I once seriously liked a person, and I could give everything for her. Later, I found out that it was a joke, and I was not moved when I met the most beautiful one.

This is a typical love incompetence. People who love incompetence are generally afraid of establishing intimate relationships with others. Because they have a deep resistance to love.

This may be because they were overindulgent when they were young and felt the pressure and tension of love. Or lack of love since childhood, so I feel inferior in my bones and dare not get too close. As an adult, I feel alienated and uncomfortable about love, thinking that love brings a feeling of being surrounded and bound.

The concept of love incompetence comes from a book of the same name. In this era of pursuing "money" and self, people's desires are increasing, and love is becoming more and more fragile and even vulnerable. And a disease is quietly popular around us. This disease is called "love incompetence".

Treatment:

Generally speaking, the incompetence of love is largely related to the alienation and doting on our parents when we were young. We have experienced trauma in the process of growing up, which leads to our lack of the most objective understanding of love.

But when you can face up to your own problems and learn to love, you will be cured and cured from the incompetence of love.