Li Shangyin and Lin Daiyu are both very emotional people. Why does Lin Daiyu hate Li Shangyin?

Because of her parents' death, Lin Daiyu had to live in her grandmother's house, which led to her sentimental side, but Lin Daiyu didn't like her personality very much, so Lin Daiyu didn't like Li Shangyin's poems. Lin Daiyu is a poetic and open-minded girl by nature, so she prefers Wang Wei's pastoral poems.

From Lin Daiyu's poems such as Flowers Buried Poem, Peach Blossom Poem and Catkin Poem, we can see that Lin Daiyu's poems are very close to Li Shangyin's poems, and they are all lamenting their bitter life experiences and expressing their unhappy feelings. But in the forty-seven chapters of A Dream of Red Mansions, Lin Daiyu made it clear that she didn't like Li Shangyin's poems, which is not surprising.

Lin Daiyu was brought up by a man, and her parents regarded her as the apple of their eye. She should have lived a carefree and comfortable life, but because of her mother's early death, she had to live in Jiafu. Although she has grandma's love, she still has to care about it from time to time and pay attention everywhere. This kind of life is obviously not her favorite, so she is in Jiafu, but she always thinks about her hometown.

Although people regard her as a mistress on the surface, they actually don't regard her as a member of the Jia family. Even Baoyu's maid Xiren dared to openly say that she was not from the Jia family, and Zhou Rui's family dared to send flowers to Daiyu for visiting. How can the sensitive Daiyu not notice other people's tiny thoughts? Therefore, every time she reads Li Shangyin's poems, it is a kind of harm to her, and she can only reject Li Shangyin involuntarily and from the heart.

Xichun was going to drop out of school for a year to paint the Grand View Garden. Daiyu made fun of Xichun and Baochai, telling jokes that made everyone laugh, and then deliberately accused Li Wan of making a scene with everyone, showing her naive nature.

Daiyu is a poetic and romantic woman. She had a little conflict with her sweetheart Baoyu and was very unhappy. When going out, she also told Zijuan not to put down the gauze drawer, and then put down the curtain until the swallow came back. Xiaoxiang Pavilion is a picture of harmony between man and nature. Is this very similar to Wang Wei's poem?

Therefore, Daiyu's nature should be as peaceful, quiet and ethereal as Wang Wei's poems, but as miserable as Li Shangyin's poems because of family changes. How could she hate Li Shangyin instead of Wang Wei?