Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't quarrel every day. Mother-in-law speaks ill of each other outside. Will outsiders laugh at one side or both?

To outsiders, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often makes people feel that the family is not harmonious, not just one party's fault or ridiculous. This kind of family contradiction is often complicated, involving many factors such as history, culture and values, which cannot be simply evaluated or laughed off.

When dealing with such contradictions, family members should try their best to solve problems rationally, instead of blaming each other or spreading negative information about each other. If both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can handle contradictions rationally, respect each other's feelings and try to solve problems, then outsiders will think that this is a mature and rational family, not a family full of quarrels and disharmony.