I heard from other places that my friend's husband had bone cancer, and my friend didn't want me to know. How can I comfort him at this time?

He doesn't want you to know, he doesn't want you to worry, or he's afraid you'll laugh when you know.

In the first case, your relationship should be very good. She doesn't want you to worry. She knows you, and she knows you'll be sad about it. At this moment, you should tell her that you are good friends and that you will always be with her and support you behind your back. These words are a little disgusting at ordinary times, but in this case, they are a great supplement to her spirit.

In the second case, naturally she will stop treating you as a friend, so you don't have to worry too much. It's none of your business. Don't say anything else. In her opinion, anything you say is ironic.

There is a third situation. You're just ordinary friends, not necessary. Just say a few polite words, such as my condolences. By the way, for example, pay attention to your health and don't tire yourself out, for example, relax.

However, the humanitarian spirit tells us that if we are well off and the other party needs it, we'd better give something practical, which is more useful than any consolation!