How well does a woman live in marriage? Why can you tell from her attitude towards her family?

Regarding marriage, I saw someone say, "Many people don't get married, not because they think marriage is not important, but because it is important."

Marriage is very important for everyone, especially for women. It may decide whether a woman is happy or not in this life.

Besides love, there are many other things that determine whether a woman can be happy in her life. Family, career, even men's attitudes.

A woman with a happy marriage must have a good state and appearance. On the contrary, if a woman is sad all day and believes in her marriage, she must be unhappy.

The happiness and misfortune of a woman's marriage can actually be clearly felt by her family.

Although a woman is married, I believe that her family will always be her warm harbor and the place she can rely on when she is sad.

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In fact, judging whether a woman's marriage is happy or not depends on her attitude towards her family.

Xiaowan and Qiu Qiu have different attitudes towards their parents' family. Whether her marriage is happy or not can be seen from their attitude towards her parents' family.

Xiaowan, 26, has been married for more than half a year.

According to Xiaowan, she and her husband were introduced by their families because her parents thought it was time for her to get married and start a family. If she doesn't get married again, she may be laughed at.

So, after dating her husband for several months, they got married in a hurry. Xiaowan was disappointed by the hasty wedding. This is not the marriage she wants.

Xiaowan rarely contacted his family and rarely went back after he got married.

Even if she goes back to her mother's house, she doesn't want to say much to her family, because she is unhappy and complaining that her family is anxious to marry her.

At home, she has to take care of her husband's daily life and clean the housework. It can be said that she has become a housewife at a young age.

My husband doesn't let her dress up and seldom accompany her. He always says that the work pressure is great, but it's not good for her.

In fact, Xiaowan's performance is understandable. After all, she has a bad life, and there is always a little resentment in her heart.

Xiaowan always believed that if her parents hadn't forced her to marry her current husband, she wouldn't have lived so hard. Maybe she will meet a good man who really loves her, and then she will be much happier.

But everything stopped under the pressure of parents.

Qiu Qiu, 3 1 year old, married for two and a half years.

Qiu Qiu's attitude towards her family is nothing.

She often sends things home, drives home to see her parents on holidays and buys some supplements and clothes for her parents. She is grateful to her parents for raising her for so many years.

She has been married for more than two years, and often brings her parents over to play and takes them around with her husband.

She touched her parents very much. She felt that she had a wonderful day because her parents gave her life. If she hadn't met her husband today, she wouldn't feel so happy.

Qiu Qiu can be said to be a spoiled person. Only when her husband dotes on her and gives her a lot of love will she thank and give back to her parents.

If the married life is not good, there is no time and energy to take care of others.

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From Xiaowan and Qiu Qiu's different performances, we can see different living conditions.

A person who is proud of his marriage will be grateful to his family, but if a woman cares about herself, she will naturally stop caring about her family and even complain.