My deskmate said I was very stupid when I played, I was not serious, I played a lot of jokes, and sometimes even made people feel naive, but in fact I was more mature than anyone else.

When people say you are naive, you take it seriously.

It shows that your mind is still in the stage of being easily influenced by others.

Besides, you think you are mature when you are serious, but it's not.

It's just calm after getting rid of madness and simpleness.

It has nothing to do with maturity.

You are still a hundred miles away from maturity, son.

Childishness means that you are childlike, not a bad thing. You can't judge such things?

People say that you are naive because of other people's own preferences. Your deskmate is not a saint or a national leader.

He is just an ordinary person. What others say about you is just a side suggestion. If you think it is right, you accept it.

If you think it is wrong, you ignore it, instead of worrying about the comments made by others' own preferences. He will also make mistakes, and he also has personality shortcomings. You should also observe the shortcomings of your deskmate. If he makes an evaluation of you and you accept it, but you make an evaluation of him and he doesn't accept it, then his evaluation is insignificant, < P > because he is the kind of person who points fingers at others and lacks personality defects.