What should I say when I go out with a girl for the first time

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.

M thinks you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.

Chasing people.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.

Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must have psychology if they rush directly to have sex.

Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start with ambition,

When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.

You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. Anyway, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then this girl won't have a chance to "refuse" you-why don't you go after her?

Reject you? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to get married after three days of knowing each other

Give you full contact and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. I have a good friend who told me to chase girls.

The key to children is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't let things turn into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get a chance to get close to girls. this is

It depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find out the most suitable one.

Invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "you get something for nothing", you are putting pressure on others by giving something like this, and others will feel indebted to you, so they will.

Find a way to repay you If you can't, find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive one.

Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people instead of.

Is to turn it into something to take home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good, talk about everything"

Friend ",on a sunny afternoon, you" accidentally "pulled her hand; "On the willow tip, you suddenly attack.

Kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

friends.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious.

: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!"

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend.

Only in this way can you express yourself to others and it will come naturally. Many people don't understand this problem and always think that people promise to be themselves first.

Girlfriend, and then what? What? I can only say.

He is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky, similar to the severe backwardness when playing Go.

The other side was forced to release the "winner". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "love

"Is a sacred word, meaning pursuit, commitment, and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you

Study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, so you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who didn't graduate from elementary school will earn you 600 yuan a month, even if it's good for you.

700 yuan's gift (overdraft) is willing to be a cow and a horse for you, and you won't fall in love with her. If she cries every day,

Listen, you must be bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MM are really snobbish (a few).

If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time" and never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".

(Time: I just started to contact MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.

M thinks you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future and you are not satisfied.

Be content with the status quo, and you will have long-term plans. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.

Chasing people.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.

Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must have psychology if they rush directly to have sex.

Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start with ambition,

When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as "friends", which is originally "ordinary friends"

About gift giving:

As long as it is sincere, it is the best!

Give her a day of meticulous care!

The truth is best seen in plain!

Let her feel the warmth you brought her in the cold winter!

I believe she will be moved by you!

Come on, brother! Believe in yourself! I wish you an early return to beauty! ! ! ! :)