My wife and male colleagues went to the hot springs. When I found out, she decided to divorce me. Should I stay?

It is almost certain that your wife is having an affair. It turns out that my wife and male colleagues went to the hot springs. It was my wife's fault. For her, knowing that she is a married lady, she can't have much contact and contact with the opposite sex, but this girl ignored your dignity and her virginity and went to the hot springs with others, doing things that ordinary people can't understand. Instead of apologizing to you, she will resolutely divorce you, which is totally unnecessary.

First, she may be looking for an excuse to break up with you and go to the hot springs with her male colleagues, which shows that she has no feelings for you. If a girl has feelings for a boy, she pays great attention to her husband's feelings, especially if the opposite sex goes to hot springs, she will definitely tell her husband, ask his permission, or not go at all. And your wife actually chose to go, which means she doesn't have you in her heart.

Second, she doesn't like you. After you found out, she didn't choose to apologize to you, but chose to divorce, which shows that she has completely lost her affection for you. You know, in this case, instead of apologizing to you, she will resolutely divorce you, which shows that she must not like you, but hates you from the bottom of her heart. In this case, there is no need to stay.

Third, a woman's heart is hard to take back. A woman who loses your heart can't get it back, like a wild horse. Therefore, for girls, unlike boys, they will not betray themselves easily. If they have never liked you, they really don't like you, and they won't like you at all. So this situation suggests that you can choose to divorce by agreement. After all, giving each other the most beautiful dignity is also a fig leaf, so that both sides will not be too ugly. If you just stay, it will not achieve the expected effect, and even make both sides look ugly and pay a heavier price.

So to sum up, I suggest that you don't need to recover. In this case, you can simply make a decision and choose to divorce immediately.