-in-law, who twisted her face and looked at the wall without looking. When my father-in-law came out to see my sister off, my mother-in-law swore on the kang. My father-in-law said, Xiaer, don't take it to heart. Your mother has been like this for years. You will be relieved if you are far away. The elder sister said to her father-in-law in tears, "Don't worry, Dad, I don't blame my mother."

Sister, it seems that my mother-in-law is going to die of old age this time. On holidays, other children go home happily, and the elder sister also buys big bags and pretends to go home happily. Mother-in-law always smiles at her son and grandson, that is, she always shows her face to her eldest sister. My sister doesn't care, always thinking that one day my mother-in-law will think of her good son. However, on the first month of the lunar calendar, her mother-in-law suddenly lost her temper and drove her elder sister out of the house, claiming that the elder sister would hinder her in the New Year. I'm puzzled, not just because Xinxin scatters melon seeds everywhere. The elder sister said in front of her mother-in-law, "Where did you learn?" . Why did you get kicked out of the house? Facing the cold cooker, the elder sister couldn't help but burst into tears. In a rage, my brother-in-law left home with his elder sister and Xinxin, and never went back for two years.

My mother-in-law actually misses her grandson. But big sister doesn't know what to do to please her mother-in-law. Later, I broke up. Whenever there is a holiday in May 1 day, 1 1 day, my brother-in-law will take Xinxin back to her mother-in-law's house, while my sister will go to her aunt's house alone. My aunt is outspoken and can't help but feel wronged for her elder sister: "How can I buy this and that for such a mother-in-law?" If I were you, I would have ignored her! I won't keep it when I'm old. "Aunt sighed and complained that my mother was old and didn't respect people. It was too much. The elder sister disagreed, holding a lot of sticks to fill under the stove, and she forced a smile and said, "menopause." "This disease is prevalent in the city!"

Big sister never thought that her mother-in-law would soften, just like hay in winter, and spring would come back. Big sister thinks that her mother-in-law is like this, but it is more elusive than grass. You never know when she will get sick.

Finally, one day, my mother-in-law called. She cried at the top of her lungs on the phone, and it took her brother-in-law a long time to understand that her father suddenly died of a cerebral infarction. This time, the elder sister and her brother-in-law went back together. The elder sister has made up her mind that even if her mother-in-law sweeps herself out of the house with a broom, she will go back to be filial to her father-in-law. When the old man was alive, the elder sister didn't do filial piety around, and now she is on the other side. I must send this trip well anyway.

What the elder sister didn't expect was that her mother-in-law shrank as a whole, like a helpless child. Seeing her curled up in the corner with tears on her face, the elder sister couldn't help jumping on her and crying. My mother-in-law has only one son and no daughter in her life. My sister thinks she is her mother-in-law's own daughter, as close as her little cotton-padded jacket. Now mother needs a small cotton-padded jacket to resist the cold wind, and sister is duty-bound

The eldest sister greeted the conductor at the funeral and took good care of her mother-in-law's daily life and diet. My mother-in-law really fell down this time, and she has no strength anymore. A fire dried her stool and she couldn't get better after taking the medicine. Seeing her mother-in-law's face was yellow and black, the elder sister decided to do it-try to defecate her mother-in-law with other tools, but the tools were too hard to master and she bled several times. Elder sister slowly dug it out with her fingers ... Even so, her mother-in-law began to cry loudly, crying and howling: "Xia Er ..."

After the funeral, the elder sister and Xinxin stayed at home with their mother-in-law for a week. My mother-in-law looks at Xinxin every day, her heart slowly disappears, and she laughs more and more every day. My sister said, "Mom, why don't you go to Dalian with us? Help us look after the children, and we will go to work to earn money. "

My mother-in-law blushed and murmured, "No."

The elder sister knew her mother-in-law's temper and was embarrassed, so she stopped talking and secretly asked her brother-in-law to persuade her. My mother-in-law is still stubborn. Big sister has no choice but to stare at her, call if anything happens, and emphasize emphatically: "call me, not steel." Sometimes he is too noisy to hear at work. "

My mother-in-law nodded tearfully: "Hehe ... I know ..."

The night before returning to Dalian, her mother-in-law called her elder sister to her side, took out a small red handkerchief bag that clung to her body with trembling, and shook the rope for a long time before opening it. A finely crafted white jade bracelet immediately appeared in front of my sister. Mother-in-law took the elder sister's hand and carefully put the bracelet on her wrist. In her eyes, she shed tears for you and wrote, "My grandparents left this for her wife ..."

My sister's surge of emotion flooded the grievances over the years, and tears welled up in her eyes, dripping on the white jade bracelet, reflecting the glittering and translucent room. ...