I thought of it from Mr. Lu Xun’s criticism of the spectators

When I read Carnegie's "Weaknesses of Human Nature" in the past, I could often feel the same way, and I found that most of the people around me were just like what was said in the book. So I sketched in the book, wrote some notes and insights, and sometimes Thinking of some people is like looking at a skin in a mirror, reflecting some of the ugliness in oneself. I secretly believe that human nature is very complex, and good and evil are not constant. For example, people who seem to be extremely evil also have moments when their humanity shines. Most of the prisoners in prison commit crimes due to impulse, while well-dressed gentlemen , but behind closed doors, some shameful and ugly behaviors were committed. But in the end, human nature is complicated, so complicated that it contradicts each other. Sometimes it is cute, sometimes it is absurd, sometimes it is cruel, and sometimes it is sad. I don’t know why I wrote this, after all, I sometimes fall into deep confusion and contradiction.

One of the bad qualities of Chinese people mentioned in Lu Xun’s novels a hundred years ago and in his remarks is the onlooker mentality. The general meaning is that when people feel wronged, they always tell it to the people around them in order to gain the attention and sympathy of others. Even if the raw materials are not enough to express sadness, they will make up and exaggerate it to describe their own grievances and others'. Tell the onlookers all your faults together, and it is not enough to say it over and over again. It is not enough for one person, and everyone around you must know it. The spectator Nuoran echoed a few words, and he felt at ease and relaxed a little. He finally found a partner in the same camp, and then together they accused and crusaded against the person who had wronged him.

But spectators are spectators after all. People who are idle like to gossip and gossip most. If there is no interesting entertainment in life, they will feel uncomfortable. At this time, someone happens to come to complain, so they pretend to listen, but in fact they are eager to hear these scandals. The harder the complainer works, the happier the onlookers feel. The complainer thinks that speaking out will win sympathy and comfort, but little does he know that in the eyes of the onlookers, It's just a rare source of laughter and entertainment. People are eager to know the grievances you have lived so that they can find a negative contrast in their own lives.

Therefore, people like to compare, people like to be vain, and they deceive themselves and others. Lu Xun’s onlooker phenomenon was like this a hundred years ago, and it will still be like this a hundred years later.

After all, I feel a pity in my heart. When I feel wronged, of course I am willing to find someone to talk to, but if I talk to anyone, I will be laughed at. What's more, it would be too stupid to pretend to be grievances out of thin air when there is no grievance, so as to attract attention and form a public opinion advantage, and achieve the purpose of bullying others.

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